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What can I do to show him that I'll always love him?
so, yesterday was mine and my boyfriends 6th moth anniversary. And we kind of had a argument, yesterday morning he thought I was mad at him because he got a text from me saying 'I hate seeing you beat yourself up over things.' I didn't send that, and if I did it was a long time ago. Then I over reacted when he and I were hanging out... I just knew something was wrong from the way he was acting. Then his mom came home and I told her my friend offered for me to go to New York with her and our best friend. I didn't tell him right away because I knew that would upset him more. we got better for about an hour, then I tried tickling him, just for fun... He kind of got pissed off and told me that he hates it when I do it all the time. So I said I would stop, and I don't know how, but he got all emotional saying 'he ruined our anniversary','why are you even here? You deserve better', 'that I'll leave him eventually' I know I wont, what can I do to show him that I'll always love him?
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It sounds like he was in a pretty bad mood, my boyfriend has been in these kind of moods before as well. I think that this is quite a common mood to be in, and he probably feels like crap for starting a fight with you on your 6 month anniversary.
I would say sit him down and talk to him, tell him that you love him and forgive him for getting in such a bad mood. Whenever he's in a mood like that, and he's talking to you listen to him... and try to be as supportive as possible. Having a boyfriend is a lot like having a really good friend that you have a more romantic relationship with, they need the same kind of support that you would give to a friend :).
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Not all anniversaries are going to be perfect nothing is perfect. He may just blame himself for the argument because of the way he acted. As his girlfriend just be there for him be his friend and his girlfriend. You don't have to buy him anything. Being there shows you care and that you love him.
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