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I had one of these when I was like 13
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Brad: BETSY im talking about kaliey
Brad: hahahahah ok i dont.. okay i wont...
Me: ohh sry ...blonde remember ?! lol
Brad: obviously
Me: i get confused easily
Brad: AH HUH

Would this be considered flirting or not?? Can you tell by this conversation or not?? And if not flirting how can i flirt??

thats not exactly flirtin` .. thats u dissin` urself -- and him agreeing with you.

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whats bipolar mean?

uhhh it means like having to extremes .. example: when ur happy, your WAY too happy and when ur sad you kinda lose ur mind

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i have a real big problem.. my best friend cuts herself.. she doesnt seem to think that theres anything wrong with it. but there deff. is. and the reason she does it is bcuz the kid she likes isnt going out with her but he likes her. and i keep talking to her telling her that she needs to stop bcuz shes gona end up killing herself one day. and she keeps saying i know i know im gona stop. but she never does. and she told me not to tell her mom or any guidence counclers or anyone. how i can help her stop hurting herslef without telling anyone about it??

well, there's this tecnique my friend is using, i dont know if it'll work but have your friend try it ..

ok, well, have her wear 2 rubber bands on each wrist(2, just in case one breaks) and whenever she feels like cutting herself, have her snap the rubberband on her arm.

I don't really understand it, but it works for my friend so i hope it works for yours.

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this is goin to sound REALLY werid and maybe distubbing but i need an outside opinon,
i have seen my cousin, 2 times in my WHOLE life, me and my family stayed there for a weekend the second time, me and him slept outside in the tent cuz there was no rooms in the house, seperate, or anythig so we jsut slept out there and he kept putting moves on me! and touching me like, ( a boyfirend ) would do, i was getting really uncomfortable then when i was goin to sleep he pulled nice in close to me, and then he started kissing me then we started to make out i then id stop and tell him this is wrong he said we barley see each other so its allright but i didnt' agree i went back to trying to fall a sleep and then he started goin down my pajama pants and he FINGERD me, for liek 3-5 seconds cuz i pushed him off, i don't feel comfortable to even talk to him on the computer anymore and i can't TELL anyone cuz they'll think im like discusting what do you guys think?

ok, first of all, thats kinda incest. But if you never see him, who's gonna know.

secondly, if you said no, thats molesting. you should tell someone, tell your parents or something, bcuz thats kinda a big deal.

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I need help witht this riddle please try n figure it out fo me ok here it goes....... there is a ,man on trial and a man steps up to the stand and asks to speak, the judge says who are u the man says brother n sisters i have none but the father of this man is my fathers son, how is the man related to the criminal. $M$

uhmmm .. he was the criminal?¿?¿?

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On Friday I was with this boy it was our first time hanging out we've been friends for almost a year. We made out and stuff and he went up my shirt. He kept asking to finger me and I said no and then he would ask again and again. I dunno I think this is a little werid don't you? We're not going out like bf and gf but I can see us doing that. I really do like him but should I let him?? and please don't tell me o0o wait until ur comforable bc I don't want him doing it then never talking to me again. sry if this is long

Well, i don't think he should be doing that in the first place, if you're not going out. But don't let him do it if it feels weird to you. Even if you like him, you gotta do whats good for you.

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i have fallen in love with my best guy friend, and i told him that i love him he said that he loves me back, but says that i just cant be. we hug, kiss and are all over eachother, but we're not dating, and everytime i bring it up to him he just says " it just cant be right now". i feel hurt but yet i cant stop thinking of him. what should i do? am i obsessed? ( i am 13/female )

you probably are obsessed, but its ok. And maybe he doesn't wanna you two to be together because it might change the strong bond you guys have as friends. Time will tell whether you should be together or not. If he's not ready to be with you, you shouldn't push him. That'll only make him back out more.

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My boyfriend hangs around more with his "girl" friends then me. At the end of the day when we are waiting on the bus, he'll go and talk with his friends (girls) and not me. It makes me sooo mad! One of the girls is his ex girlfriend! and the other ones really like him. He's being a jerk! What's his problem and what should I do about it? Thanks so much! I RATE HIGH!

maybe he just likes flirting and being around other girls .. you should tell him that you don't feel good with him being around them more than you. and if he truly cares, he'll take it into consideration, and maybe change what he's doing.

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is it weird that i don't like anyone? i mean all my friends obsess over who they like, but i seriously can't think of anyone that i like. and im 14!

its not weird that you don't like anyone. Maybe you've just never found anyone that is not worth liking. There are plenty of people your age who just don't waste their time on boys and that is perfectly normal

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hey anne, i just wanted to say .. NICE PICTURE TAKING SKILLZ =P *hehe* oh and its ... name not important ... keep up the great photography -alright i'm just teasing =D latterr no wait since this is an "ASK A QUESTION" thingie then i better ask for advice - nope sorry can't think of anything - once again keep up the photography =P haha sorry can't help it
xo latter

uhhh thx G

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hey anne its alex u know who i like should i ask her out or wait? i need help on this one. u have always been there for me. be there now plz. thanks

Alex, hehe if you want i'll just talk to her ;) jk ..

aight you should tell her you like her first and see what she thinks. And find out if she likes you too, that way you don't risk rejection. And if she likes you, ask her out, and if she dont, then uhhh dont.

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Meh and my ex, lets call him Joe,we werr in luv.. rly..but we broke up bout 2 weeks ago.. I got over him real fast.. thats wut i thought.. 2 nights ago we had a midnite covo like we used to wen we werr going out.. and i t brought bak so many memories.. 2 both of us.. we ended up talkin bout us.. and i was so tired it was round 1:30 at nite and kept sayin "we had so much fun" and now i miss him so much!i want him bac.. but he has this new gurl i dunno wut 2 do.. i sleep wit tha lil stuffed animal he gave meh.. everynite.. and cry 4 like a half an hour.. i've told him but we never can hold a convo on it. i was to chicken to tell him that night.. and now i duno how 2.. i iss him.. i could drown in my own tears i've had so many.... help meh!!!!!!
(if u could understand this)

i think you should tell him how you feel, that you wanna be with him again. And if he stays with his girlfriend you need to move on. And maybe there will be a second chance later. Until then, find someone else to place your affections on, and who knows maybe you'll be happier with them than your old boyfriend.

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okie.well i like this boy.we just started talking and now i like him even more. i know that he like me to. but i want 2 know.if me being 14.turning 15. and he being 12 turing 13 is really bad 2 even think about goin out with him?

14/f

Age ain't nothin` but a number .. if you really like him, age shouldn't matter that much -- but it is a little odd. But its not bad to think about going out with him.

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do you know what channel the summer olympics will be on?? -thnx

not sure .. try 26(NBC) or 34(ESPN)

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How do i know if a guy likes me?? i dont like asking guys if they like me because i think that is rude, but if i do ask them and they say no then it is embarrassing. So how do u find out if a guy likes me, without asking them??

well, usually he would flirt. and if he doesn't there's not too many ways to tell. Unless you have connections with his buds

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Ok.. I feel really guilty and awful about this but my mind was on a blank and I really really like this kid but he has a girlfriend.. we kissed once before I even knew he had a girlfriend.. but then I found out and i got wicked upset, and I guess he really likes me too. Then one night when we both slept over my friends house.. something happened and now I feel so bad, because all I was thinking was he has a gf wtf am I doing? In his eyes I saw he seemed alittle.. nervous, and teary at the same time.. we made out. His gf and him got into a little fight and weren't speaking when this happened, but still.. i duno.. I told him I was going to wait for him until he broke up with her, if they ever did.. but i got a bf and now I'm stuck on him.. but it's over.. and I tried hanging out with other guys but I was with this guy I like and we just did.. well.. i duno wut to do..

Signed- Confused

i think you should go for him, but just remember that he could do the same thing to you that he did to the other girl.

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uhh i dont know how to put this but ok....
I like this guy and he lives close by. and i want to ask him to go to the park with me but i dont know how without our friendship breaking up or seeming like im to much into him. HELP what should i say!?

Aight if you dunt wanna sound too into him you should be like "hey do you wanna go to the park on *Friday* or "im thinking about going to the park, wanna come" or something. Be casual. I dont think it'll break ur friendship if you ask him to go to the park.

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I seem to have fallen for this guy who I go to summer camp with; hes everything you could imagine- He's sweet, makes you laugh, is active (snowboards, surfs, skateboards), and knows how to treat a girl he cares about and make her happy. The trouble is he's going out with my friend. At least I thought she was my friend. She always hurts me, emotionally and physically. A couple weeks ago I was sitting on a fence and she pushed me off for no reason at all and I twisted my ankle, then i was drinking from a bottle and she hit the end of it on purpose and it cut my lip, she always does little things to hurt me and its finally turning into one big thing. She calls me a whore and a slut on a regular basis and always finds ways to hurt my feelings. She also talks behind peoples' backs which makes her seem a little two-faced, like she always tells my other friend she's pretty and georgous but to me shes like, "I really think shes not pretty at all." Why does he like her if he knows she's like this? He always flirts with me and smiles at me and I've even been over his house. His girlfriend, my "friend" has been wicked overprotective lately though, she yells at me when i even go over to him to just TALK! i dont know what to do, but i trust you guys to lead me through this. love, Me

Okay, this chick really doesnt sound like a friend. So if she gets mad that you talk to her bf and go over his house, its ok. bcuz she does stuff that makes u mad and ur entitled to do stuff that makes her mad. And if she gets that mad she's not a real friend anyway. So i think you should lose ur friend and keep flirting with the guy and eventually he'll realize it. And maybe he'll come to his senses and dump ur friend for you. Best of luck! Tell me what happens!! x3 Anni

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I am a 15 year old female who would like to remain anonymous who has a best friend at the age of 16. He has been in a relationship for the past 2 years and his feelings for me finally came out. I told him that the feelings i have for him are mutual but i'm disappointed as far as the outcome will remain the same as things are now. What should I do?

my bad i screwed this up before .. ok hes in a relationship .. well ask him why hes still goin` out with his girl if he likes you. And spanky needs to mind his own puppy business

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Do girls think its nasty when guys masterbate?

I already answered this question before .. but ill add on to it. I think its nasty and so do a lot of girls but its the guys business if he masterbates and its his body so he can do whatever he wants.

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