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Long Time Crush


Question Posted Friday June 17 2005, 10:16 pm

I am 13 and female. My crush is 13 and male. I have been having a crush on the same guy since 5th grade. I made it clear that i liked him in 5th and 6th grade, but he clearly told me he liked me as a friend. This year I am going into 8th grade and i still have a crush on him. The only problem is is that he is going out with my best friend, Sarah, and i am going out with another guy, so i could try and stop thinking about him. By the way it did not work at all. Now the guy i like is thinking about breaking up with Sarah, and talks to me everyday. He is my best friend and i am his. We have some of the same problems and have similar interests. Does he like me? What should I do??

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karenR answered Monday June 20 2005, 12:42 am:
If he clearly told you he liked you as a friend then you need to believe him until he tells you otherwise. I suppose you can ask him if his feelings for you have changed any. Its the only way you will truly know for sure. :)

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hyperhottiegirl answered Sunday June 19 2005, 8:40 pm:
by the way your explaining it it seems like he totally likes you he is just nervous to tell you because he doesnt want to ruin your relashionship. i think you should tell him agian that he likes you and see what he says. if he says your just friends let it be that way cause i dont think you want to ruin your relashionship

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squirrell answered Saturday June 18 2005, 6:44 am:
He might actualy like you but you could be sending him the wrong message and he might want to break up with your friend for you. Talk to him and let him know you want your friend to be happy. Yes this might hurt you but how would you feel if your bf dumped you for your best friend? Also you have a bf already don't complicate thing more for yourself. Please rate

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TheTeenGirl answered Saturday June 18 2005, 1:26 am:
Don't do anything except live your life and act normal around him. You never know if hes going to actually break-up with Sarah. And if he does end up liking you, don't you think you and Sarah will have problems? Shes your best friend, and you might lose your friendship over this guy. You've got to think about how Sarah will feel if he breaks up with her. You have quite a lot to think about, most likely, shes going to be upset. But, it sure is rude to date someone your best friend loves like Sarah did to you. Right now, you need to live your life, because you don't know if this will happen.



-TheTeenGirl

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ronda answered Saturday June 18 2005, 1:17 am:
I think he might like you.But you shouldnt go out with him cause how do you think your friend will fill?When your crush breaks up with your friend try to ask her if it would be all right if you could go out with him(tell her your story).Or you could date him secretly.

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