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befre i start off ... plz dont bother me about being too young
i've been in love with a guy (he's in love with me too ) he was the one i had my first kiss with and we've been in love for over a year ... hes been so good to me and i know im ready to do it with him but the farthest ive been with him is a blowjob ... i really want more but i always get scared that the sex will hurt (im a virgin)
does sex hurt the first time
would it help if i masturbate
i really am ready for this i know it for sure so i dont want people saying that u better make sure he's the one
THANK YOU ! :)
brokenlove08 answered Sunday May 11 2008, 9:27 pm: to add to everyone else,
ive been told that unless your comfortable and really ready, it wont hurt. because you'll tense up if your scared, making the muscles tight and therefore it hurting more. so try to be relaxed =] [ brokenlove08's advice column | Ask brokenlove08 A Question ]
Bunnunnah answered Sunday May 11 2008, 12:47 pm: MAKE SURE YOU USE A CONDOM WHEN YOU DO IT! it probably will hurt your first time. and masturbating wont help meake it not surt as bad. [ Bunnunnah's advice column | Ask Bunnunnah A Question ]
thelaura answered Sunday May 11 2008, 9:54 am: Might hurt, might not. Depends what you've done previously and if you've had anything inserted before.
Mine didn't hurt first time.
May I also add, if you're so sure he's the one, what problem do you have with waiting? You need to realize the consequences if it got out, for example, your parents wouldn't be too pleased with you. and if he is at a legal age to have sex already, he could get into serious trouble.
Anyway, hope it answered what you wanted and I do hope you're ready and not fooling yourself.
Good luck. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
justdoit answered Sunday May 11 2008, 8:15 am: if i was you i wouldt do it, not because its painful or something , im only 13, but ... if ur mom find out she kill you, and by the way one year isnt that mutch you should wait a lil longer. [ justdoit's advice column | Ask justdoit A Question ]
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