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i really want another cat but my mom says were not aloud but i dont know why? I also want a dog but my mom hates dogs WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!!
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well you should give your mom some time to think and maybe she'll let you it depends on how she acts...
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i want a ferret but my parents wont get me one. after a couple years youll be fine. youll still wanat one, but not as much.
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first ask your mom why you cant and second you might live in a apartment and there might be where you have to have a dipossite. So look at the situation through your moms eyes hoped I help and good luck
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show her how responsible you are
show her you can take care of it
show her you can afford it.(meaning, have a steady cash flow for just in case at the vet)
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Well, dogs are a big responsibilty. I understand you want pets, but think about the effort they will take. For a dog, is your back yard large enough to support the frolicking of a carefree puppie? What about a doggie door? If you don't have one.. can you get one? Where will the animal stay when no one is home? And while I mention that, how often will people BE home? And what will happen to the pup during the winter months [if it snows where you are, that is]? If you're living in a condo or apartment, many times animals are simply against the rules. Or, IF they are allowed, there's a monthly fee for having them. Perhaps your Mom doesn't feel financially comfortable for that?
I'm not trying to deter you or choose sides, I'm just bringing up some possible reasons as to why your Mom won't allow pets. And if you ask me, I say a cat is a better choice. Cats are more independant and won't be as upset at being alone as a dog would be. Also, they have a liter box, and they always used it. But still, it's another mouth to feed, another chore to do, and maybe another monthly fee.
Panramos brought up a good point: allergies. Is that a possible reason? Sometimes people suffer with that severely.
Have you questioned her on this? I'm not suggesting you push her and bug her to death, but I don't see anything wrong with you questioning her reasoning. If you don't KNOW why you can't have a pet, you should ask. Approach her calmly and ready to handle a mature, *open minded conversation. I'm rootin' for ya - hopefully this goes well. :D
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You current living situation may not allow it - if you rent that is. Someone may be allergic to heavy amounts of dander -
What should you do?
Ask why - then proceed from there. It's not a neccesity, so don't fret if you don't get it.
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The same thing happened to me! I couldn't even confront my parents really I just left a letter in their room before bed, explaining all this detailed things like how I'm completely going to change the litter box more often and stuff, and how I want to use it as a chance to prove to them my responsibility, how one more cat made no difference, and I thanked them and praised them and doted on them lol it was like 3-4 pages long! Try that.... I woke up the next morning to a yes and it wasnt easy... I'd been begging for a long time.
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Parents can often be really hard to persuade to get a pet. Trust me, you're talkin to a girl who waited her ENTIRE life for a dog. BUT, often times, it's because they're nervous about how responsible their child is or WHO exactly is gonna be taking care of this new animal. So, maybe start out with a small pet (ie: a hamster, or a bird) and show your mom how well you're doing taking care of it. AND, point out all the positive outcomes of having a cat/dog, like being more responsible & learning how to care for something. Good luck!!!
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