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What's his problem?


Question Posted Tuesday August 10 2004, 8:33 pm

My boyfriend hangs around more with his "girl" friends then me. At the end of the day when we are waiting on the bus, he'll go and talk with his friends (girls) and not me. It makes me sooo mad! One of the girls is his ex girlfriend! and the other ones really like him. He's being a jerk! What's his problem and what should I do about it? Thanks so much! I RATE HIGH!

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liddylflirtx3 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 6:20 pm:
you should definitly tell your boyfriend that you feel uncomfortable when he's around all the girls .. maybe sometime you should just go over there when he's with them and see what all the fuss is all about! maybe you should talk about trust with your bf ..

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TinahOfCourse answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 5:38 am:
Well, of course you have the right to be somewhat jealous, but if you really want to see what's up, I suggest you just talk about it with him. Be like "I understand that you have girls that are friends, but I just feel neglected and you seem to spend time more with them than me. I don't want to sound like a bitch or anything, but I just wanted to tell you." Something like that, I suppose. I mean, you don't want him to think you're insecure about him having girls that are friends, but you also want him to know how you feel. Afterwards, see how he treats you. If the problem persists then that's kind of bad. :/ Anyway, hope I helped some. Good luck, sweetie.

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Ryan answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 4:45 am:
hey...tell him that you don't like him going to talk to those girls. Tell him that you feel like he's not paying enough attention to you. You have to let him know otherwise he wont know.

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neenizzle answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 12:40 am:
Tell him about it, and how you feel. Maybe somethings wrong..

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Lena answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 12:00 am:
tell him how you feel.. and maybe he will understand.. and if he keeps doin it after it happens... maybe hes startin to like his ex again or the other girl.. so.. go on a break dont break up .. but see what happens from there.. just follow your heart<3

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Ditziness4life answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 11:50 pm:
This guy obviously isnt the guy for you. You may like him n all, but you can do so much better. If he isnt willing to spend time with you, you shouldnt either. This guy seems like a jerk.. break things off and find a guy whose really gonna care about you.

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xxoBriannax answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 11:25 pm:
what an asshole.. i say you dump him, obviously his "girl" friends are more important than his girlfriend.. so fuck him!! you deserve better =)





-xXoBrianna

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puppy_x3_love answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 11:24 pm:
maybe he just likes flirting and being around other girls .. you should tell him that you don't feel good with him being around them more than you. and if he truly cares, he'll take it into consideration, and maybe change what he's doing.

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spirit250 answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 11:24 pm:
Tell him, or just dump him. It depends on the kind of girl you are. If you're a softy, tell him how you feel, and that you don't want to end your relationship, but you want it to be more about the two of you together, emphasis on TOGETHER. However, if you are really mad, and just want to give him a piece of your mind, just walk up to him and dump him, and tell him it shouldn't be a big problem for him because he can just take the next in line, and it's not worth it for him to just say 'Okay, you're my girlfriend' and not act like your boyfriend.

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TucanFullOfHoles answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 11:22 pm:
tell him you are so crazy in love with him, that it bugs you when he is hanging around with his ex.

Keep in mind that your girl friends come before your boyfriend (well, at my school it is anyway) and that his friends would be pissed if he just kinda ditched them for you.

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