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16.f -- i met this guy at a party i had this past weekend, hes 21, and really nice .. he seems like hes into me and invited me to his party this saturday. the only catch is that hes 21, and hes 1 of my sister's, boyfriend's best friends. Either way, i'm probably going to go to the party, but i just want to know if yall think i should "persue this"..?? thanks yall<3
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No, do not pursue this. The age should obviously give this away. You are under the age of 18, so if you were to have sex with this guy (who, him being 21 and wanting to date a 16 year old, he probably does want to have sex with you) than it will be considered rape and he could go to prison. Also, you are still in high school, and hes already probably out of college (if he even went to college). Concentrate on going out with guys a little more closer to your age. Dating a 21 year old may seem exciting, but that's not necessarily the kind of excitement you need.
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well i know im younger than you but i would tell you to take a friend even though you think you can handle yourself sometimes girls get caught up in the things boys can say to them sure your saying no i wont ill be careful but most likly it wont end up that way so anyways back to my answer which would be take a friend and have fun make sure you get drinks for yourself so you know noone is slipping anything in..goodluck and have fun
-Marissa
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I back ya 100%. Have fun, but be so so safe!! :D
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No. Sorry, age difference could get him in big trouble. I think pursuing this will only get you hurt before its over with.
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you should go, have a good time.but just to warn you if you have sex it will be rape.
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i say go but unfortuanly this can't go any where till your 18, which is a real bummer but use that time to get to know him. till your 18 no dates!!
best of luck!
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GO! You know your limits, and as long as you guys dont have a problem with the age thing, dont worry what anyone else says! ive liked a lot of guys that were many years older than me, and in a few cases, it went pretty good! just, dont let him push you around or anything just because he is older. you seem like a smart girl, so i think you'll be fine :)
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sounds good, just take things slow! and maybe hang with him in a group at first! and also, make sure you always have a cell with you! and just be careful!
-KelLz-
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