Member Since: August 4, 2005
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Last Update: November 25, 2005
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i have dark circles under my eyes, and ive tried everything. ive tried concealers, cucumbers, creams, u name it. i am so embarassed of them, and if they werent there, id be so much more pretty. does someone have somethiong i can do? (link)
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ussualy ppl have those circles becuse they are not getting enough rest. so are you getting enough rest?
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my parents are WAYYYYYYY over protective.. i mean if i go out the house in front of my door they come after me.. i tryed talking to them and explaining to them that i am not a baby anymore and i need to learn to make my own mistakes and etc.. but all the said was were not over protective we just care a lot about you.. i cant have a boyfriend until i am 16 and when i get one at that age my dad and my uncle have to be wit me the whole date with guns and if he trys makin a move on me he will basically be died.. my dad said he would hire a body gaurd but he doesnt want to spend so much money on one.. for prom the plain on gettin me a lemo but i CANT have a prom date and my parents will be chaperoniing the dance.. i swear i think i dont have a life.. when ever i get a boyfriend i NEVER tell them.. i only tell them who ever it is is only a friend but i cant go one like this for ever can someone plz help me out!!! i am dieing to get some freedom.. o yea i am a 14/f.. (link)
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wow your parents are very protective. well since talking to them didnt help so much. y dont you talk to a therapist or some. i feel bad for you. just try talking to them more.
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im 15, blonde, athletic, skinny and about 5'11 and i don't think im ugly..but idk if guys are like intimidated by my height or what..i have alot of friends..but not that guy friends that i hang out with..so any suggestions on how to be more outgoing around guys w/ out being self concious about my height..or just any general advice would be great! (link)
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well did you ever think about being a model? but there are a lot of guys around your age that are tall. i think you should get a couple of friends and invite some guys and all ya can go to da movies or some like that. just be yourself.
1hope i helped a lil.
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I'm 16 and I first got my period when I was 9. Well, I know its normal for the first couple of years for it not to be regular but I've had mine for 7 years and its still not regular.
For some time I've been wanting to go on birth control to level out my hormones and make my period more regular.
I don't want to be on it for a long time becasue I'm not really sexually active and I know that being on it for a long time can be bad for you.
So my question is can I be on it for just a little while to regulate my period/hormones then get off and have everything stay regular? (link)
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i think you need to go to your talk to your mom and go to your doctor.
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i have this problem where i cant stay in a realashion ship for a long time or else i get sick of the guy how do i change that (link)
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well you cant really change that. when you find the right guy at the right time you will stay with him longer.
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ok well i'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to have sex and i really dont think i'm ready for it.how do i tell him wiht out him thinking i dont like him anymore (link)
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well you are too young to be sleeping with him. and if he cant respect your desicion then he aint worthed to be with. there are many other guys other who will respect you.
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ok so i have a boyfriend that i've been with for about 6 months now. im 16, my boyfriend is turning 19 in september And about four months into the relationship, i got raped by his older brother and now his family is blaming me and telling ppl it wasnt raped so now im questioning myself if it was rape or not. and then the cops got involved because my boyfriend called the cops since i told him what happened when i slept over. so when the cops were investigating, they found out that me and my boyfriend have been having sex as well. so now me & andrew arent even allowed to see each other legally and im just wondering if i should stay with him after all this happening, we want to have kids in the future and he even asked me to marry him...is this a good idea? (link)
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omgg grl. well it is rape if you said "no". but you are too young yo be thinking about kids and marriage. and he is a good guy if he called the cops. but i think if you want stay with him but i dont think its a very good idea. follow your heart.
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So Cheerleading.I love it but this year i didnt do it.It started today and i went and watched my cousion do it.I really started to miss doing it.So now i want to do it again.Im nervoes to tell my mom cause she will probly say i told so.I also dont want to do it because im so darn bussy.What should I do? (link)
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well if its not to late go head and do it. dont worry about your mom. if you are too bussy try to be more organized that might help. but still have tyme to have fun with friends.
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I like this guy. I dont know him that well, but theres a connection and I really like him. The thing is he is super popular and extremley good looking. ALL the girls like him, and he usually dates just "hot" girls with zero personality. I'm not exactly pretty...or even attractive at that but I have an awesome personality. He is awesome and deserves way better than the girls he dates. Is there any way I can get him to have the same feelings as me? Will being his friend help? (link)
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well first of all you need to change the feelings you have for yourself. maybe i dont know how you look but eveery one is attractive. i think just try to talk to him and being his friend will help. but dont get to exited you really dont know how he will react about you guys being frinds.
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I went to a friend's house a couple of days ago, and I got bit by some kind of bug, and now I have a bunch of bites around my ankles and lower legs that seems to be turning into a rash. It itches SO bad. What can I put on this rashlike thing to make it stop itching, because Im lacking sleep at night froom this! (link)
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well tell your mom and go to a doctor.
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okay this miht be a bit wierd but like wen ever i get my period i feel all wierd like its leaking thru my pants or something at skool and i really worry that it might be leaking! idk what to do? i mean if some one saw that there were blood stains on the back of my pants and especially if it was a guy i liked wat would i do? thats like sooo embarassing!
help!
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well its normal to feel wierd on your period. a lot of girls think it goes through their pants. i think just wear thicker pads and go to the bathroom whenever you get the chance.well dont worry about the guy(s) becuase they dont understnad.
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im a 13 yr old black female in okc and my bf is 16 and my daddy found out everything about what me and him been doin he said if i end up pregnant he is throwing him in jail for statutory rape. im scared about that can that really happen i thought you have to be at least 18 yrs old for all that to happen please anyone look this up for the state of oklahoma (link)
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well i dont no the law but what i would like to say to you is stop having sex. hes not so much older then you but just imagine what if you did get pregnant.
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I just started having my period i've had like 4 or 5. this one month it didn't come.(that whole week i spent it at the beach)is it normal to skip periods when you first have them? please help and no smart ass stuff i'll give 5's!! (link)
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hehe grl at the begining of my perdiod i skiped months n months. it totally normal. my doctor told me when i was 14 and if i still wasnt getting them reguraly he would put me on pill contorls but my period came around. talk to your mom if it helps.
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I have these friends of mine. They were my best friends. Even though we go to different schools, I still spend lots of time with them. I really loved them, no matter what happened between us. Some people said that I was so stupid that I trusted them so bad that I have never thought bad things about them.
Few days ago, one of my friends came to me and told me that all of my friends were talking bad things about me. I did not trust him, of course, cause I believed that my friends would not do such a thing to me.
Then, when I checked my e-mail, I found a message for me. It was all bad things about me. It was from my friends. I was so shock that I spend my time crying with my boyfriend. My boyfriend, which was my closest best friend too, told me that even though my friends hated me, he would stay with me. But actually, his words did not calm me down. I still worried about my friends. I did not hate them, and I would never do, but I could not forget what they said about me. Now, I'm avoided and hated by my friends. And they avoid my boyfriend in their school too!! I really don't know what to do... Please help me!!!
-brokenheart girl- (link)
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wow i feel bad for you. see i dont think you can call those people you "friends" if they talk bs behind your back. you dont hate them you just dislike them at the time and you have a good reason to. well there is no reason why your bf should leave you.if they are avoding your boyfriend just let me them. dont show weakness and find some other true friends.
i hope i helped a lil.
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i have this friend and she is going out with this guy that i happen to like...she doesnt know that i like him and i know that if she finds out she would be soooo mad because i guess at one point he told some of his friends that he liked me...so i dont know what to do, do i tell him? do i tell her?
*melissa 15 (link)
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well grl that is your friend. i think you need to get over him because there cant be nothing between you two.not now bcuz they are going out and not after bcuz thats yo friends ex. your friendship is more important than some guy. find a new crush.
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my bestfriend lives across the street from me.. well she talks to this guy who is 16 on aim and we are both 13 well hes not a virgin... since shes been talking to him her personality has changed big time. hes smokes pot and drinks all the time and shes starting to act like him. heres the bad thing she sneaks out of her house at 2 a.m and doesnt get back until 5 a.m. well she has done this the last 2 nights and im worried that something bad will happen.. they almost got caught out by the police 2 times.. id this keeps up shes gonna end up getting raped or something by him.. how can i tell her to stop this or something might happen.. any advice will be helpful and most appreciated..
thanks
signed
worried friend (link)
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wow well im 14/f. did you think about telling her parents about what she has been doing? i no she might be mad at you if she find out you told on her but shell get over it if she was a good friend. n wen i sai get over i mean it might take a long tyme. maybe you can tell her parents to go in her room at night and theyll see shes not there so that way she wont know it was you who told her parents. i think talking to her wont help so much since shes a teen but she needs to get some help soon or she can be in dangour.so why dont you be a good friend and tell someone who can help her .
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my boyfriends goin away for baseball tomorrow.. hes sleepin at his teammates house tonite.. and his teammates sister likes him alot n wants to get with him.. she wants him to go swimming with her tonight at their house.. theyre staying at the same hotel [ w/ a pool ] im gettin really jealous and worries.. he says hed never cheat and i believe him but temptation is hard to say no to for guys.. and he thinks shes 'hott'. should i be upset or get over it? (link)
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you have a good reason to be upset. i think when they all come home you should talk to him.he can lie so you need to be sure he didnt cheat. so what i would do is talk to one of his teammates that was there someone who is honest you know and see what that guy had to say.
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AHHH I start high school tomorrow and I haven't been to public school since fourth grade. i'm really nervous :-/. 1stly, because i don't know ANYONE, and i'm afraid i'm not gonna make any friends. 2ndly, i'm gonna be terrible with finding classes, and with all the different teachers! so... HELP? thanks! i'll rate ya 5's:-)
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well im feeling the same way. im going to high school and im scared bout getting lost too. but you are gonna get used to the school in a week or so. n belive me you will make friends eveyone does.i think you are feeling like any teenager.
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my friend hooked up with this guy for the first time yesterday...he walked out of the room laughing 5 minutes after they went in and she locked herself in the bathroom...according to the guy...she didnt know how to french so he left her...is there anything i can tell her to make her feel better or any pointes i can give her...ive tried everything, but shes still devistated and i would like to know if theres anything else i can do....thanks!!! (link)
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well i think you should put your self in her shoes. how would you feel if a guy left u for not knowing how to kiss? dat might help a little. but tell her dat guy is a jerk and there are many other guys out there much better then him. y dunt you try to find a nice guy for her she might like dat. i think just talk to her n listen n shell get better. i hope i helped a little.
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I've been going out with this guy for a month. I've never kissed or been kissed by a guy. I wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me. But I guess i'm kinda nervous. He thinks I don't like him, But I really do! We've said I love you to eachother a few times and Idk. I really wanna kiss him but i'm scared i might mess up or something. Can anyone give me tips? I know it sounds stupid lol i'm 14.. and yeah i'm going out with a 12 year old. He's made out with a ton of people and I feel really stupid. Please help! (link)
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ok well im 14 n i never kissed. but grl i think you need to find yourself an odler bf no fense. he is too young for you in muh opinon. but if ya really like each other den dats koo. so i think you should tell him you never kissed n he will understand if he dosnt den you no he isnt da one to b with.
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