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I am 14 and a female, ok, see I used to be friends with this girl Cydney in 8th grade. In the winter I invited here to a retreat for our youth group trip and she seemed fine about it, then when we get in the car she starts hanging out with this snotty girl lisa who told everybody i like girls which is NOT TRUE. And then we were on the subject about what things we liked to about each other and I asked her what she like about me and she goes well there alot of things i dont like about you. I cant help it if Im shy. My mom was shy when she was my age and still had decent friends. Thats not all we started giving her rides to school and she talks to me around my mom, but she doesnt talk to me at school. I havent done anything to her. She turned gothic too. I dont know what to do. Can any one relate. (link)
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Well I may only be 13 but this happens to me all the time. Talk to her you may find she just decided to change to fit in with a different crowd. Or this Lisa girl could be holding something over her head in other words Lisa might have threatened her with something if she didn't start hanging out with her. Would love feedback. Oh one more thing Lisa could have told your friend you said something behind her back and maybe she belived it. Yes it's stupid but that one is a classic friendship ender.
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I really like this guy but i dont know how to tell him that i like him. He kinda likes me too.. but i dont know how to tell him...I rate high!!!
love,
how to deal (link)
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I know what you mean it's so hard to tell them. If he already likes you a bit then come out and say it or write a note but I would just tell him if I were you because a note could fall into the hands of someone else like his friends and if it does he could get pretty embarassed. If you decide to just tell him then make sure to do it while nobody else is around. I love feedback by the way. Chow!
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I am 13 and female. My crush is 13 and male. I have been having a crush on the same guy since 5th grade. I made it clear that i liked him in 5th and 6th grade, but he clearly told me he liked me as a friend. This year I am going into 8th grade and i still have a crush on him. The only problem is is that he is going out with my best friend, Sarah, and i am going out with another guy, so i could try and stop thinking about him. By the way it did not work at all. Now the guy i like is thinking about breaking up with Sarah, and talks to me everyday. He is my best friend and i am his. We have some of the same problems and have similar interests. Does he like me? What should I do?? (link)
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He might actualy like you but you could be sending him the wrong message and he might want to break up with your friend for you. Talk to him and let him know you want your friend to be happy. Yes this might hurt you but how would you feel if your bf dumped you for your best friend? Also you have a bf already don't complicate thing more for yourself. Please rate
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umm i like this dude nd hes not like hott but reli sweet nd every1 hates him but im goin out with him neway....should i stay with him nd be laughed at, or just break up? (link)
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Stay with him if you leave because nobody else likes him your just as bad as they are. rate please
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LONG STORY
well i've liked this guy for a very long time and we've gone out and recently hes been flirting with me alot, well today a friend of mine was having a bonfire and me and my friend we'll call her "person x" were the only girls there. Well my ex has been known to flirt so he was casually doing it with both of us. then him and i break off from the rest of pack and we both get the wild idea to go swimming in the river. so we both strip ( not totally )and the whole time im scared hes holding me really close to him and he even carried me back to the house because someone lost my shoes. anyways at the end of the night he takes "person x" away and i already knew what was happeing and you guessed it he asked her out and she said yes after knowing how much i like him. Its not just that but in the morning she'd been telling me about how the love of her life "was being a dick" but she couldnt help but still like him and then when i asked her if she really liked my guy she said yea and i asked her more than the other guy and she said "as of right now yea, cuz hes being an ass". I dont know what to do! she's known for being fickle about the guys she likes. she like a guy alot and then after they go out for a couple weeks decide she really dosent. Also at the party she kept saying how much of a retard my guy was and she always makes fun of him, like what he wears and what music he listens too and they hav almost nothing in commen they're so different. I'm just so lost on what to do! HELP! (link)
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Sounds like she just likes taking other peoples guys and then it sounds like after she ruins their relationships she lets them go. Talk to her first and if she doesn't listen takl to him he sounds pretty bad himself he shouldn't have done that he sounds like a jerk. (no offence)
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This guy, I don't know if he's just messing around with me or if he likes me or not, but everytim I walk by him, he always says the samething, which is the first time we met. He'd even yelled it out across the field if he catches me.
And when he's sitting down he does the samething but after that he'd look at me for long periods of time.
After Spring Break he actually ran up to me just to say the same thing (he usually only says that when I walk by), and his friends would laugh at him and yell out to him that that was 4 months ago. His friend even told me he's single.
What his friends also do is point out my presence when he's not paying attention.
But I asked my friend who sits with him at lunch sometimes and she told me that he liked someone else and he just does that kind of stuff. (link)
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He could be playing with you but then boys have a different way of showing affection most won't just say it so he might actually like you, you never know until you ask.
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okay, so i'm really confused because there's this guy i really like. but he has a girlfriend. see most people would just be like oh, he's taken whatever, ya know? but the thing is, me and him have been friends for a long, long time so we talk even more than him and his girlfriend talk. so that wouldn't be a problem in most cases but the confusing thing is, he knows that i like him and he says that he likes me back and hes ALWAYS flirting w. me like crazy. so then when i asked him about if he liked me why was he dating this other girl, he said that he liked her too but that when they broke up that "you never know what might happen" so at first i was like okay ill just wait but now they've been goign out for a long time and it doesnt seem as though they are gonna break up anytime soon. but he still continues to flirt and i flirt back but now im beginning to feel like his girlfriend, Kristen knows that somethings going on. should i tell her? and should i continue to wait for him? please help!
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First tell his girlfriend don't say it infront of anyone else though and don't tell him your going to tell her ask her not to release your name then find another guy. He sounds like he's playin' ya so no don't wait who knows how many other girls are having the same problem.
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OK so there is this guy I really like and I told him that I had some feelings for him well a few nights after that he starts to flirt with me and stuff and saying he wouldn't mind if I held his hand or kissed him than the next day I get an email saying "I have you blocked, sorry, I don't really want to talk or meet with
you.. it will jsut cause too many problems for me, it's not you. I
just don't go with al the stress, find someone else to love, I am not
the one for you.. sorry about all this, but this is how I want it.
Maybe in a while we can be just friends.. we shall see." and i emaild him back saying that its ok and i dont mind but when i check to see who all deleted me off msn messenger he was one of them on the list. and i really do like him i just dont know what to do I mean i dont even care if he likes me or not just being friends is enough for me. How do I get him to re add me and talk to me again like we used to?????? (link)
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First off tell him he can't toy with your feelings like that you are a human being with rights and emotions. Although did that there is a possibility he is going out with someone else now and that could be why he told you no. This could just be his way of dealing some girls get pretty angry and won't leave you alone when you reject them and he could be afraid of that. So that could be why he blocked you. He could be afraid of you becoming some kind of computer stalker and never leaving him alone.
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Please don't skip this cause it's long. It's good and here I go okay I have this boyfriend that left for the summer well technically were not really going out but we didn't break up we just decided it wouldn't work out long distance. We were just going to get back together once he came back well the thing is since he left we've been going through some rough times I really do love him and were crazy about eachother we've been going out for eight months. So here's the problem this other guy came into play which happens to be a really good friend of mine and we were talking and he wants to go out again. And please don't be like then you really don't love the other guy if your even thinking about dating another guy cause c'mon girls we all do it. But see I really wanna be with the guy that I've been with for eight months but see I don't know if there is ever gonna be anything between us because of all the fighting we've been doing. So I'm thinking getting with the second guy might not be such a bad idea. So please help me which one should I pick? I'm so damn confussed. here's some background info. The guy I've been with I cheated on with the second guy.I've dated both guys. Plus the first guy has cheated on me too. Im 14 the first guy is 15 and the second guy is 16. The two guys know about eachother and hate eachother. (link)
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I have to say it's hard to say which one you should go out with and you will most likely hate me for this but...the only one who can choose is you. Although others can guess they might not be right. The info given isn't even enough to guess properly. Some would say if one cheated on you go out with the other but I belive in second chances some would agree. So do what you think is right I know it can be hard but everyone has problems like this. Hope I helped feel free to ask me anything. Oh and don't rate me a 5 unless my advice is good, I like a fair rateing.
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my boyfriend is the type of guy to cheat on his girlfriend. so me and him both have myspace accounts.. we both know the passwords to eachothers and everything. today, i was curious to see who he's been talking to because i don't really trust him. i saw him saying stuff to a couple girls and i'm really pissed. i don't know what to say to him, because i know if he found out i went on his account, he'll be mad at me. so what do i do? i can't just keep this in, and i know that i shouldn't of went on his name but i want to know if he's doing stuff behind my back.. help! (link)
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Ok you are sort of right,you shouldn't have gone on his account but on the other hand mabey he shouldn't have given it to you. To get to the main part if you don't trust him then don't go out with him because a good relationship is built on a solid foundation of trust. You can't be happy together if you don't trust eachother so if you still want this to work talk to him.
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Hi, I have been talking to this guy online.....I really like him..he asked me out and I said yes. DOnt worry I have no intentions on meeting him anytime soon.But i dont know if I should tell my friends about him because they think talking to people online that you dont know is wrong..and i know they will probably get mad at me and think I am crazy. He has also sent me a picture and he is really hot!
What should I do?? And what is your opinion on online dating and long distnace relationships?
Thanks
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Ok online dating? No! it is so dangerous you never know who your talking to and the picture might not have even been him! So don't do it it's not worth endangering yourself for. As for long distance relationships in thoes terms they never work a person can easily go behind your back. Hope I helped!
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I been with this guy for like 9 months, but of course as all realtionships you like being in feel like forever. So me and him have alrady had sex and oral, but I wanna do something more, cause as the girl I feel like I should be doing more to please him , I feel bad because he does kinda like mostly everything sometimes to please me. we already talked about it and he said he doesnt mind b/c when I enjoy it and get pleasure he enjoys it to..but I still wanna please him more! Can you tell me some things I can do to please him more..as in oral sex or sex in genral!? (link)
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I say look around and find new ways but most of all enjoy it. I don't know if you knew this but a classic rule is if you enjoy it so will your partner. In other words if you arn't comfortable he won't be.
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I'm 15/f and a freshman in highschool. Lately I've been having problems with my phys. ed. teacher. I'm not going to be around the bush about this, but he's an asshole. (excuse my language). He's always such a jerk to me about every little thing. A friend of mine had a shirt on that she changed into for PE that had a picture of George Bush Sr. and George Bush on it and it sayd Dumb and Dumber under their pictures. He had a fit about it and I was supporting her saying that she can have an opinion about whatever the heck she wants to. He basically said she's not allowed to have an opinion about it until she's 18. Then he proceeded to say how he can run his class the way he wants to and if I have a problem with it to take it up with the principal. Not only is he a jerk, but alot of the time he seems like one of those really creepy pedophile type people. He's always staring at me when we do stretches and stands behind me when we're doing toe- touches. We had to do jumping jacks this weird way and I'm not coordinated enough to do it so he asked me to stay after class about it. We were doing lay ups when we played basketball and I suck at any sport that involves a ball and he asked me to stay after class to work on it when there were about 5 other people that sucked 10 times worse than me but didn't ask them to stay after. What exactly should I do about this? I mean, he hasn't made "a move" on me so I can't really say much about that but what should I do? Sorry this was long! (link)
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Ok I will say this right out unlike what you may think you CAN say something about this to the principal. Part of being a teacher or principal is to make sure your students learn but the other half is making sure they feel safe. If you feel uncomfortable then tell. It is a really good idea to have witnesses though. You could go without them if there arn't any. Ten to one, if it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't right. Worst comes to worst, he isn't aware of how he is coming off and maybe he'll change. Or maybe he'll just leave you alone. If you can find out if anyone else has had similar problems with the same teacher. Please rate.
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I like to be, well, free. When I'm in my room and the doors are closed I like to take off my shirt. I don't mind the free feeling, but I also go and stand in front of my mirror and look at myself. Is it wrong to look at myself like that, because I don't just do it for a short amount of time, I ususally have a stuck stair at my boobs.. what do I do, is this wrong? (link)
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no it isn't wrong tons of girls do it don't worry. Please rate.
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What are some symptoms of a sign of a yeast infection? i dont know if i have one or not...i just notice i have this yellowish stuff on my underwear...it's like dried or something like a crusty ish stuff but not excatly like a crust thing..please help! thanks! (link)
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Im sorry to say that most of the time , when I sleep I dream about killing people or I die in my dreams, me and my grilfriend are really worried about this, does anyone have and advice for me? (link)
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Don't blame yourself it isnt your fault so don't stress. Oh and no this doesn't mean you really want to kill people, offten dreams have hiden meanings and you just don't know what it is chances are it has nothing to do with wanting to kill people so stop worrying. Please rate.
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My question is, why does it seem like an overwhelming amount of the advisors on this web site are teenage girls? I'm serious about this. Is it because they have more time on their hands, have a stronger feeling of needing to give advice, need more advice.etc.etc? What do you think the reason is? (link)
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I an a 13 year old girl and I come here to help people. Yes in my spare time but that's because I like many others love to help people. Besides at school people come to me with their problems (even ones I don't know!) So I figure I have the practice so why not help others? Oh and I think that (no offence) girls can be more sympathetic and help people with their problems more than guys.(not trying to be sexist) We tend to be easier to talk to as well. Example: Tell a guy you have a problem and most will laugh and brush it off. Tell a girl and they will usually talk it over with you and give you some pointers on what to do. Please send feedback.
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Ugh. My best friend kelly thinks she's a really good singer. The problem is... she sux! She's also going to be in the talent show and perform a song. When she does, she's gonna be sooo emmbarrased aftwerwards! Everyone's gonna make fum of her. I don't know what to do, or how to break it to her!! Should I just let her be TOTALLY embarrased? Help!! Please!! (link)
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Ok this may sound harsh but tell her and if she doesn't listen there isn't much you can do so if it comes to that then let her see for herself. Hope I helped please rate.
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okay i have a verizon cell phone and i have a year and a half left of the plan. i wanna get rid of it and get a new cell phone (cingular or t-mobile) but it costs $179 to cancel the verizon plan. should i cancel my plan, or should i just wait until my plan ends to get a new cell phone? (link)
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I would wait because the money you save by staying on the plan until it ends will help you buy that new phone. So stay on and save your money. Hope I helped please rate.
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Is it possible to be suicidal, but to not have attempted suicide...? (link)
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Yes if you are thinking of killing yourself even without doing it you are suicidal. Hope I helped.
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