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Member Since: January 12, 2008
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Last Update: June 22, 2008
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Ok so if I want my sex to be smooth and painless, could I use a large dildo to stretch my vagina? How much should I use it? (link)
i agree with the others. As long as your calm then the muscles down there will be relaxed and the pain may not be so much.


this guy i really care about and he cares for me
well. my boyfriend.
he lets me go at my own pace. he never pushes me to do things
but we've been talking about me giving him a handjob
and he wasnt being pushy really
he kept saying that i dont have to and that its up to me
so i finally agreed to give him one next week
and he was really really happy and kept saying how much it meant to him that id make a sacrifice for his happiness
well i dont do these things
and now i feel really uncomfortable about it
but i feel like if i tell him i changed me mind he'll be dissapointed in me

and i feel like i cant talk to my friends because theyre just going to say dont do it if he cares about you he'll understand

and he wont make me do anything he'll just be sooo dissapointed
he always does things for me
not physically, but to make sure im okay

i dont know what to do
please dont tell me that im not ready if im having second thoughts

i just

i need help
i think if i knew how to give one properly i wouldnt be as nervous
he offered to teach me (is that lame)
i researched some things online
but everything looks so complicated lol

any help would be appreciated! (link)
to be honest. i was in your shoes like a month ago with my boyfriend. and to be honest, i had second thoughts too BUT once you do it, you do it. obviously you're going to think youre not ready and all that. but at one moment, take a breath in an just go for it. he's probably nervous like you. everything takes time to do. like kissing, you dont try and rush into it especially if you like the guy, but finally you just do it. and it could be great and it could be bad. but at whatever point, you'll have to just breath in and do it. well you dont have to, when your ready you will =]

and my best tip for it is when you actually do it, dont think too much, and when moving your hand pull away from his body you know like ringing a wet towel or whatever. remember to be firm but not hurting him hahaha but the rest you'll learn on your own. promise =]] hope i helped!


I had my final exams this week. I failed my Physical Science EOC and I will have to take it again tomorrow. Is there anybody that can give me advice on how not to be so nervous so I can pass it this thing this time??? (link)
well what i do is i either rewrite the problems or vocab or whatever that i really don't know over and over again because then its drilled in my head. Otherwise, connect anything you can with something familiar. For example, my physical science, we learned S-waves and from that i learned they make and actual S in the wave but really the movements are right angle vibrations. but if you connect it with something you remember you are more likely to succeed


f/14
befre i start off ... plz dont bother me about being too young
i've been in love with a guy (he's in love with me too ) he was the one i had my first kiss with and we've been in love for over a year ... hes been so good to me and i know im ready to do it with him but the farthest ive been with him is a blowjob ... i really want more but i always get scared that the sex will hurt (im a virgin)
does sex hurt the first time
would it help if i masturbate
i really am ready for this i know it for sure so i dont want people saying that u better make sure he's the one
THANK YOU ! :) (link)
to add to everyone else,
ive been told that unless your comfortable and really ready, it wont hurt. because you'll tense up if your scared, making the muscles tight and therefore it hurting more. so try to be relaxed =]


Ok so i just had my period at the end of february but now i have it again at the beginning of march is this unusual? (link)
depending if this is your first of second year of having it.. then its suppose to be unregular like that. if you've had it for awhile, then maybe you should see a doctor. too much bleeding can be bad.




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