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hEy!! i decided to get involved in this becuz i've been known to give good advice at school! lol so if you need anything im here!

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i'm having a definete dilemma! i go to an all girls school, so makeup isn't a big deal. in the grade i'm going into, people wear makeup more, and i love wearing makeup, but just... don't. not regularly, at least. how can i start wearing make up without it being obvious??? and also, you know when u see celebs and they aren't wearin makeup, and they look wierd... almost like sickly, just cuz you're used to seeing them with makeup.... well i don't want that to happen to me!!! if i don't feel like putting on my makeup, i don't want it to be obvious! any way to wear makeup subtley, but not pointlessly???? (by pointlessly, i mean like if i looked the same as before, it would be stupid to even wear makeup)

im with you...i RARELY wear make-up...guys dont like gurls wearin too much make-up!! they like natural beauty!! celebrities only look bad cuz your used to see them lookin all pretty and made over but in the real world, no one wears "dramatic" make-up!! but w/o looking "pointlessly" you al your should wear is eye-liner and lip gloss..not much. thats all i really do

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For as long as i can remember ive been attracted more to guys that are older than me...not like wayyyy older but like 2-4 years..is that weird? i flirt with a lot of guys my age but i dont like having relationships with em...im not gonna stop i just wanna hear what other people got to say...thanks.

I do it too...dont worry..just be careful what you say..they may be attracted to you too and they might want to do stuff you dont want to. believe me i know..theres a guy who wanted to and i dont talk to him anymore..just be careful

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okay okay i know lol. i want know there any ideas we use new word.. like u we say cool to people and stuff.. I thinking of new words more then cool.. any ideas?? I want say something new cool word so old lol..
Amanda

use words with lisps!! haha like THUPER!! or that ith tho awethome!!

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Last year I was part of a drama group. Near the end of the year we teamed up with one of the other groups to use them as extras for the play. I met one of the guys from the other group and we spoke a couple of times. A few months after the play, I added him to my MSN list and since then we've talked every once in awhile. He's really friendly so it's easy to talk to him even though I don't know him too well. Recently I found out he got a job a store near where I live, and the last time I went I happened to run into him after his shift was over and we sat and talked for a little while. The point is (there better be, I've been rambling for awhile) I was wondering how I could get to become better friends with him. I mean, I don't know if talking to him more often on MSN will lead anywhere, and at this point we aren't close enough for me to suggest meeting somewhere to hang out. I'd be glad for any suggestions, thanks!

get to know is intrests. all you CAN do now is talk to him if you cant meet him anywhere...the number one thing *i think* is to make him laugh! guys like to make you laugh but TO laugh is funner for him too!! i mean isnt it for EVERYONE!? lol but just talk to him and get to know his intrests...they are KEY!!

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I seem to have fallen for this guy who I go to summer camp with; hes everything you could imagine- He's sweet, makes you laugh, is active (snowboards, surfs, skateboards), and knows how to treat a girl he cares about and make her happy. The trouble is he's going out with my friend. At least I thought she was my friend. She always hurts me, emotionally and physically. A couple weeks ago I was sitting on a fence and she pushed me off for no reason at all and I twisted my ankle, then i was drinking from a bottle and she hit the end of it on purpose and it cut my lip, she always does little things to hurt me and its finally turning into one big thing. She calls me a whore and a slut on a regular basis and always finds ways to hurt my feelings. She also talks behind peoples' backs which makes her seem a little two-faced, like she always tells my other friend she's pretty and georgous but to me shes like, "I really think shes not pretty at all." Why does he like her if he knows she's like this? He always flirts with me and smiles at me and I've even been over his house. His girlfriend, my "friend" has been wicked overprotective lately though, she yells at me when i even go over to him to just TALK! i dont know what to do, but i trust you guys to lead me through this. love, Me

holy crap hun....ok FIRST OF ALL...totaly forget the "friend" shes not worth any of your time...tell your *dream guy* how you feel!! he'll totalyl understand...tell him about your friend..he obviously doesnt deserve a gurl like that!! my ex-friend call me a bitch and a hoe and you think i care! lol but she also has the most perfect bf!! psh yea i was jealous!! but honestly...i think you should totally flirt back with him! he will totally come around!! until then, find better friends to deserve!! if you ever need anything else totally im me! hpmaddie62

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hey, my best friend hasnt really been chillin with me lately at all shes been chillin with sum otha qirl that we hated...i dunno what to do, i dont wanna lose my best friend...please help!!!

are the gurls considered "popular"? if so, then shes trying too hard to fit in...if she doesnt have time for you...then just forget her! for now i mean..if she comes around and apoligizes then your ok! but what would be better is you tell her how you feel..just do that!

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i rly need a boyfriend but i dont have the guts to tell ne one that i like them...please help

if you dont have guts to go UP to him you could:
A.Give him a note (but ONLY if hes one of those trustworthy guys that dont show all his friends)
B.tell your friend to tell him that you like him.
C.if you dont want to do any of those things...all you can really do is just...go up to him and talk to him..
ok this is what i would totally do lol(but this is just me)

Me: hey!! arent you in my *blank* class!?
Him: um yea i think so! whats your name?
Me: Maddie

a really good topic starter would be asking him if hes in one of your classes. if hes in NONE of your classes then start out like this:

Me: um you look fimiliar...whats your name?
(say his name was...Chad)
Him: Chad

its pretty simple

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