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Q: my womans daughter age 39 has caused me troble even with the law. i can contact her again legally in 3 days but i won't. some and most of the trouble is her drunkness and sexualness. i am weak and lust for her as well. however i think the lady wants me for keeps and takes extreme measures to get me. i think the lady wants me as a partner and willing to take me from her mom. she has failed in 13 years. i am 57 myself and our life styles are totally apart. i have a gut feeling i will hear from her. love to have sex with her but i want no trouble. advice any1 ?
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Do you want to lose your woman, you didn't state whether or not she's your wife or your girlfriend? Having sex with her daughter will definitely do that for you.
You've been with your wife or girlfriend for 13 years, wouldn't it be a shame to throw it all a way over this? I would tell the daughter that you are in love with her mother and have no desire to have sex with her anymore. You also have to practice self-control when you're around her. I know that men think with two heads, and one of them isn't very bright when they're horny... but keep everything in mind what this woman has done to you, and the effects that could happen in the long run.
I hope that I was able to help. I'm only 20, so I'm definitely old enough to be your daughter and you have obviously been through more relationships and life experiences than I have :).
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Q: Im an almost fourteen yearold girl who hasn't had her first kiss yet, I don't have q boyfriend at the time but there's a guy that I like that likes me. Hes aleady had his first kiss but he regrets it. I want mine with him. Any advice on how to kiss Good and stuff, tell me please! Thanks!
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When kissing, I typically just go with the flow... follow his lead, if he uses tongue use tongue too, if he tries to clasp your mouth against his do that too. Everyone has their own kissing style and when you get used to kissing, you will have your own too. If he knows that you have never been kissed before, don't worry about what he thinks because if he's worth your time he'll be fine with however you kissed him, the two of you will eventually get better.
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Q: 20/F
I overanalyze a lot so I need your help!
Being in college, I wanted to stay single and I haven't really dated anyone within the past couple of years. However, last semester (around February) I met this guy and we hit it off completely. EVERYONE (even his friends) was telling us we should date, we looked cute together, etc and I think this fueled my feelings for him. However, he NEVER made a move. Granted, I'm not the type of college girl to just hook up with random guys (everyone knows that) so he might have felt uncomfortable...but still, I thought I was being pretty obvious. I would do really flirty things and he still wouldn't make a move. I took him to my sorority formal and again, STILL no moves except he was doing super cute things like massaging my shoulder and caressing my neck, etc. Another night, he did try to cuddle with me at one point but then I freaked out about something else (long irrelevant story) so he freaked out too and stopped.
Over the summer, I took some time to find myself and along the way, forced myself to get over him. I literally transformed myself both inside and outside. I lost a lot of my college weight, gained more confidence, and became 20x more outgoing than I originally was (which was still pretty outgoing). I literally did not talk to him for 2 months, which was weird because we were best friends. The first night I saw him (about a month ago), I had drank a lot and someone told me that I told him I liked him...although I don't remember this, he still didn't make a move on me. I even asked him to walk me home (not being seductive, I just wanted to walk home with someone) and he walked his own way home.
Frustrated, I decided that THAT was it, I was done. But my feelings are slowly returning, and lately I feel that he returns these feelings. He texts me and talks to me all the time now (him initiating the talk) which would not be new for me last year, but is strange for me this year since we haven't talked much lately. Every time I go to a party and he's there, he immediately comes and hangs out with me, usually for the whole night. The last time was when I felt confused. We have this ongoing thing where we're slightly mean to each other. He's in a fraternity, and I kissed one of his pledges on the cheek, an innocent peck because he said something nice. He freaked out and started telling everyone I made out with a pledge (jokingly). My best friend said to him, "You're only joking about this because you're jealous" to which he replied, "Yeah...I am jealous." We went on a walk and talked about random things, and then he had to leave the party because he had an early class. He immediately texted me: ":( I'm going to be real nice from now on. Promise." and then kept responding with cute things and smiley faces.
This past party, I SWEAR I could tell he wanted to kiss me but he never followed through. We were alone at the back of his fraternity just talking and he kept coming close and then backing away. I got really nervous but again, no follow through.
Is he just shy, or uninterested?
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You have nothing to lose by telling him your feelings. If he doesn't like you is there really that much emotion involved, he's a friend and you actually managed to stop talking to him once.
Everyone has different ways of showing that they're interested in people, so it's hard to tell because none of us on advicenators.com know him. I can tell that he definitely likes talking to you though, and being in your company.
Just tell him how you feel and good luck :).
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Q: 20/f. Most of the time, I get A's and B's. But, I am striving for straight A's this semester. It's not like a make it or break it thing. I just want to try to do it. I am graduating from college in December 2012, and then I plan on going on to grad school. Right now, my GPA is a 3.3, which isn't bad, but I really want to get it to a 3.6 or a 3.5 before I apply to grad school. I was looking at the credentials, and the schools I'm applying to are generally looking for a 3.0 or higher. So, I just want to stand out. I was just wondering... if any of you get straight A's, how do you do it? Because it's more of the hard classes, like math and science, where I get B's. I usually get A's in my psych classes and english classes and stuff. I also work part time and am involved in two organizations at school, one which I am on the executive board. So, I just want to know how I can manage my time accordingly and stuff like that. Thanks! :)
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First of all judging from what you said you shouldn't have much of an issue getting into the schools of your choice, you're involved in so much stuff, have mostly good grades and you're involved in a few activities.
When I was in high school, I managed to get straight As every semester. I took math that year and once I realized that I kept on getting 80s on tests, instead of the 90s that I had originally wanted, I would study the steps that the teacher had taught me and write down problems that we hadn't done in class and weren't told to do for homework. About science, if I was taught anything about college science by going to a college prep school, science is basically math and labs, as well as memorizing certain facts perhaps, correct?
I would recommend setting up problems for yourself, as well... like the equations that you have to do for Chemistry, I'm not sure what science you're taking, make sure that you know how to calculate basically everything.
Also, do you have a friend who gets straight A's in math and science but struggles a bit in English or Psychology? Remember that the "easy" classes for some people can be difficult for others, ask that friend for help and as a favor to them help them with their English paper.
Good luck with getting straight A's in school!
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Q: hey guys ...i am 19yrs old girl.i am worried about my future.my cousin brother forced me to have sex when i was 8-9years old.if i dnt do so he use to beat me.he have sex with me 2-3 times but i didnt bleed.he use to lick n play with my pussy until i get menstruation(on 11).now i am worried if my bf got to know m not virgin..i dnt want him to knw since that was not my fault..help me out.do u think my bf will knw??
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I think that you should tell him your boyfriend what happened. If you guys decided to start having sex you would be reminded by this constant memory, and it's good to have someone to talk to this about.
Have you ever told your parents this? You may want to come out with this now, so that you can possibly get the help you need by going to a counselor and your cousin brother can be punished for raping you... you were molested, that is not okay.
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Q: My boyfriend likes to rub his penis on my vagina. Is there any chance that I could get pregnant? my bf can go on for hrs. we dont have sex. i am a virgin, he has came on me while i was on him. he has rubbed his penis on my vagina by the ****... he has pre *** on my vagina many time for hrs straight at a time.... can i get prego for doing this? please help me!!!!
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When a penis enters your vagina, you are having sex. He may not be thrusting inside of you, it may not be for long... but you are still having sex. Depending on how young you are the more fertile you are, pre-cum in a sexually-experience adult male, usually contains at least one sperm cell. Just one sperm cell can get you pregnant, I'm assuming that you're a teenager and you are probably more fertile, so I would stop doing this. It would be much better if you were actually having protected sex with the use of a condom and/or the pill, rather than letting him rub your penis into your vagina without a condom on... you can also get STDs this way.
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Q: Hi, im a 15 year old girl.My boyfriend is 17years.
At first he was my friend and I always said I will have a boyfriend when i finish school, unfortunately that did not happen.we now have sex, he always wants money from me and I would give him.I love him so much and i think the reason why i feel like I cant do without him is because i do not live with my dad and theres no proper father and daughter cummunication.my mom
does not live with me either. he told me he will show me the love im not recieving from my parents,but this demanding way of him steps in some time and ill have to give him money or what he wants.What should I do ? leave him.
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This guy sounds extremely dangerous, like he's very controlling. He probably thinks that he can take advantage of you because you are 15 years old, and you don't have as much experience as some of the other girls that he knows. Unlike most girls his age and your age you also don't have the love of your parents and knows that you're very vulnerable. It is NEVER acceptable for a guy to take your money, I made this mistake before with my first boyfriend... my current boyfriend refuses to take money from me.
It sounds like you may need to go to therapy, I suggest that you go to your school guidance counselor and let him or her know what's going on and that you would like to see a therapist. Maybe you even have a school psychologist that you can see? I think that you should talk to that person about how you feel like not having a close relationship with your parents is having a negative influence on you and you feel like you're in danger of being in a controlling relationship.... see what they have to tell you.
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Q: so, yesterday was mine and my boyfriends 6th moth anniversary. And we kind of had a argument, yesterday morning he thought I was mad at him because he got a text from me saying 'I hate seeing you beat yourself up over things.' I didn't send that, and if I did it was a long time ago. Then I over reacted when he and I were hanging out... I just knew something was wrong from the way he was acting. Then his mom came home and I told her my friend offered for me to go to New York with her and our best friend. I didn't tell him right away because I knew that would upset him more. we got better for about an hour, then I tried tickling him, just for fun... He kind of got pissed off and told me that he hates it when I do it all the time. So I said I would stop, and I don't know how, but he got all emotional saying 'he ruined our anniversary','why are you even here? You deserve better', 'that I'll leave him eventually' I know I wont, what can I do to show him that I'll always love him?
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It sounds like he was in a pretty bad mood, my boyfriend has been in these kind of moods before as well. I think that this is quite a common mood to be in, and he probably feels like crap for starting a fight with you on your 6 month anniversary.
I would say sit him down and talk to him, tell him that you love him and forgive him for getting in such a bad mood. Whenever he's in a mood like that, and he's talking to you listen to him... and try to be as supportive as possible. Having a boyfriend is a lot like having a really good friend that you have a more romantic relationship with, they need the same kind of support that you would give to a friend :).
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Q: I have sort of an odd situation. My boyfriend and I who recently, about 2 months ago, got back together after being together for 8 months and breaking up, called me F*ed up. He calls me all sorts of names, and tells me to stfu, calls me crazy, nuts, and all other things. When were argue this is what he replies back with. He can't communicate right. He is getting better but I can't make him understand how disrespectful it is to call your girlfriend those names. How do I make him understand what he is doing is wrong and no matter who he is with no one will take that from him? Should I break up with him? I am so comfortable with him and I have a great time with him but he doesn't connect on an emotional level with me.
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I agree with adviceman49, this guy is verbally abusing you. You need to get out of this relationship as soon as possible, and pray for his sake that he gets the help that he needs. Sometimes a verbally abusive relationship can get to the point where the guy will start hitting you, and that's NOT OKAY.
He may grow out of this when he grows older, he may not. Getting rid of this disorder will be hard for him, and you probably won't be able to do anything to make him realize that the way hat he's treating you is not cool.
There are plenty of guys that you can find who will be able to properly communicate with you, and you will feel the same feeling again. If I were you, I would not let this escalate any further... call it quits and cut him out of your life.
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Q: i gave head last night and this morning i woke up with a sore throat and two soars on the side of my cheek. should i be worried or no?
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I agree with adviceman49, these sores could be nothing or they could be an STD. Go to your local Planned Parenthood to find out more, go here for a list of locations: http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
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Q: Who is My true friend?
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One thing about friends is that when you get older most of them will drift away. You may or may not even be in high school, but people tend to lose touch when they go their separate ways (which you may or may not yet be aware of).
The most important characteristics to look for in a true friend is someone who will stand up for you, be by your side no matter what. Also this person will probably not be afraid of telling you when you're being, or over-reacting about something when you are.
Most importantly a true friend will never stab you in the back, if they do then they're a fair weather friend and you need to leave that person ALONE.
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Q: Me and This Guy Been Going Out And Now he Saying Stuff Like He Dont Trust Me So I Went Off On Him and We Over Now! Im Happy about that But He Still BOthering Me what Do I Do?
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This can be perceived as harassment, this is something that no one should have to tolerate. If it starts getting bad enough where you're feeling very uncomfortable and threatened, tell him if he doesn't stop that you will file harassment charges against him with the police. Of course if you are under 18 you will need a parent or a guardian in order to help you do this, if he decides to not leave you.
If you're under 18, and judging from your post you seem like you probably are, tell your parents or a trusted adult that this guy isn't leaving you alone. See what they tell you to do, if you decide that you would want to press charges tell them that.
It sounds like you might have to though, this guy sounds like he could be psychotic.
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Q: Okay so i have a boyfriend and i understand that spending time apart is just as important as spending time together but he had borrowed his sisters car and i hadnt seen him or spent some quality time with him since wednesday (its saturday) and instead of spending time with me he went to spend time with his friends and driving other people here and there.
My question is should i say somehting to him about how im feeling or should i jus let it go??
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Letting something that bothers you in a relationship can lead to problems along the way that can actually break up your relationship, tell him that you think that he should have made time to see you. Having great communications is one of the keys of making a relationship last.
Good luck!
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Q: Hello. I am Male/16. I have an idea for a project. Its basically a new car. Its actually very simple without the "technical" details. I am almost sure that it can work. The only problem is that I don't know where to start. It would be great just to do minor experiments. I have searched the internet and found nothing similar. But I am still worried that someone else might break out with a similar idea. Are there any places that I can contact? Any? That can help? Funds are not available at all. If I do not find a way anytime soon, I may have to wait a long time and experiment in a garage or something 10 years from now.
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First of all you didn't mention how well you know the mechanics of a car, if you don't know what your doing building a car and getting it to run can be very dangerous. Do you have any mechanical training, does your father have any mechanical training, an older cousin, an older brother, maybe?
Also before you invent anything, trying to patent that invention is a good idea. In fact you should try to patent this idea before posting it on the web. I know of a toy inventor on youtube whose currently in the process of building a really cool robot, people have stolen his idea. Patents are expensive but try to get an after school job if you don't have one, also setting up a website to get donations can be a good idea too, go to the bank with one of your parents and set up your own savings account to prevent you from spending the money that you're saving up.
Remember that not all inventions get as popular as the original creator originally thought that they would be. Good luck!
http://pw1.netcom.com/~patents2/What%20Does%20It%20Cost%20Patent.htm
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Q: 21 female Nick -18
So me and Nick have been "talking" for about 5 months but only official for about a month. I'm honestly so comfortable with him, and he treats me like a princess. His mom and dad are divorced, he lives with his mom. I know his dad and step-mom very well. I've met his mom once, and it was a quick "hi" because she had to go somewhere.
Nick says his mom is always asking how I'm doing and how we are doing together, which is nice. I know she wants to get to know me and actually get to see me for more than a minute. Well just yesterday Nick said, my mom wants you to come to her birthday dinner in 2 weeks at my grandmas. He said it was going to be his aunt and uncle and his other uncle, his grandparents, his sister and then his mom and her boyfriend. I am freaking out! Obviously i can't say no just because I'm scared. I should really meet them. It's just that I'm horrible when it comes to meeting new people. I'm so shy, I never know what to say. Obviously I want his family to like me but it will be awkward meeting his whole family at a dinner. I'm always the girl who just sits there and listens to what everyone else is saying. I'm not outgoing at all when it comes to meeting new people -especially my boyfriends family!
How can I get through this? Any advice!?
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I'm relatively shy too when it comes to interacting with new people, although I am now at the point that I can talk to my boyfriend's mom... his dad died when he was 15 (rather not talk about it). What I basically did was when she had questions for me I would answer them, until I became comfortable with talking to her if I were you I would try that.
Also depending on how old-fashioned your boyfriend's family is, dress more conservatively for dinner. It's always safest to try to show as little as possible for the time being. Be polite to everyone and most of all be yourself, most people can tell when you're trying to put on an act. Ask her or your boyfriend what she wants you to call her, does she want to be known by her first name or does she want to be called Ms. So-and-So?
Possibly you can buy her a little something as well, maybe go to your local bakery and pick up a tray of cookies or go to the store and buy her a box of chocolates... just something nice.
Your boyfriend likes you, his mom will most likely too if given the chance. Good luck!
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Q: I'm 21.
Last night me and my boyfriend spent the night together. I've never given a guy a BJ before. I had my period so we couldn't do much, so I was giving him a HJ and decided to try giving him a BJ because I'm so comfortable with him and it felt right.
At first I thought it was going to be disgusting, but it wasn't to me at all. I was fine with it. The only thing is- I GOT BORED! I was doing it, and doing it, and I was like okay this is boring ..not to mention I was getting tired!
Is this normal? I know he was enjoying it by what he was saying, but I don't know how I can keep doing it without being so bored haha.
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A good way to not be bored is to have him do stuff to you as well. Most people when they're on their period do not necessarily want to have sex, it can be messy and it's a turn off for some men. He can't finger you or eat you out either, unless he wants to risk getting your blood all over his hands, however he can play with your tits, suck your nipples... that may make the experience a bit more fun for you.
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Q: I'm 18 years old and I'm between a C and a D cup in bra size. This problem has been going on for a few years and I just don't know what to do anymore, it's interfering with my love life.
I think I have big pores on my breasts, and it often looks like there are black heads on the skin. When I squeeze then, sometimes I get a white pus, sometimes I get something that kind of resembles a blackhead but are very different from the ones on the face, and sometimes I get nothing and it just bleeds. Needless to say, this causes scabs with sometimes cause a little scarring.
I know the obvious answer is to stop picking, but I have a impulsive problem with that. I need to figure out how to stop picking, but at the same time I want my boobs to look normal and not have those big pores with things that look like blackheads. Any suggestions?
I feel like I'm the only person in the world with this problem...I get insecure when I wear low cut shirts, bathing suits, etc. Especially when I'm being intimate with a guy, if it's really bad that day, I won't take off my bra or I'll even keep my entire shirt on and that is frustrating sometimes cause I feel insecure when I don't want to be, and I know it's frustrating for him cause he wants to be able to look at my chest when we're making love. If it's not that bad, sometimes I even put make up on to conceal the little spots so and if it's dark in the room, I'm comfortable showing my boobs.
Anyways, I'm in college and this boob problem with the skin has been going on since early high school. Help please!
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I hate to say this to you, but have you gone to a dermatologist about this problem? You mention that you're in college, your campus doctor can probably refer you to a dermatologist that will take your insurance. If it's affecting your love life and making you feel insecure it's very important, however if a guy really likes you he won't care if your boobs look weird... it's all in your head.
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Q: ok so my really close friend (aka the guy i like) is always with me, like 24/7 we r super super close and we flirt all the time, but now hes treating one of my close friends the same way. i thought that he was starting to like me, but now hes starting ditching me for her. we still are together all the time, but its still a lot less than before. is there still hope that he might like me?
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It is possible to like more than one person at a time, however you haven't really provided any evidence other than flirting that would give us evidence that he may like you. I hate to break the news to you but sometimes flirting is just for fun, and there's nothing else behind it. If you really like him enough tell him how you feel, although you may view it as risky, if it's worth it that he's your friend then you really don't have anything to lose.
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Q: Hello!!!!
Im 15 years old and my boyfriend is 14. Tomorrow is homecoming and I want to kiss him. But I have no Idea how though.I been hearing that he wants to kiss me but I just dont know when to. Any Advice will help before tomorrow night please.....
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If he wants to kiss you it will come naturally, when the two of you are ready. Don't rush things enjoy your relationship :), it's like sex almost [ not that I'm suggesting it with you being 14 or 15 ] you don't rush it, or else you can be awkward and you'll regret it.
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Q: okay so first off, i'm a girl. i've masturbated before, but it wasn't that enjoyable. today, i tried again because i've been really horny lately. i was fingering myself with one finger first and then decided to use two. i started off slow and then really fast. it felt amazing and i was moaning and everything. i think i "came" a little but kept going because it felt so good. so i started going fast again and i came again. i was looking down and saw blood. idk do you think i broke my hymen? i've had sex before with one person but never broke it. it didn't really hurt or anything either.
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The myth of breaking your hymen during your first time is false nowadays, A LOT of girls end up breaking it when they fall. Did it hurt when you had sex with that person? That being said blood is a strong indication of a broken hymen.
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