Member Since: March 8, 2005
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Last Update: June 18, 2005
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okay so there's this girl i've found myself quite infatuated with. and things seemed to be going jim dandy and the world seemed to be turning right for once. and then to my shock and dismay it comes out that she has an eating disorder. she refuses to eat, refuses to do anything but excersize and sip water. and she is slowly killing herself with this. i try to tell her that it's not good. i try to tell her of the damage it can do to her. and i try to tell her that it hurts me too (it can send me to tears.. and i never ever cry) and i try all that i can to let her know that it's terrible but nothing will ever work. i feel so useless and worthless and like she's gonna slip through my fingertips and i wont be able to save her. and well i really have no idea what to do or where to go. and i need some help from somewhere in order to help her. this is not good. yet she feels that it will make her feel better about herself. i just don't understand how slowly killing yourself makes you feel better. agh this is so saddening. someone please help me, somehow. (link)
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You need to talk to an adult if she will not listen.
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16.f -- i met this guy at a party i had this past weekend, hes 21, and really nice .. he seems like hes into me and invited me to his party this saturday. the only catch is that hes 21, and hes 1 of my sister's, boyfriend's best friends. Either way, i'm probably going to go to the party, but i just want to know if yall think i should "persue this"..?? thanks yall (link)
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No, do not pursue this. The age should obviously give this away. You are under the age of 18, so if you were to have sex with this guy (who, him being 21 and wanting to date a 16 year old, he probably does want to have sex with you) than it will be considered rape and he could go to prison. Also, you are still in high school, and hes already probably out of college (if he even went to college). Concentrate on going out with guys a little more closer to your age. Dating a 21 year old may seem exciting, but that's not necessarily the kind of excitement you need.
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Okay, so I do crunches, and I'm in pretty good shape, except for this really annoying kind of...roll of...fat...like, right under my boobs.
I'm a singer, and I expand my ribcage when I sing and contract it (kind of?) when I don't. Could that be why?
I really can't figure out why it's there, and why I can't get rid of it.
My crunches go like this: 25 every morning, 100 every other night, and on the "other night" I still do 25 crunches to keep my muscles going ('cause I know if I stop I'll want to stay stopped).
Is there a way to get rid of that obnoxious roll of fat under my boobs? Any special excercises I could do? It's really annoying me. I mean, it's not an absolute necessity that I get rid of it, but I'd like to. It makes me really self conscious in swimsuits, 'cause the rest of my stomach is pretty toned.
Thanks in advance for the help! (link)
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It's not all about exercising, you must eat right too! Trying cutting a lot of unneccesasry fats and snacks out of your diet. Also perhaps try doing cardio exercises also.
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I just got my haircut at this new salon and the lady cut it so short..and it's all ONE LENGTH..i usually cut it layered at another place but that person went out of town so I had to get a new stylist for a while. Anwyays, I was wondering if there's a way to make my hair grow out faster so I can get it recut/layered when my old stylist comes back? Please help! Thanks (link)
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No, there is no real way to make your hair 'grow faster' but you can try different styles or use a straightener to give the appearance of it being longer.
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I would like to buy a Chi Straightener, where can I find one and how much could I expect to pay for it?
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google it
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Hey i love my jeans with holes in them and i have a couple pair of jeans without holes in them. i was wondering how i could put holes in them so it looked natural not like i just took scissors and just cut a hole in them. thank you! xoxo_* (link)
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use a cheese grater.
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How do you plan out a kick ass party? What sort of invitations should you give out without looking too kiddy-ish? (link)
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vodka, acid, and LOTS OF NAKED PEOPLE!
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