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too much love for one guy
I seem to have fallen for this guy who I go to summer camp with; hes everything you could imagine- He's sweet, makes you laugh, is active (snowboards, surfs, skateboards), and knows how to treat a girl he cares about and make her happy. The trouble is he's going out with my friend. At least I thought she was my friend. She always hurts me, emotionally and physically. A couple weeks ago I was sitting on a fence and she pushed me off for no reason at all and I twisted my ankle, then i was drinking from a bottle and she hit the end of it on purpose and it cut my lip, she always does little things to hurt me and its finally turning into one big thing. She calls me a whore and a slut on a regular basis and always finds ways to hurt my feelings. She also talks behind peoples' backs which makes her seem a little two-faced, like she always tells my other friend she's pretty and georgous but to me shes like, "I really think shes not pretty at all." Why does he like her if he knows she's like this? He always flirts with me and smiles at me and I've even been over his house. His girlfriend, my "friend" has been wicked overprotective lately though, she yells at me when i even go over to him to just TALK! i dont know what to do, but i trust you guys to lead me through this. love, Me
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holy crap hun....ok FIRST OF ALL...totaly forget the "friend" shes not worth any of your time...tell your *dream guy* how you feel!! he'll totalyl understand...tell him about your friend..he obviously doesnt deserve a gurl like that!! my ex-friend call me a bitch and a hoe and you think i care! lol but she also has the most perfect bf!! psh yea i was jealous!! but honestly...i think you should totally flirt back with him! he will totally come around!! until then, find better friends to deserve!! if you ever need anything else totally im me! hpmaddie62
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ok well this is obvious. you need to tell this to your friends face. show her up. tell her how you feel and if she doesnt change then you dont want to hang out with her anymore. then go to the guy and tell him how you feel. ask him why he likes her. and your friend is prolly just jealous of you trying to take him away. but good luck with everything. i hope i helped. rate me
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Okay, this chick really doesnt sound like a friend. So if she gets mad that you talk to her bf and go over his house, its ok. bcuz she does stuff that makes u mad and ur entitled to do stuff that makes her mad. And if she gets that mad she's not a real friend anyway. So i think you should lose ur friend and keep flirting with the guy and eventually he'll realize it. And maybe he'll come to his senses and dump ur friend for you. Best of luck! Tell me what happens!! x3 Anni
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