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Hey everyone, first off if your answerign this, dont give me some stupid answer or some unhelpful information cuz i really need some help. I have a really big problem with cussing. I really cant help it sometimes, its really hard and i cannot stop cursing. It feels real bad when i do it but sometimes it feels like it comes natural. wat can i do? i really dont know how to stop (link)
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This is SOOOOOOOOOOOH me! I CUSS ALL THE TIME! AND I FEEL GUILTY AFTER DOING IT!!!!! Sometimes I subsitute the word so it doesn't seem like a curse FOR EXAMPLE:
Fugg- fu**
Fuggin- fu**ing
Shittles- sh**
What the fugg- what the fu**
niggling or negro- ni66a
anus- a55hole
biatch- bit**
SEE ITS REAL EASY!!!!!! AND IF THIS DOESN'T WORK FOR YOU THEN WHEN YOU GET HOME FROM SCHOOL, ASK GOD FOR FORGIVENESS! It makes me feel better if I do that.
P.S. I'm black so please don't complain about OHH SHE'S BEING RACIST LOL.
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i need some advice here... i'm kinda freaking out.
graphic, sorry.
anyways, so im on the ortho evra patch and i'v been on it for a while know and well last month i accedentally forgot to change it and went 2 days with an old one on and my period was like 5 days early and my period was like 10-11 days, hell i know, trust me. and well it was like done after about 6 (normal for me) but the yucki brown-end-of-the-period stuff went on forever. then finally it just stopped and i was like okay sweet. im on patch #2 for this month and i changed it on monday, and since like sunday night or monday morning i started getting that yucki brown stuff again and i dont know why and its really kind of scaring me. I had sex with my b/f on that friday, we dont use condoms because im on birth control and well.. to be honest i do NOT want to be effing pregnant. idk why i would be tho? you don't spot or bleed if your pregnant do you? please help.. i dont want to go to the doctor if its something stupid like my period wasnt done coming out or something haha. write back asap!! i rate high. (link)
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The truth is that you CAN spot or bleed when your pregnant but not always. The symptoms are different for everyone and sometimes, you don't bleed at all!
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I've been having alot of problems with my life latley ; and it's all starting to really weigh me down.
1) I was diagnosed with scoliosis the other week. Now I might have to get a brace or even surgery.
2) Today I went to the dentist to get my gums checked out before I got braces on. Turns out my lower gums are weak and I need surgery to fix them. Then I need two permenant teeth pulled then I will finally get my braces on.
3) I'm going to be kicked off of the cheerleading squad cause I will be missing 7 games during my recovery from the surgery. I will also miss several practices with my every other week check-ups on my back.
4) My dad's getting a pay cut in 2 weeks.
5) We're moving.
Since my dad is getting a paycut ; we are watching our budget. Now that I have all these surgerys, and other problems, I will cost my parents over $8,000 in treatments ; check ups ; and surgeries. My mom is constantly reminding me that I'm the one thats costing them so much money. There is nothing I can do about it though! I didn't purposley screw up my back. I didn't all the sudden decided I want weak gums to have to get surgery and cost them thousands of dollars. What do I dO ? I can't take the guilt and pain. The Surgerys are scaring me half to death, my mom isn't helping, and all of my families troubles are my fault. Help is appreciated .. if it's not to much to ask. (link)
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I'm sorry about the scoliosis and all of the other problems that you have. Your parents have to understand that it ISN'T your fault that you need surgeries! they shouldn't take it out on you. All I can tell you to do to make you feel better is to PRAY, it helps me a lot with my life. When I pray to god about a problem in my life, he answers it, I feel so relieved and happy after I pray. I hope I helped. (THIS IS IF YOU BELIEVE IN GOD OF COURSE!!!!!!!!!!!!! IF YOU DON'T THEN TRY COUNSELLING (SP?) AND A LONGGGGGGGGGGGGG TALK WITH YOUR PARENTS ABOUT THE SITUATION THAT YOU ARE IN)
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I'm 13/m in jr high and I was wondering, how old is an appropriate age for sex? I've heard of people my age that have had sex, but I don't think 13 is an appropriate age, so..... how old should you be to have sex? (link)
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Age 18 with a high school diploma! The reason why is that you can get a job to take care of your child IF you get a girl pregnant. And you would be able to go to the doctor to get checked out for STDs without worring about parents knowing.
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I am getting my nose pierced and for all those that have had it done can you tell me if it hurts or not. (link)
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To the poster: THANK YOU FOR THE RATING!! I JUST LOVE TO HELP PEOPLE!!!!!!!! THE LOSER WHO PIERCED MY NOSE DIDN'T GIVE ME THE CLEANING PRODUCTS lol
I got my nose pierced umm I think sunday.. It looks very pretty and it didn't hurt. When it went in, it was a PINCH then it stinged for a while. Other than that, it didn't hurt and it doesn't hurt now. You have to keep it clean. Use a little bit of sea salt and hot water to keep it clean and bacitracian to keep bacteria away!
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If you decide to take the nose ring out, just get some CRUSADER SOAP & CREAM or some other cream that lightens dark spots on the skin :)
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Get a really small nose ring (I have a small diamond one) it DOESN'T look like a booger
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I know what the symptoms of mono are, but for anybody that's had it does this sound like mono to you?
My boyfriend has been one to always stay up really late (like 5 sometimes lol), but he always sleeps in on weekends to catch up and stuff so it's not all that horrible. Lately he's been getting really tired at night. He goes to sleep at like 10 or 11 which is extremely early for him. I've never known him to go to sleep until after 1. He gets headaches all the time and he's had a really bad cough on and off since I've known him, but he says that's normal for him. He hasn't been coughing lately and his headaches haven't been happening as often. He's never really eaten that much so it's hard to tell if he's lost his appetite at all. Even though he's crazy tired at night he's wide awake during the day now. What could explain him being so tired at night all of a sudden? Could it be mono? He's really stubborn and would never get tested for it. If this sounds like mono at all to anyone let me know because I don't wanna get it! (link)
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I GOT THIS INFORMATION FROM A WONDERFUL WEBSITE Mono (really called mononucleosis), is called the "kissing disease" since it is mostly transmitted from person to person through saliva or exchange of other bodily fluids. Someone who has mono can easily give their partner mono if they kiss them. It is not very contagious, and it is not an airborne virus, but kissing is not the ONLY way to get it. But those infected by mono, usually begin to feel the symptoms about 12 days after they are first infected. Mono usually then lasts about 2-4 weeks, and there is about a week recovery period. Mono usually lowers the amount of white blood cells in your body, so you are prone to other infections while you are suffering from mono. Normally, people with mono feel very tired all the time. It is very similar to a head cold, but runny noses and sniffling may not be part of the symptoms. Soar throats and coughs may also appear. Those with mono must stay in bed for long periods of time, and should not go out in public.
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I have a problem. One of my friend's friend is being really fresh a mean to me. I am not really sure why. It might be because she is jelous of me and my friends friendship or something. I am a really nice person and no one has ever been mean or anything to me. what should i do when she coments or gives looks? (link)
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Ignore her, if you stoop to her level then you will be as ignorant as her. Don't associate yourself with that mean girl if she treats you bad. It isn't fair to you.
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My sister (28) and I(15)are sending my mom into Rehabilitation/Detoxification (Rehab/Detox) for about 10 days. My mom has many severe addictions to many, many different drugs..and my sis says she's going to be in probably the worst pain for a couple days in her entire life. She said that once my mom tried getting off her drugs and has diarahhea that was pure blood. My sis says its going to be way worse when she goes into rehab and that my mother is going to be in so much pain that she doesnt want to see me and my sister because she dooesnt want us to see her in such bad condition. So i guess my question is..what can I do to make myself feel better about the pain that my mom is going to be put through? It hurts me too..how do i deal with this? Thanks (link)
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Just have this in your mind (when she comes out of the rehab/detox center that she won't be addicted to those drugs anymore, she will be healthier, a few days of pain will be worth it when she is isn't addicted to those drugs anymore. BELIEVE ME. I know exactly how you are feeling. My late mother used to go into those places all the time. She became better over a period time.. Have faith, pray for her and be optimistic. P.S. BE STRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!
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evertime i become friends with guys i wind up either falling for them and getting hurt or something else. but it ALWAYS ends up BAD.
i cant handle it anymore so ive givin up talking to boys, looking at boys, talking ABOUT boys, being with boys, having a boyfriend, you got the point.
over-reacting? is this typical? any other advice..? (link)
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Yes I believe that you are over-reacting. Not ALL boys are like that. I believe that you will find a nice boy and that you shouldn't give up on the search. But NEVER GO OUT WITH A BOY THAT IS YOUR FRIEND! Ruins the relationship
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I really like this boy, but I dont know how to make him like me back! Any suggestions?! (link)
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I'm sorry but you CAN'T just make someone like you, the spark just has to be there. But you can be his friend and work your way up to the top. Get to know him, gain his trust, go places with him.. Make him laugh. OR SEDUCE HIM INTO LIKING YOU BY WEARING SEXY CLOTHES LOL.
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ok im 13 years old and i think i might be bisexual...i've had ALOT of boyfriends(like more then 30) I just moved from NY to LA Cali. I have a friend that is bi and latly when i hang out wiht her i feel these weird feelings for her. What should i do????
I rate4 HIGH!!
~LiLy~ (link)
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If you have these feelings for your friend then you should sit her down and tell her how you feel. Keeping it a secret will only drive you CRAZY! If you aren't that bold then you should throw a few hints in to find out if the girl likes you or not. If she does, then ask her out and be happy!!!!!!!!!
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my boyfriends bestfriend and i was hanging out yeaterday, and my boyfriend does not even know and i want to keep it that way any ways we were flirting all day and i know it's really wrong to and he does too but when we flirt it's like we're donig the right thing but it's wrong. im going to hang out with him again and i wondering would i be wrong if i break up with him on his birthday and flirt with his best friend (link)
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Come on now, on his BIRTHDAY?!?!?! On his SPECIAL DAY? Have a heart! At least wait a few weeks AFTER his birthday and then find a reason to break up with him other than I LIKE TO FLIRT WITH YOUR BESTFRIEND!!!!!!! If you don't like my advice, o well... What you are thinking about doing is wrong! Keeping stuff from your BF and then flirting with his BFF....
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last night i had my first kiss. it was at my friends house. she had a LOT of people over. and so yeah, me and my friend made out for a couple of seconds.
today i regret it SO much. i wish i had never done it. i just turned 13! i guess i am too young and wasnt ready but i cant go back in time. what do i do? arent most happy when this happens? i dont want my mom and dad to find out. its hard to life with myself.....waht can i do? thank you (link)
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Don't go crazy over a little kiss. Yes, first kisses are supposed to be very exciting with all of these events and emotions going through your mind and heart (mine's was) 12 going on 13 isn't young for a first kiss, I had my first (amazing) kiss when I was 12!!! I don't think that your parents will find out about an innocent kiss! If they do then explain to them that is was a spur-of-the-moment kiss. You CAN tell when a kiss means something and if that kiss didn't, then that should tell you something. Since you feel that you wasn't ready for that kiss then try to forget about it. Convince yourself that the kiss didn't mean anything and go on with your life.
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Hi!
I would like to know having sex how many times a day, is healthy...
Thanks.
With warm regards,
Udhay. (link)
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It burnes calories, relieves cramps or stomach pains, makes you feel happy, clears headaches. BUT MOST IMPORTANT, IT BURNES CALORIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Its exercise too, makes you flexable! PS: having orgasms can tire you out! So I would say about 2-3 times a day is enough..
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I like one of my best guy friends. His name is Justin. We became friends in the 7th grade and have been friends ever since. His ex keeps telling me that we should go out. I know he likes me and he knows I like him. I want him to be my bf really bad. We flirt all the time.Sometimes a little to much. I want to know if I should make the first move or wait for him. Please help me. (link)
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Make the first move
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im 13 female. i weigh aout 130 and im about 5'1'. i want to lose like 15-20 pounds. does anyone have any ideas on how to loose weight. i cant spend hours on it everyday because i am very dedicated to school. do you have any ideas?
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You can get up early in the morning and walk a mile or a few blocks before school, a walk after school, in between commercials you can do push ups, crunches, pilates and other exercises. You can eat fruits and veggies TAKE PROTEIN AND FIBER tablets. There's a lot you can do! If you have lunch outside, you can exercise. in gym you can do a few push ups. In the bathroom you can exercise. It doesn't take hours, just 30 or 50 sit ups! 5-20 minutes a day!
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You are stuck in a room with no windows or doors. a solid room. Only things in this room is a mirror and a table. How do you escape? (link)
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This is what I would do.
Try to take the mirror off the wall and see if I can go through the wall OR take a leg off of the table and try to bust the wall open! LOL
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O.K... I'm a 13/f to start with
I like this guy named Wade. I started liking him when my friend, Carissa, told me he liked me and I had always thought he was hot but he liked me and I was just... wow. Anyways, I flirted with him. We're both really shy and we hate it when people make a big scene if I like him or he likes me. We don't flirt a whole lot. I really thought that if I just talked to him more and let him know slowly and gradually that I liked him, he would ask me out. I thought it was because he was shy... but a month after that, he still didn't ask me out. But he asked out this new girl named Sarah and she's REALLY ugly. I don't think I'm the prettiest person on Earth but I KNOW I'm prettier than her.
Well, they were going out and than, in science, we had this chemical elements project where we had to partner up and I really hoped Wade would ask me to be his partner but instead, he asked this girl named Shireen. Shireen had said that day that she liked him. She's this ugly, weirdo, skinny girl thinking she can get anyone she wants. Well, a weekend passed and when we went back to school, I found out that Shireen went over to Wades house to "do the project" but they actually made out! I was so upset and mad I wanted to scream but that would be a little outrageous. I really am jealous that he's so shy around me but not all these other girls. Don't even say "It's because he likes you." because if he liked me, he would've asked ME out, he would've asked ME to be his partner, WE would've made out but instead he makes out with other girls and has the courage to ask out an ugly girl but won't ask me out. My biggest question is... WHY? I really like Wade. I would prefer a guy to answer this since they kinda have his point of view but if any girls want to answer and they know the answer, it's fine with me to answer. I just want advice on what I should do. I only have 2 classes with him but his girlfriend only has one with him. I am closer to him... why didn't he ask me out. Thanks a bunch!
Luv, Kayla
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GURL!!!!!!! HE IS OBVIOUSLY MAKING YOU JEALOUS!!!!!!!!! When a boy is shy around you, he like you!! Those other girls are trickz. They don't mean anything to him, I bet he is using those other girls for you to get exteremly jealous and so that you will have to go and confront him! Remember, boys are bashful too, it takes a lot to ask someone out. And its WAYYYYYYYYYYYYY easier to ask out someone that you DON'T like than someone that you *do* like .. Why can't you ask him out? Maybe he's waiting for YOU to make a move! Ever thought of that?
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My gramma has terminal cancer, and she is dying. It's likely that she wont make it thru the week. Im not sure how to feel. I know that im sad, i was extremely close to her, like really i was. But, i only cry when i see her in the hospital bed, and when my aunts and uncles are talking to her. idk, i feel like i should be crying, and be really sad in school and stuff. This is weird but like, what r some things to think of to make me more sad? I know its weird and stupid, but if ya have any ideas, please help me (link)
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If you want to be sad, think about not seeing her anymore. Think about her 6 feet under, cold and dead. Think about how she won't suffer anymore. Think about the family who will miss her. Think about your best friend (gramma) and how you won't be able to spend time with her. OMG THIS IS SOO SAD :'(
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ok sorry its long but... i have a lot of problems and i dont know whats wrong with me. there are just so many things...here are just a few:
1-i cut myself...like really deep to the point where i pass out and wake up with blood all over
2-i pull the ends of my hair on urdge
3-i feel tension and stress about everything bad
4-i over analyze EVERYTHING makeing it scary and bad
5-i think about suicide all the time
6-my mood can change in an instant-one minute ill be all happy and something will happen or someone will say something and ill go all depressed
7-i burn myself on occasion
8-i find it really hard to express my feelings and what imthinking b/c ik that noone will understand...they will try but they just dont get what im going through unless they r goin through it too
9-i am always tired all the time b/c i dont sleep much...i havent in like a week
10-i have lost a lot of weight b/c i refuse to eat and when some one makes me eat i throw it back up
11-at times i will find my self sitting in my room and all of a sudden i will just like start crying and i will cry for hours
12-for the past year i have been trying so hard to make it sound like i am happy and im so good to the point where my parents think that i am a "happy delightful young lady who is fun to be around"
you see? there are so many things wrong with me and like i have tried sooo many different ways to cope with the stress in my life but like nothing that i have tried works! its just realy hard and idk what to do.
ill rate high for good answers...nothing cocky plz
♥ rrenef ♥ (link)
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I understand where you are coming from with number 3 because I also feel tension and stress about everything bad because it scares me but I try to keep thinking positive and stay optimistic and it really helps me. in number 4, I ALSO think about all of the bad things in a situation. I used to think about suicide but I stoped because there is so much to live for! I think the answer for number 6 is a chemical imbalance.. My friend was also like that but her mother took her to the doctor and that helped a lot. Councelling can also help. I DON'T KNOW WHY YOU WOULD WANT TO BURN YOURSELF! It doesn't look like you have a hard time experssing your feelings because u took a huge step by posting on this website!!! If someone doesn't understand then make them understand, educate them! Take some time to talk to your parents about number 9 because you need sleep! Your body needs rest. For number 10, do you think that food is bad? Maybe for number 11, you need to get out and spend time with teens your age! To make you happy. NOW FOR NUMBER 12, STOP LIVING A LIE, YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE SAD AND DEPRESSED SO TELL YOUR PARENTS! NEVER KEEP ALL OF THIS FROM THE PEOPLE WHO LOVE YOU! IF U THINK THAT YOUR PARENTS WON'T UNDERSTAND THEN TELL A TEACHER, A FRIEND, SOMEONE!
If you need someone to talk to, I'm here
AIM- rainnsun91
Yahoo- tru_blu09
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