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Ok so this guy has known me for 6 yrs...but i moved away 5 yrs ago but we've always managed to keep in touch and i had feelings for him. But then like 3 weeks ago i sent him movies online that me and my friend here made. He said that she was gorgeous and i got really jealous. Then the next night she was over at my house and they started talking online, but she could tell that i kinda liked him (even though i wouldnt admit it) and before she left my house she gave him all her screen names. Then I went out of town for a week and when i got back she told me they talked a lot. And I was really mad bc i could tell that he was really interested in her but she has a bf that she wants to dump haha so anyways then he accused me of being jealous and then me and him had a big fight and i gave him a few days to cool down and so last night i called his cell to try to explain to him how i felt but he didn't seem interested in what i had to say. And i told him i didn't want to lose our friendship over this. And my friend doesn't realize that she is coming between me and him and ruining really good friendships. I know I should talk to her about it but I've tried before and she just doesn't get it! What should I do to make her understand and to make him not be mad at me bc he has a lot to apologize to me for, too! Please help!
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I know how that feels! me and alot of my friends went through that a good few times but if she REALLY values your friendship and you tell her how its hurting you, she should realize that its stupid to get you mad for stuff lik that. Yeaa i know you really dont have a claim on him or whatever but your feelings should actually count to her.
♥ ana
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He's not your boyfriend hun. You have no claim to him. What they are doing isn't very nice or fair and you have every right to be hurt and jealous but you need to get over a guy that you've been clinging to for years without anything comming from it.
Your friendships with both these people are falling apart and it isn't all thier faults. If you want to still be friends with people you'll need to forgive them for liking each other, and don't expect them to apologize for that.
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