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Good kissing tips.
Im an almost fourteen yearold girl who hasn't had her first kiss yet, I don't have q boyfriend at the time but there's a guy that I like that likes me. Hes aleady had his first kiss but he regrets it. I want mine with him. Any advice on how to kiss Good and stuff, tell me please! Thanks!
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The first rule of being a good kisser is to relax.
The second rule is to be in a comfortable position to do it. This will vary by individual.
The third rule is to focus more on communicating something with your kiss rather than the mechanics of it.
After that, the rest is pretty much up to the two of you.
In your case, just tell him, if he doesn't already know, that you've never kissed a guy before and so you want to take it slow and not use any tongue yet. Start with a peck on the lips and then just slowly feel each other out with your lips. Caress his cheek with your hand because that feels really good because your hands are soft.
Kissing is something that I think is instinctual and trying to describe how to do it is pretty hard. I've known women who were bad kissers and others who were excellent. My last girlfriend was out of this world in that department.
I knew one girl who, when she was about to get her first boyfriend, practiced kissing with another girl who was a friend of hers even thogh she was completely straight.
Anyway, instead of one "first kiss," make that plural and look at it more as a "first series" of kisses because the accumulated communication you build up with them is really what matters, not the mere act. With the aforementioned last girlfriend, for example, I think we spent the first five minutes we ever kissed each other just exchanging short pecks trying to get a feel for our kissing styles. Once we established that, it was all hands on deck and things got rather passionate and hot.
To wrap up, just remember that your body is your own and nobody can tell you what to do with it. Be assertive about stuff you don't want to do and be willing to walk if it's necessary. You're pretty unlikely to marry anyone you meet between now and somewhere in your 20's, so don't do anything stupid and be willing to say no to the whims of the herd.
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When kissing, I typically just go with the flow... follow his lead, if he uses tongue use tongue too, if he tries to clasp your mouth against his do that too. Everyone has their own kissing style and when you get used to kissing, you will have your own too. If he knows that you have never been kissed before, don't worry about what he thinks because if he's worth your time he'll be fine with however you kissed him, the two of you will eventually get better.
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i advise the "peck" kiss would be the best and most appropriate. its cute and sliiiightly flirty,and just right for your age. NEVER give tongue on the 1st kiss..the person wont be expecting it..and it can go 1 of 2 ways: Them(or possibly even you):"whoa! what are you doing?!". Or they continue going with it,but its very awkward for them..trust me..i know. -_-. heheh home this helps.
-S.LaVera
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