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How to not be bored when giving a BJ
I'm 21.
Last night me and my boyfriend spent the night together. I've never given a guy a BJ before. I had my period so we couldn't do much, so I was giving him a HJ and decided to try giving him a BJ because I'm so comfortable with him and it felt right.
At first I thought it was going to be disgusting, but it wasn't to me at all. I was fine with it. The only thing is- I GOT BORED! I was doing it, and doing it, and I was like okay this is boring ..not to mention I was getting tired!
Is this normal? I know he was enjoying it by what he was saying, but I don't know how I can keep doing it without being so bored haha.
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Sounds like my experience. There are a whole number of things you could do...but hells bells. I can't actually help you out. o.O The first I gave a bj I was like...'how long is this gonna last? why is it taking so long?' and my mind wandered and wandered and suddenly he was cumming in my mouth and I was like 'ACK!' but...Idk...huh. think about how wonderful it is for him, focus on it? I'm sorry I thought I could answer your question...guess not. :P My bad. don't want to not submit my thoughts though...lol!
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The only thing you can really do is eroticize in your mind his reactions. Believe me, when you are doing this for him he thinks it is really, really hot! It's like when I eat pussy the most erotic thing about it are the musical assemblage of her sighs, moans and orgasms, nevernmind the fact that vaginas are beautiful.
If you really love him and aren't just doing it out of some sense of obligation, you should enjoy getting him off. Keep your hand and jaw limp to stave off fatigue and have at it!
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To be honest, yes it is quite normal doing the same thing over and over. The main thing to remember while you're doing it is that he can't last forever!
As a 20/F just like you despite it being my time of the month I have no problems giving but it does get to the stage where I think I wish it was me getting some one sided pleasure.
Can I suggest going half and half? As in half BJ and half HJ? It tends to make things a little more interesting and I've found that guys do not last as long.
Better still while you are doing what you are doing it is a good time to make lists and think about what also needs doing. Many a time I have found myself thinking about the week ahead while I am pleasure giving or thinking about old memories.
Another idea for you is to maybe try thinking of an unrealistic crush while you're doing it like a favourite actor or singer. It adds variety but keep it to yourself incase he gets a complex.
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A good way to not be bored is to have him do stuff to you as well. Most people when they're on their period do not necessarily want to have sex, it can be messy and it's a turn off for some men. He can't finger you or eat you out either, unless he wants to risk getting your blood all over his hands, however he can play with your tits, suck your nipples... that may make the experience a bit more fun for you.
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