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summer love plans
over the course of this school year, ive finally met a guy im comfortable with and has led me to believe he feels the same. although neither of us have come out and admited our feelings, we both have mutual signs/flirting that gives an obvious clue that we're into each other. he told me he wanted to hang out this summer and we traded cell numbers and everything, except im a bit new to this.
1) we're both going to be at camp/away this summer.. and i dont want to get all in his face about when he'll be home.. so im not sure when to expect him to come around
2) should i wait for him to contact me? or no?
3) if we do end up wanting to hang out.. ideas on what to do/where to go [id like some varied answers if possible]
thanks for your time, and i hope everyone has a great summer <3
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Wait until he contacts you but if it takes him too long call him first. Don't return his calls the second you get them it will make you seem like you have nothing better to do then wait for him to call. Don't call him every 2 seconds either (same reason) Also you are right you shouldn't get in his face when he gets back he might get annoyed and last but no least go to a theam, park (if you have one near you) the movies, out to dinner or to the beach if ther's one close.
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Sounds like you have started a pretty good relationship with this guy.. props to you! Dont get in his face about when he is coming home from camp.. you could call him up and casually ask. I'm not sure if you should wait for him to come in contact. If you want to show him you are outgoing, you shouldnt. In my opinion, if he doesnt call, he may be shy, so you call him up and make the first move... invite him to do something with you and ask when he is going to summer camp and when he is coming back! If you hang out you could try going to the movies, bowling, going out for something to eat, just hanging out at the mall, or double-dating =-]
<3 Maddie.. hoped that helped in some way!
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1) ask him. you wont be getting in his face if you just ask him once maybe twice, however its different if you call him six times a day to see if he has a spare minute
2) nah, waiting for guys is like waiting for the rain. just call him up and say "hey hows it going, how has your summer been so far" then throw in that you guys should hang out, take it from there. make some plans.
3) movies?, go to the mall, go get coffee or anything to drink and walk around, go to th park, go to the zoo, chill at one of your houses and rent movies and eat pizza, (Scary movies especially). go mini golfing, go bowling, go fly a kite (sounds gay but sooo fun wiht a fliryt partner), have a picnic, go swimming in a lake, go to the beach, play sports together, play card games, oh man there are TONS of things you can do.
good luck,.
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