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Stuck in the middle I rate 5's
Please don't skip this cause it's long. It's good and here I go okay I have this boyfriend that left for the summer well technically were not really going out but we didn't break up we just decided it wouldn't work out long distance. We were just going to get back together once he came back well the thing is since he left we've been going through some rough times I really do love him and were crazy about eachother we've been going out for eight months. So here's the problem this other guy came into play which happens to be a really good friend of mine and we were talking and he wants to go out again. And please don't be like then you really don't love the other guy if your even thinking about dating another guy cause c'mon girls we all do it. But see I really wanna be with the guy that I've been with for eight months but see I don't know if there is ever gonna be anything between us because of all the fighting we've been doing. So I'm thinking getting with the second guy might not be such a bad idea. So please help me which one should I pick? I'm so damn confussed. here's some background info. The guy I've been with I cheated on with the second guy.I've dated both guys. Plus the first guy has cheated on me too. Im 14 the first guy is 15 and the second guy is 16. The two guys know about eachother and hate eachother.
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Since you are technically not dating the guy who's out of town, I see no problem with dating they other guy. If it doesnt work out then get back with Mr long distance when he gets back. :)
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well in this case you have 2 choices. One or the other, pick the one you truley love the most. Or go with the new guy i mean if it faded with the other one chances are it might happen again. Also there are plenty of guys so just dump the oldone and date this one
good luck
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well i am not gonna so u dont love the other guy because you probably do yeh i am like that here is what i think i think that the other guy that left for the summer probably found a girlfriend were he is now i mean its a possibility i would go out with the second guy and see how it worked out and if you all didnt argue all that much i would choose him i have been through all of this i am 16 so i hope that i helped and i hope your happy with witch everone you choose goodluck
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:) Brandi
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If you can't decide for yourself, then stay where you are.
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Oh, well. You sound like an idiot.
1. You're telling us to choose people for you that we've never met. Therefore probably giving you the wrong answer in whom you should date.
2. They've both cheated on you, yet you still wanna go out with them?
3. And technically doing what your doing now IS cheating if you go out with the other guy.
I know, you think i'm wrong, i'll get a 1 you wont listen. Blah Blah wine...blood.
All I can say is, you're dumb.
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i dont think you should date either of them, this may not be too helpfull, but if there causing you this much time and stuggle find someone else that you wont cheat on
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Hmm.. my opionion is the second guy. See.. just because you and your boyfriend fight alot doesnt really mean anything. All good relationships have to have their bad times but sometimes it could be a bad thing. If he cheated on you thats not good but you cheated on him with the second guy. I mean to me.. that kind of shows that you like the second guy just a little bit more. Let things cool down with you and your boyfriend and if still doesnt work out break up with him. There are up and downs and staying with him would be good also. You could work out anything between you and your relationship will work out if you are really in love with each other. If you think that the other guy will treat you better then defenetlly go out with him. Its better for you to be happy. I know that you might love your boyfriend a lot and want to be with him but then again you want to be with the other guy. What you should do is just not go out with anyone for about a week and then you will constantlly be thinking about one of the guys. Who ever that guy is is the right one for you!! Good luck! &hearts ex_oh
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honestly the best thing to do iz to stay with the eight months guy because in every relationship there are ups nd downs and it will pass over so i think you should just stick with the eight months guy.i think that the second guy is probably a saftey net you think you like him but you dnt you just want someone else to comfort you because your having problems with ur long dist. guy. it will all pass over hope i helped
tanya
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Well, I would say go with who would be better for you. Who would treat you better? Now, I'm not talking about who would buy you more things, or blah blah blah. I mean, which one would hold you when you cry, and comfort you when you're sad? I would say that if you love both guys, and one is gone, it might would be better to date the second one. I only say tihs because if the guy you are currently "dating" right now leaves, you would be tempted by the other guy, right? And wouldn't it be better to just date him, since he is there, so you wouldn't have the guilt of cheating on the other guy?
lol, sorry, hope that wasn't too confuisng. Hope I helped some.
Love always,
Kerry
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NO we don't all do it. Many of us manageto stay true to our boyfriends when they are away from us. Because we have character and values. That's what love is about. SUre your lonely. We all get lonley, but some of us treasure our relationships. Perhaps your just all too young to be in a committed relationship, since all of you have violated that trust that is required between two people who are in love an committed to each other. I know this sounds like "old people talking." Well that is what love is really about. You stick with the person even in times of separation. That's what mature people do.
Michele
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stay with the 8 months guy. my boyfriend and i have been together for NINE months.. not a big difference, and weve been arguing quite a bit.. i think its just because we dont get to see each other as much now that schools out. if you really do love each other, you guys will be fine. and just tell the other guy that you love the guy your with. he should understand.
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I have to say it's hard to say which one you should go out with and you will most likely hate me for this but...the only one who can choose is you. Although others can guess they might not be right. The info given isn't even enough to guess properly. Some would say if one cheated on you go out with the other but I belive in second chances some would agree. So do what you think is right I know it can be hard but everyone has problems like this. Hope I helped feel free to ask me anything. Oh and don't rate me a 5 unless my advice is good, I like a fair rateing.
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