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Boob problem
I'm 18 years old and I'm between a C and a D cup in bra size. This problem has been going on for a few years and I just don't know what to do anymore, it's interfering with my love life.
I think I have big pores on my breasts, and it often looks like there are black heads on the skin. When I squeeze then, sometimes I get a white pus, sometimes I get something that kind of resembles a blackhead but are very different from the ones on the face, and sometimes I get nothing and it just bleeds. Needless to say, this causes scabs with sometimes cause a little scarring.
I know the obvious answer is to stop picking, but I have a impulsive problem with that. I need to figure out how to stop picking, but at the same time I want my boobs to look normal and not have those big pores with things that look like blackheads. Any suggestions?
I feel like I'm the only person in the world with this problem...I get insecure when I wear low cut shirts, bathing suits, etc. Especially when I'm being intimate with a guy, if it's really bad that day, I won't take off my bra or I'll even keep my entire shirt on and that is frustrating sometimes cause I feel insecure when I don't want to be, and I know it's frustrating for him cause he wants to be able to look at my chest when we're making love. If it's not that bad, sometimes I even put make up on to conceal the little spots so and if it's dark in the room, I'm comfortable showing my boobs.
Anyways, I'm in college and this boob problem with the skin has been going on since early high school. Help please!
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Different people have different problems. Yours isn't that severe compared to others. I can imagine the insecurity it causes, though.
You need to see a dermatologist and the sooner the better since he/she would be most likely to be able to solve your problem. You'll be fine. Just see a professional.
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Both Zane & soadorable__x3 have given you good advice. Stop picking at the pimples. Wash you breasts daily or when you get back from school if you have had a particularly sweaty day and change your bra. See a your GYN and a Dermatologist. Wear a good cotton bra for every day wear and leave the sexy lacy things for date nights.
Any man that expects his girlfriend or wife to have an absolutely perfect body is living in a dream world. None of us are perfect in body or any other way.
What attracts us to one another in a large part is appearances. But that appearance is when we are fully clothed. Then when the clothing finally comes off there are going to be hidden flaws, that is just a fact of life. Usually by the time the clothing comes off the physical attractiveness has given way to something less superficial. So let your boyfriend look. If all he wants to sees is beauty that is only skin deep he is not worthy of you or your love.
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First, Stop picking. Picking is the worst thing you can do.
Second, I advise you to wash your breast daily with warm water. Forget using soap, Just a warm cloth with do the job. Acne can be caused from sweating, If you can help it skip the lacey bra and go for cotton. Lace can build up odor and cause sweat.
Last but not least, If a guy is judging you by your appearance then you shouldn't be with him. Nobody should be with someone because of the way they look, It's about who they are. Nobody is perfect in this world believe me we all have our flaws. Also, I don't know if you are aware but certain types of soaps can also cause acne as well try switching and see if that helps any.
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I hate to say this to you, but have you gone to a dermatologist about this problem? You mention that you're in college, your campus doctor can probably refer you to a dermatologist that will take your insurance. If it's affecting your love life and making you feel insecure it's very important, however if a guy really likes you he won't care if your boobs look weird... it's all in your head.
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