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Gender: Female
Location: Ohio
Occupation: full time student/part time @ an ice cream place
Age: 16
Member Since: June 15, 2005
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Last Update: June 21, 2005
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how come guys get horny so fast and girls dont? i mean it takes my bf 5 minutes to get horny and then like 30 minutes for me. how come? and is there a way to change that? thanks (link)
its different for all guys and girls. i mean, my boyfriend and i are pretty much the same, and sometimes i get more horny than him sooner that he does. it just depends on the person


Please don't skip this cause it's long. It's good and here I go okay I have this boyfriend that left for the summer well technically were not really going out but we didn't break up we just decided it wouldn't work out long distance. We were just going to get back together once he came back well the thing is since he left we've been going through some rough times I really do love him and were crazy about eachother we've been going out for eight months. So here's the problem this other guy came into play which happens to be a really good friend of mine and we were talking and he wants to go out again. And please don't be like then you really don't love the other guy if your even thinking about dating another guy cause c'mon girls we all do it. But see I really wanna be with the guy that I've been with for eight months but see I don't know if there is ever gonna be anything between us because of all the fighting we've been doing. So I'm thinking getting with the second guy might not be such a bad idea. So please help me which one should I pick? I'm so damn confussed. here's some background info. The guy I've been with I cheated on with the second guy.I've dated both guys. Plus the first guy has cheated on me too. Im 14 the first guy is 15 and the second guy is 16. The two guys know about eachother and hate eachother. (link)
stay with the 8 months guy. my boyfriend and i have been together for NINE months.. not a big difference, and weve been arguing quite a bit.. i think its just because we dont get to see each other as much now that schools out. if you really do love each other, you guys will be fine. and just tell the other guy that you love the guy your with. he should understand.


what are the benefits of waiting for marriage? for those of you that are, whats your reason? it could go either way so let me know what you think. (link)
benefits of waiting until marriage are knowing that you havent had sex with anyone else. thinking that the sex w/ your partner is the best because, youve only been with that person. KNOWING that the person youre with loves you for you and not just because you have sex with them. idk.. i didnt wait.. but i wish i would have.


My family is really weird becuz they are like really mean to me but not other people in my family i dont understand why i mean they yell at me more than anybody but then 2 seconds later they expect me to be over it and accept their appology i dont understand it plz help me
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im definitly in the SAME situation. My mom yells at me for everything, but if anyone else in our family does something, its cool. I really dont know what to tell you about it, but just hang in there.. and if you find out what you should do, please tell me.. i just wanted you to know that you arent the only one with this problem.

sorry i couldnt really help!!


16.f -- i met this guy at a party i had this past weekend, hes 21, and really nice .. he seems like hes into me and invited me to his party this saturday. the only catch is that hes 21, and hes 1 of my sister's, boyfriend's best friends. Either way, i'm probably going to go to the party, but i just want to know if yall think i should "persue this"..?? thanks yall (link)
GO! You know your limits, and as long as you guys dont have a problem with the age thing, dont worry what anyone else says! ive liked a lot of guys that were many years older than me, and in a few cases, it went pretty good! just, dont let him push you around or anything just because he is older. you seem like a smart girl, so i think you'll be fine :)




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