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I'm a Junior (16) and male. Never had a girlfriend; i'm the outspoken-nerd stereotype. Somehow everybody thinks I have a social life, don't know where they got that idea.
Anyway, there's this girl (we'll call her Kylie). She's heavily into music theatre (as am I), and we're both pretty good, so that's plenty of starting ground. To say I have feelings for her would be an understatement. At this point, I get lost. I don't know where to go from here because I've never had a girlfriend before and don't really know exactly what the procedure is (if there even is one). I've (perhaps unwisely) tried to keep my distance while remaining friendly as I've had too many experience getting on the "friends" list for life. In addition, I am really (really) scared of hurting her. She means the world to me, and I don't use that phrase lightly. A positive comment can literally make my day.
Anyway, I guess I need to know what to do from here. Some specific examples would be nice... what has worked for you. Keep in mind that I'm not at all the agressive type. It would be best for any action on my part to be able to be interpereted several different ways, that way if I determine no interest I can feign some other excuse. Basically, anything that reveals my feelings without really revealing my feelings (as stupid as that sounds). Should I just become her friend and hope I don't get shoved in the friends abiss? I also want to go slowly. Very, very slowly, because I am about scared half to death here. Help me out!
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Recently i've met a spectacular girl and I was in a very similar situation. I've had girlfriends prior, but in all honesty, I can say that they (like most other relationships anyone under 18 has) were simply childish flings predominantly just bullshit status deals. Which got old fast, and after awhile I really distanced myself from any form of romantic relationship. All the sudden I meet this girl and I was completely blown away. Like you said, a positive comment will completely make my day - whereas before I could barely find myself talking to any of the others.
There is no 'standard procedure' as it was elegantly put. There are social norms and such, but to hell with those. Don't come on too strong, sometimes a general outburst of emotion can seem a bit odd and really turn a mood around into something not so desired. What I recommend is just (if you haven't already) be around for awhile, hang out a bit and all that lovely jazz. And really just push the conversations, don't try to make them up just to have them, but don't be afraid to bring up a conversation. As you start talking more you really get to know more and more about each other, and almost indefinitely there will be a conversation which will bring up a good time for you to be able to say what it is you want to say ~ you will just be able to tell based upon the vibes being given off that it is the right time. It's unexplainable but undeniable.
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I like to take loads of photos, mainly of the flowers and plants in the garden. My aim is to be able to sell some of my pics, for magazines etc. Is there any where I can look at questions and answers relating to photography and cameras? I cant seem to find any.
Thankyou
Mik. (link)
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I've been looking at someone getting into photography for awhile ~ sadly I have to say I see very few people actually striving to become a photographer anymore. (In reality i'm looking for someone moreso to run a camera for a film than stills~ but nonetheless)
You may want to inquire at a local newspaper, or if you have any local outdoors magazines or something ~ just to get your name out there.
As for looking for questions referring to photography and cameras, I don't recall seeing very many on here. So this may not be the best place to look. However I know there are at least a handfull (probably a lot more) forums and such out there specifically created for discussions of cameras and photography. You may want to try a Yahoo search for some of those.
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i really want another cat but my mom says were not aloud but i dont know why? I also want a dog but my mom hates dogs WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!! (link)
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You current living situation may not allow it - if you rent that is. Someone may be allergic to heavy amounts of dander -
What should you do?
Ask why - then proceed from there. It's not a neccesity, so don't fret if you don't get it.
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How can you make yourself believe? Can you write "I Believe In God" a thousand times on a sheet of paper? Because I've been having trouble believing lately. (link)
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It's not something that a person can just say in a reply. It's a fairly complex thing, and it would be easier to get into a conversation instead of a Q&A scenario.
If you would like to discuss it ~ You can talk to me on AIM/MSN/E-Mail (Although i'm going to be gone until tomorrow afternoon)
AIM: TheyDiedPretty
MSN: Arsehn@Hotmail.com
E-Mail: EternalAdaptation@Gmail.com
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I'm turning 16 and I am getting a car for my birthday. My dad wants me to get a new car, but I'm not so sure because I've heard that a new car loses a certain amount of value right as you drive it off the lot. I want a Jetta, and so what would be better: a new one, or one that is 1 or 2 years old? (link)
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>< I had to buy a totalled korean beast machine from my aunt when I got my car.
If you are fortunate enough to have someone willing to spend tens of thousands of dollars on you ~ Then get quality.
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Hey, I'm 14.f and something has been bugging me. So many people have been starting to have sex, and i think its like, pathetic, how can teenagers, want to give blow jobs and hand jobs, i mean hello, its kinda weird for 13-16 year olds to do that at this age in my opinion. Does anybody out there agree with me that this stuff is stupid at this age? There have been so many questions on here about sex and hand jobs and everything and i think it is plain out pathetic! Teens shouldnt be worried about that kind of stuff at this age. Does anyone out there agree with me at all?
Thanks-
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Meh, it's a never ending struggle. Thanks Sexual Education ~ For teaching them well.
O' Brave New World With Such People In It.
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I`m at home right now, and i really dont have anything to do. I cant leave the house or anything. Does anyone know anything fun i can do inside ( websites, arts & crafts, etc.) thanks ♥ i will rate (link)
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Watch the television.
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Hi i was just wondering dus any1 know of any sites that tell you how to get from a certain place to another place by bus or train? cos all i can find is driving directions but i dont have a car
or if you cant find any then could sum1 tell me how to get from barking station to Harwich please (link)
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You don't drive a bus or train~ I'd tell you to find one that goes directly to your location, but I really doubt that yahoo would help you much. Considering out of 62 words, 13 of them were spelt wrong. One in five words you spell are wrong, so in theory a search for "driving directions from Barking Station to Harwich" would yield about 1~2 typographical errors.
I am shocked that you found driving directions.
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what are some good songs to let people know how muhc you love them and miss being with them. please help me! i really need some good songs to express how i feel. thanks much! (link)
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Why don't you act like a sensible human being and tap into your emotion to create something ORIGINAL and thusly much more MEANINGFUL ~ And at the very least much more applicable to the situation.
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i have a big lemon tree.its on the from yard so its close by the sidewalk.the lemon tree fell and it fell when this fat woman was walking. the lemon tree fell becuz of the heavy lemons and so now. she is planning to sue us..what shall i do to help? (link)
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She has no case. The lemon tree fell, and it fell while she was walking. Nothing happened to her, thusly she has no case.
Don't bother to hire a lawyer, just represent yourself.
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Ok here's the deal. This is kind of embarrasing but I wanted to get a new computer, a laptop for school. And I wanted to get rid of my old computer. The thing is, my parents want to buy it, they don't want me to throw it out. Uh, I kinda may have gone on sites that they wouldn't approve of...but they won't take no for an answer of buying it. I'm perfectly ok with throwing it in the dump, but they're not. I'm so afraid somehow they'll find out what sites I went on if they buy it. What do I do! (link)
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Assuming you are using windows and not XP~
Boot up in DOS and format your harddrive.
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i just broke up with someone and want them back, i was wondering what guys would find more attractive. i girl that plays hard to get and pretend im over him then tell him when im ready i still like him or tell him i like him and i regret it and stuff. thanks (link)
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"I like this guy that I broke up with ~ If he still likes me, should I crush his hopes of ever renewing the relationship ~ Then ask him out again? Or should I just swallow my pride and ask him out?"
Sounds easier when it's put into the real light?
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13/m hey i need advise on askin a girl out. im about to ask her out but then i get chicken. HELP!!! And i have never made-out with a girl and im 13. do most kids make out b4 13? And when will i no wen to kiss her? (link)
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Well, since you are so concerned with what others are doing, i'll fill you in.
Approach her, kiss her (use some tongue) then pimp slap her with your dominant hand.
If she cries, place her back and pick up a new one.
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wut r the things that girls like about guys? and wut things should we give them as gifts? Im in despate need of help! I just dont understand girls! (link)
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#1 thing to understand about girls ~ You can't buy them off.
Well.
I don't think a whore is a woman.
If you do ~ Well then, you can buy her off.
For gifts...
Maybe a gift card?
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Hey,
Im a 14/m and i babysit. Im NOT gay!!! i have a gf (were pretty steady) and everything. But babysitting is fun bc i like to b with lil kids and im getting payd 4 it. its easy money. Do the parnets whos kid im babysitting think im gay? bc ive gotten a lot of ppl who think im gay. (link)
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As long as the parents don't think you are gay you can continue your deviant lifestyle.
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can you get sick from the heat? like throwing up? thanks (link)
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Yes, shut yourself in a freezer to counter the effect.
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i know what an orgasm is. .. but is it safe 2 have 1 when people are in ur house? do u wait 2 have the house empty? how loud iz it? (link)
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Eck. Lay some newspaper down or put it in the pet porter until you can leave it outside by itself.
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Im into theater and all that stuff but im NOT GAY!!! i also dance for some of the shows. why do people think im gay??? GRRR it makes me so mad!!!! Why do ppl generalize like that? (link)
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Like YoungGrandma says ~ It is true, you are fairly gay if you are into theater.
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does any one know some good classic rock songs? (link)
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I'll just randomly name the best song off the pile of albums next to me (all classic rock ~ For the sake of time and space I won't name the same band twice).
Whipping Post - The Allman Brothers Band
The Turn of a Friendly Card (Part Two) - The Alan Parsons Project
House of the Rising Sun - The Animals
Roll on Down the Highway - Bachman Turner Overdrive
Happiness is a Warm Gun - The Beatles
Sabbra Cadabra - Black Sabbath
On the Road Again - Bob Dylan
Fire On High - Electric Light Orchestra
White Rabbit - Jefferson Airplane
All Along the Watchtower- The Jimi Hendrix Experience
Battle of Evermore - Led Zeppelin
Diary of a Madman - Ozzy Osbourne
Sheep - Pink Floyd
Simple Sister - Procol Harum
Melancholy Blues - Queen
Gimme Shelter - The Rolling Stones
The Sound of Silence - Simon and Garfunkel
Kid Charlemagne - Steely Dan
The Pusher - Steppenwolf
Eruption - Van Halen
Slang - Weather Report
~There's plenty more, old, new and in-between. You can direct any further requests to my inbox.
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what are some great rock songs??? i rate high!!! (link)
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I'll just randomly name the best song off the pile of albums next to me (all classic rock ~ For the sake of time and space I won't name the same band twice).
Whipping Post - The Allman Brothers Band
The Turn of a Friendly Card (Part Two) - The Alan Parsons Project
House of the Rising Sun - The Animals
Roll on Down the Highway - Bachman Turner Overdrive
Happiness is a Warm Gun - The Beatles
Sabbra Cadabra - Black Sabbath
On the Road Again - Bob Dylan
Fire On High - Electric Light Orchestra
White Rabbit - Jefferson Airplane
All Along the Watchtower- The Jimi Hendrix Experience
Battle of Evermore - Led Zeppelin
Diary of a Madman - Ozzy Osbourne
Sheep - Pink Floyd
Simple Sister - Procol Harum
Melancholy Blues - Queen
Gimme Shelter - The Rolling Stones
The Sound of Silence - Simon and Garfunkel
Kid Charlemagne - Steely Dan
The Pusher - Steppenwolf
Eruption - Van Halen
Slang - Weather Report
~There's plenty more, old, new and in-between. You can direct any further requests to my inbox.
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