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i want a music video to put on my myspace about love any love country or rap or hip hop whatever just a sweet slow song without cussing or smacking asses and so on please help me!!! if it can be unique thatd be great!!!

"tim mcgraw" and "teardrops on my gutair" and "oh my my my (marys song)" by taylor swift....
-hayley

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On Can You Duet, Brownell and Richey sang a song and it went something about gonna take a freight train down to the station, aint nobody gonna know. I think this is how it goes. Anyways if you know the song I am talkin about let me know.

it might be cant you see by the marshall tucker band??
-hayley

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k i have a few questions about precum.
1. does it always contain sperm?
2. how often do people actually get pregnant from it? yes i know it's possible, but does anyone actually know of anyone who has?
i've had sex without protection but he did not cum in me. we pull out before he's even close. (i know, its stupid. i wont do it again) but i just want to know my chances of being pregnant from precum.
thanks!

1. of course
2. sometimes but i think it is very little of a chance. I dont know of anyone who has gotten pregnant that way.
-hayley

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ok my bf suggested we try anal sex, because it can't get me pregnant and we don't really have a way of getting condoms. has anyone on here tried it before? how bad does it actually hurt? can i damage anything inside of me?

my friend tried it and she said it hurt like hell...and yeah you can seriously damage things. and actually you still could get pregnant if there was some ejaculation seepage and it went in your vagina. If you do try it though...make sure you clean up before anything else!
-hayley

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you can only get HPV by having sex right?

i dont think so..
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hpv
-hayley

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f/14
befre i start off ... plz dont bother me about being too young
i've been in love with a guy (he's in love with me too ) he was the one i had my first kiss with and we've been in love for over a year ... hes been so good to me and i know im ready to do it with him but the farthest ive been with him is a blowjob ... i really want more but i always get scared that the sex will hurt (im a virgin)
does sex hurt the first time
would it help if i masturbate
i really am ready for this i know it for sure so i dont want people saying that u better make sure he's the one
THANK YOU ! :)

it could hurt..but you could also not...just depends..you get tense and it will hurt worse...but chances are if you are a virgin then it will hurt...use a condom...
-hayley

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Can I Can I get pregnant the day after my period has ended? Even if the guy did not release his sperm inside me?

yeppers
-hayley

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well i heard that if you have sex to much your vagina gets loose.how does that happen?

penis goes in..
vagina stretches..
repeat..

-hayley

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if you give a guy a blowjob , will you get an STD ? and how do you know if you have and STD?

you can...and sometimes a condom dont always help...and it usually takes a while to show up..like a year...but if you get any sores in or around your mouth...get it checked out
-hayley

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what if when you have sex for the first time, and your hymen doesnt break...
is that possible?

yeppers
-hayley

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i am a 18 year old female and i have met these two people online. they are a couple and are interested in maybe getting together to hook up.. i have been feeling like i am maybe bisexual and maybe this could help me figure that out. the thing is i'm kinda scared to meet up with them just because they are strangers and all. but i have talked to them and they seem real and not creepy. i just need some advice on what to do because i really want to but something bad could happpen. please help.

Have you ever heard that song by brad paisley?? online?? if not here listen to it...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7GcVnhNjWV0

it should answer you questions
-hayley

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Ok, i know this is weird and probably i know the answer but i just wanna know...is there a chance you could get pregnant from having anal sex? Me and my bf kinda did it before. he wasn't in there that long and he kinda pre-d...im just really curious

(im a girl by the way xD)

nope unless it started to drip into it or he did insert it in your vagina afterwards (which i hope he cleaned up first)
-hayley

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what does nut in you mean?

a guy has released his fluids in you
-hayley

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i cant orgasm. what are some ways i cant increase my chances of doing it?

switch positions and realllly want it...dont focus on it just like get in the mood for it...and be agressive and use foreplay...maybe do some role playing...
-hayley

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well today i told my boyfriend that i had sex with another guy back in december when i cheated on him and he called me a slut but then he was the one who had like 25 girlfriends and slept with all of them i feel really bad for sleeping with the person i cheated with. am i a slut or did he make a bad judgement

he could be joking
or he could be serious
but yeah only you could have told...

no you are not a slut for sleeping with one guy. Maybe he is just trying to reverse the situation to make you seem like the bad guy.
-hayley

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13/f
***soon to be freshman***

so there is this guy i like. his name is tyler. he flirts a lot. we dont realyl hang out much. but he flirts a lot and i think i do to. we have like 2 weeks of school and i dont know if he likes me or not. and i am really old fashioned and i dont think that girls should ask out guys... what should i do?

just give it time and see what happens...
-hayley

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How Many years of college fulltime/partime to become a Medical Examiner?

college plus 4 years of medical school plus three years of pathology residency plus a year of fellowship if you want to be a medical examiner in a large metropolitan area. In rural areas in the US, many medical examiners have less training- they have finished medical school, done a residency in general medicine or some other primary care specialty, and take on the medical examiner job because they are better qualified than anyone else in their immediate area. There are many continueing education courses available to medical examiners who have not had formal training for the job.
-hayley

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13/f My best friend, lets call her A, has really been using me and lying to me. She always apologizes afterwards when things happen between us, and i will always forgive her. Now this time, she tells me i dont know her and that i can be a "bitch" at times. i just told her she can be a little messed up. and now shes taken me off her top on myspace and her scroll box of best friends. so im really pissed off at her and shes said stuff to my brother about how, oh she dont think im that good at spelling and grammar, and how shes never lost an argument(while i know she has), which she says would make her a good lawyer(we both want to be lawyers), and how she doesnt like me because i wont do her homework for her or tell her the answers. shes just using me. what should i do about this? i love her so much (as a friend) but shes really hurt me and i dont seem to be able to forgive her this time.

OMG!!! i had a friend like this and then i had enough of her crap and my friend kayla started being friends with her and now she is mad at her because kayla didnt want to go to the waterpark with her because she started her period and she got mad and took her off myspace and everything!!! *whew* mouthful!! haha

ok well trust me she is just using you like a tissue. She uses you then throws you away. You got to stand up for yourself! dont let the girl get away with it. Now im not saying start rumors and dye her hair orange. Just dont let her get to you and dont be her friend. Dont give her that treasure.
-hayley

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so in a couple weeks my class is going swimming, and I have roughly estimated that I might get my time of the month then, it'll be summer so I cant just not go swimming, can I just use a tampon and go swimming?
any suggestions of what I should do?
I also cant take pills to make it go away.
Thanks:)

just wear a tampon and take some with you to change. sometimes water will stop a period for maybe an hour or two, but wear a tampon just incase.
-hayley

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I need hepl on figuring out what giving head means

it means giving a guy a blow job, or other wise preforming oral sex.
-hayley

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