about

Not much to say...I am a quiet person who likes to read, play videogames, DDR, don't like TV that much, and I love to hang out with my friends.

advice

This might sound strange, but I need tips on how to fight. I know how to hold my fists and how to swing, but I'm scared to break my knuckles or fingers when I swing at someone. I shouldn't be fighting, but I need to learn how to defend myself when someone starts with me, which has happened before and I didn't know how to fight. Also, where is a good spot to hit the person so they back off?

hit them in the head!.(ironically my teacher said after a fight that broke out in our school that the part that bleeds the most is the head.) one tiny gash and it will start gushing. and in the nose is a good spot too. and your dad could teach you how to fight as well. also you won't break your knuckles

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im really not comfortable with my body and i wanna try a diet..but i eat way too much and people always tell me how im not fat but they dunno that i suck it in all the time. This summer i wanna have a hot body and i dunno what to do! Does anybody know of any workouts that'll help me loose some pounds on my stomach?..thanks

you start off small like 20 and add 10 for 2 weeks at a time till you get to 50 and if your stomachs strong enough you can do 100. also take a break every two days. like on thursday and friday do exercising and take a break on saturday. also work some jump rope into that. and if you wnat to build muscle on your arms do small weights at first and then build up. also eat right and don't starve or binge and purge. salads good and diet pop works great.MOST IMPORTANTLY REMEBER TO START OFF SMALL AND GRADUALY BUILD UP AS YOU GO!
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My legs are slim, Its just ma stomach stickes out any way i could slim it down and tone it?

sit ups

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I rate ***** 5 *****

Well dont laugh but i want to be a dolphin trainner/And move to america/I live in the uk right and was gonna' move to florida last year but begged mum not to because my of my life back here. When i am older id like to be a dolphin trainner.

But to be that i need to study and learn about them and other things. I have no clue what i need to learn though.. anyone can tell me like what i need to study?

Then in grade 8 i need to pick my subjects that i have to do coursework on.. well i dont know what subjects will get me to being a dolphin trainner or even an author..?

So any help and i rate ***** 5 *****
lush me x

go to the library and find books on being a dolphin trainer. also you might be unsure of your carrer. also if there is a zoo with dolphins their you can ask the trainers about their work.
---montrealfan

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Hey, i'm a 15 year old black girl and at my high school if your a certain color, you are expected to like certain things and listen to a certain type of music.Well i'm not like that i listen to "other" music.And when i say other music i mean stuff liken green day and maroon5 and stuff like that.Also some of the stuff that my caucasion friends talk about i can identify with and some of the more preppy clothes they wear i like.i'm afraid to tell my friends this because i am afriad of their reactions.what should i do?

tell your friends. if they hate you for who you are they are not worth being friends with. also if this advice helps please rate me.
---montrealfan

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Okay does any one know how to get stains out of a white purse! I already tried soap and water and it does get some out but not all of them. The stains are like pencil/pen/dirt on the bottom from the ground and stuff! My purse is a white corderroy! Please help me Ill give 5's :o)

since i don't know much about purses i asked my mom. she says put it in the wash with some bleach.
if this advice helps rate me.
---montrealfan

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my friend is having her bday party...but my other friend is having hers the same day..but invited me afterwards. I want to go to both..should i try and work where i leave one party early to go to the other..should i just pick one party to go to? i dont want to hurt anyones feelings.

you should go if you have time for each. if i were you i would go to the one thats family or the person who i have known the longest but it would still hurt the other one if you walked out on her party. if this advice helps rate me.
---montrealfan

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Title ses it all... I want to believe in myself i actually think i do a bit. If someone says i have a hudge nose i wont just take it ill say something back like no way i dont its perfect! but then later when im on my own i'd get really up set about it and self consious how do i get rid of my self-consious and just show every one "you get what ya get so get over it" kinda talk.. becuase my friend melissa is kind of like that but i just cant seam to click like that..
lush me x

alotta things people say don't really mean it. also you shouldn't care what other people say. people sometimes tease another person to repress their own problems. also you have to think that you are good. it is said the strongest power of humans is will. also if this advice helps rate me.
---montrealfan

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This is the second time i have posted this.. maybe someone will remember me from the first time. I am not 16 years old and i would say that i have felt insecure for as long as i can remember but it has worsened over the past year. I dont feel im a "normal" teenager, my mother has even said so a couple times. I dont like to go out, i actually dont like to do anything. I hate the way i look and im very insecure about my body. (actually im insecure about everything about myself) I no that its "normal" for a girl to be insecure about her looks but theres more. I have so much doubt and regret that im drowning in it. For the past couple of months ive been thinking that its possible im depressed, like clinically. Im not suicidal but i feel so sad all the time and spend alot of the time crying and begging God to take away all this pain. So far my prayers have not been answered. I havent told my parents for a number of reasons. I know that i can tell them anything but im scared. Im afraid they wont take me seriously and im embarrased. I also dont want them to feel like its their fault or anything because i do have a pretty good life, which actually causes me to feel really guilty. Im just really scared and its been sooo long that i have felt this way and havent told them i dont want them to be mad and i just dont know what it will be like afterwards. Im also scared to see a doctor but i also really want to stop feeling like this way. Tonight, after having a good cry i thought about telling them again but i dont think i can get through it without crying like a baby. So i decided to write a letter and give it to them but im afraid im not brave enough. I did start the letter though. Please someone tell me what i should do. I mean.. what if im just being dramtic and looking for attention and i tell them and they take me to a doctor and its nothing, i will feel so embarrassed. I dont want people to feel bad for meand if i tell my parents i wont be able to take it back. But i just dont no and im sick of wishing i could run away and start over with a new life. I sick of wanting more. Everyday is just like the one before it and i cant handle it. I feel like im going to fall apart. Ok i think this is long enough.. what im asking of you is that u tell me if u think this is depression or am i just being overly dramatic and also do i tell my parents and if so how.. was the letter a good idea?? PLEASE HELP!!!

WOW looks like you poured you fellings onto digital question. first of all TELL YOUR PARENTS THEY CARE ABOUT YOU AND YOU SHOULD SEE A DOCTOR!if its nothing atleast you'll be realived.also your parents will not think this is stupid if its affacting your health!(it sounds like it is) also see a counselor. if this advice helps rate me.
---montrealfan

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umm i almost have a 100$ and i wanna buy a pet my mom doesnt like reptiles or any thing that smells and my nana dont like anything that makes alot of noise that will make the dogs bark and my friend is guna make her chinchillas have babies but that might take awhile so should i wait to get a chinchilla or i might be able to get a guinea pig but i dunno please help!!!
ill rate high :)

fish. they make great cheap easy to take care of and come in a varietey of colors!there just like ipods!that was a joke...also i don't think chinchilas act good around dogs. ask a pet store manager.
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---montrealfan

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What kind of dog would you reccomend that is small and you don't have to worry much about its hair?

a chiwawa i might not be spelling that right. like that dog they had on the tacobell commercials. also maybey a poodle

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my cat constantly follows me and everytime i sit down she comes to sit on top of me.. i will get up andmove somewhere else but she still sits on me.. i push her away but 2 minutes later she comes up again.. i know its cute and everything but it just really annoys me sometimes.. does anyone elses cats do this.. how do you get them to stop

i feed them, give them water, brush them or let them chase a laser that you can get from dollar stores. eventually they get tired and go to sleep.
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---montrealfan

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We recentley got rid of my beloved pet, Mac. He was a yellow lab, 6months old and like 154 pounds. i loved hime so much and whenever i think about him or ee pics of him i start to cry. How can i get over this?

well the best advice i have is quoteded from the fonz. "each day you will grow stronger and stronger and eventually conquer your problem".
also rate me.
---montrealfan

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-For those of you who have a horse i need you to answer my question.. ill rate you a 5 if you help-

*here is it*

I am going to get a horse soon and i want to know how much it is for like food a week or a month and how many times do you have to take it to the vet like a year and how much does it cost to have them get new shoes and how much for the vet and stuff like that.. thanks.!.

I don't know much about horeses. my best advice would be to ask a veterainarin or farmer. you could do research on the interenet but i think a vet or farmer would be more helpful

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Im 14, female, and i have this really great bf that goes to my school i eat lunch with and is in one of my classes. on the other hand we've been going out for 5 months and i feel like we do the same thing all the time and like hes getting bored or sumthing. Then i have a really good other guy friend that i havent known for that long, which i met through my bf, and i think i like him, and i know he likes me, please help im so lost and confused~

if you feel like you need to make your dates more exciting go to a different place or do something different. also if you really are not correcting with this guy you have been going out with for five months see if things change if not let him down EASY. i know that when i guy gets dumped he is really sad on the inside even though he won't show it. as for this new guy wait till you know him better also your boyfriend would pretty mad if you dated his friend. if your not sure about my advice ask solemnstar. he is good with advice and i good kid i know because i go to school with him. also can you give me a rating. i want to become a level 1 moderator on this site
thank you
---montrealfan

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i decided i need to get into shape. so today i did 100 sit-ups (within 15 minutes.. i know, that's a LONG time =(..). is that too much to start with? does anyone have any other good exercising tips, for your stomach? (besides sit-ups and crunches).

also, can you do sit-ups by laying down and then going up, instead of bending your legs? Because i don't bend my legs.. so maybe it's not considered a sit-up.

thanks in advance!

thats very polite of you to thank in advance.
anyway i like u used to be over weight.
first of all 100 to just start exercising is way to many. you start off small like 20 and add 10 for 2 weeks at a time till you get to 50 and if your stomachs strong enough you can do 100. also take a break every two days. like on thursday and friday do exercising and take a break on saturday. also work some jump rope into that. and if you wnat to build muscle on your arms do small weights at first and then build up. also eat right and don't starve or binge and purge. salads good and diet pop works great.MOST IMPORTANTLY REMEBER TO START OFF SMALL AND GRADUALY BUILD UP AS YOU GO!
P.S rate me i need ratings the only questions on my site are from my friends.

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my pet died and i don't know how to get over it. help me!!!!!!

each day you will get stronger and eventuallbe bigger than the grief of death

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Hey jumby man,
Whats up?
I heard you like to play the disney princess collection for your home pc. Is this true? if it is may i come over and import my face to the game?

-Super Jumby man

no i d not play that game andthey do not sell it for p.c i do not like to customize my outfit except in ratcet and clank ging commando. also theimprt your face option scares me!

---montrealfan

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