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I have an extra curricualr activity. There's this guy there. His name is Gabriel. He's not the hottest guy in the world, but I think he's totally nice. We have a lot in common. We see eachother once a week, and talk on AIM. We're in different grades. He's in 8th, I'm in 7th. We don't go to the same school, and won't be able to see eachother over the summer. I really care about him, but he doesn't know. My friends think he's ugly, and that even if he is nice, he's not worth it because he's ugly. I don't care about looks so much. I'm really shy too...

What should I do?

I think you should definately keep in touch with him. It's hard to find good, nice guys out there and you found one. Who cares what your friends think, this isnt about what their opinions are its about what you feel. Not being able to see him alot isnt a big thing, you guys wont get tired of eachother and your relationship will just get stronger and stronger. Looks don't matter.. I liked a guy with freckles and red hair.. if it wasnt for his personality hed be ugly and no girl would like him. But he was so sweet and his personality was the greatest, everyone liked him! dont worry about your friends.. the guy seems like a great person ;-).. hope it helps

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In english class we're doing a project and we have to read it outloud. Last time when i was reading something outloud evry1 lauged at me! (Darn my squeeky voice) Anyways, i dunt want 2 read mine outloud! What should i do??

you read it.. they are just being immature.. your voice is your voice so use it.. they are gonna have to deal with that and you'll live

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Ok i have a friend,call her Terry. Well she has a b/f and so do i.I wouldnt say im pretty,but she is very pretty.Anyways, her boyfriend wanted to see a pic of my b/f. She showed him some one SOOO NOT MY BOY FRIEND!! well Terry's b/f said "ohh...i woudlnt expect her to have a handsom boyfriend anyways" Terry did nothing about it but show me. I was sad,i dont no what to do,and WHY im feeling sad. Can someone give me help?
Signed ,
Ugly.

screw her! girl you are beautiful and never let anyone tell you otherwise.. you have a boyfriend so you are very lucky.. lots of pretty girls dont even have a boyfriend.. people are ignorent.. dont listen to them and dont be sad!.. much love, and keep your head up

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my best friend and i have always stuck 2gether, but lately she found this other friend who she keep on hanging out with...i know that you are allowed to have more than one close friend, but i kinda feel hurt that she rather hang out with that girl then me. She has been totally ditching me lately. she acts like i am her best friend when the other girl isn't aroung though, but not the same as she used to...please don't tell me to forget about her because i just can't...please help...
thanx a bunch!

listen.. you dont need her.. a best friend isnt going to ditch you.. talk to her first and if she doesnt change then oh well.. there are plenty of nice people out there who im sure would love to be your friend.. my best friend ditches me for her boyfriend alot, and when she does i will just go talk to other people and make new friends.. thats what you should do.. make new friends and she will eventually come back to you.. hope it helps

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I am desperate to get my ex-boyfriend back. He doesn't want to get back together because we fight alot. I will do anything. How can I get him back?

dont fight.. be yourself.. be sweet and nice.. let him know you care about him.. dress up nicely, go out wherever he goes this weekend and start up a conversation.. try not to fight or say anything smart.. hope it helps

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This morning my boyfriend is being a major jerk. I don't know why, but it's like he doesn't even care how I feel today. I wish he would just talk to me. I am trying to send him hints, but it's not working! How can I get his attention?

maybe you should just leave it alone for today.. everyone has their bad days and maybe he just wants to be left alone right now.. ask him if everythings ok and try figuring out whats wrong.. hope it helps

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my boyfriend always trys to get me to do things in front of other guys... and when i dont' he gets mad and says stupid and prude. he gets his other guy friends to rag on me. and the other night i was on my rag. he wouldn't leave me alone.. so i took out all my anger on him... then he told me i was lucky to have him... hes realy sweeet wen nobody else is around.. and i dont' want to break up with him...what should i do?

tell him you dont want to always do things infront of his guy friends just so he looks good.. do what you want when your with him.. if he doesnt leave you alone when you want to be left alone.. you should break up with him.. he might be using you just to look good infront of his friends.. if he really loves you he will understand you.. hope it helps

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Okay, so one of my friends is having a B-Day party on Friday. She's inviting a bunch of people. She claims that she is my BFF, and she loves me as a friend so much. The problem is that whenever i go to her parties, she ignores me and hangs around with her other friends, and NEVER talks to me. Should i go ?

yea you should go.. even if she does ignore you who cares.. talk to other people, you dont have to have her attention to have a good time

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hey i love your advice column! ok i have a huge question...what are somethings that i can do(actions) to make my bf want to kiss me more?

hey, thanks... find out what turns him on.. make him chase you and want you.. flirt with him alot, sit on his lap, dance on him.. wear sexy outfits.. tease him by giving a quick kiss on the lips then turn away so he'll be wanting more, things like that.. dont be shy, guys want girls to make the first moves too sometimes.. hope this helps and if you have any other questions just leave one in my inbox! :-)

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lately, i've felt really sad, and i've felt all alone. i'm 8th grade/f, and i feel like a guy could fill up a space :( what can i do??
-all alone-

be flirtatious... meet guys and talk to them alot.. i know how you feel, just hang out with your friends alot more, have fun!

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hey my friends going through suthing right now to get over a guy what are some songs that just mean "basically im over you and dont need you" because im really proud of her and i want to make her a cd of songs wtih this point

thanx ill rate high

survivor by destinys child
woop-t-woo by olivia'
since you been gone by kelly clarkson
gone by kelly clarkson
the last song by the all american rejects
aint gonna cry no more by monica
hope it helps

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how can i convince a girl to like me?what can i say to make her like me as a boyfriend

be nice and sweet.. joke around with her but dont be mean..guys are ignorent to girls alot and it makes them mad.. the guys i like are easy to talk to, the ones you know wont make fun of you and will understand you.. notice the little things that make her pretty.. girls love to get compliments, be flirtations but DO NOT chase her.. thats a total turn off.. play a little hard to get from time to time.. hope it helps

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Is there any good brand of masacra that anyone knows about that makes your eyelashes seem longer and doesn't look clumpy and flake under your eyes? Im currently using Maybelline mascara and by the time half the day is down some of it flakes and lands under my eyes and makes me look like I'm dead...which is not good. Can anyone help me?

theres one called unstoppable.. im not sure which brand it is.. i think maybelline..but it works really good.. it makes your lashes up to 30% longer and it doesnt smudge

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My family is know for having a history of skin cancer/moles. I have a mole on my right cheek and i really dont like it.. everybody thinks its really pretty... but i dont see how... should i get it removed? i really wanna ask my mom... but im not sure how... any ideas? or should i leave it?

i think you should keep it.. alot of celeberites have them, they add detail to your face.. people even draw moles on to look pretty.. i have a few and im sure most people have atleast 1 mole on their body.. theres really no point in getting it removed unless its going to cause cancer.. so you should probably ask about that

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ok, so i am going shopping and i like sean john but i'm an oero (black on the outside white on the inside) and i was wondering if sean john is a black or white person brand??

not to be judgmental.. but black.. its ok to wear it tho

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ok im not very thin or anything and i usually wear around a size 7, but yesterday i got a pair of jeans from Holister and they were a size 1 and a pair or A&F shorts that were a size 2. are the sizes supposed to be that big or what? id appreciate any feedback!

thats kind of weird.. i thought abercrombie and hollister ran small.. hollisters jeans were pretty big in the butt on me though.. so maybe you have a small waist and a bigger butt.. not that thats bad.. its actually lucky.. if your shorts are like gym shorts they pretty much stretch out to fit anyone

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So this one boy tells me that he loves me. And I don't love him. But he really seems to mean it. How do I respond to that statement if I don't love him back and I don't wanna lie?

sayy something like... thats really sweet of you, your a great friend but im sorry.. i just dont like you that way.. haha sorry if that didnt help, im sorta bitchy when it comes to telling guys i dont like them :-/

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Ok I have this PIT feeling inside of me--I think that Britney and Justin should totally get back together..I know that some of you may not be their biggest fan, but please don't reply to this unless you want a negative rating. I think that they BELONG together..and this feeling is really bothering me..I hope that in the future they will get back together...I don't know why I'm feeling this way but it seems like it's meant to be. Now, I know I have no right to decide who should be together since I don't know what really went on in their relationship...but If they're not together, it seems like everything isn't right. I love Britney Spears..she's an inspiration to me...and Justin is just amazing also. I'm soo sorry if this is long but I just need to get it out. Don't you think they belong together?? This feeling in me is really strong..

i definately agree.. i dont have like a storng feeling about it and think its so wrong that they arent together.. but yea they should be together.. i mean they are both hot solo pop singers who make the cutest couple.. britney spears is really good, and i always loved justin.. but i guess thats just not how they think and we dont really know their personal lives.. but yea i agree with you

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Anyone know any music videos to download which have hip-hop dancing in?

Or anysite that teach hip-hop online or anyone will teach me bassic stuff online like tips n step by step stuff?
lush me x

the ciara "oh" video.. "shake your tail feather" nelly.. just go to google and type in hip hop dancing.. hope it helps

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hey, im meeting with my girlfriend today, and prolly a few other friends, what are ideas that we could do outside, like putt putt or somthing, im up for anything!

you should walk somewhere to eat.. or play football, girls might not be good at it but its fun and it gives you a chance to be all over her :-P basketball would be fun too.. or just walking to the park.. have fun

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