Xo_Ashie_oX answered Thursday August 4 2005, 2:56 pm: im the same way!! im like obsessed with this guy for like two days, he asks me out, 10 mins later i dump him!! well my best friend told me to make a list of everything i want in a guy.. i did that and she told me to look no lower than guys with those qualitys... it takes a while to find guys with everything you want... it took me like 2 or 3 months... which i seem to find extremly long!! but once you find that guy, he usually ends up being someone youve hated before (in my case), or one of your close friends... youll end up stayin w/em longer bc its what you wanted.. this si what has worked for me.. im not sure if itll be the same iwth you! but try it.. write down EVERY good/bad quality you like/dont like in a guy... if a guy ahs any of the bad qualitys ditch him... a good guyll come along and you wont beable to leave him.. promise.. me and this guy have been together 3 months! which is so far a record for me!! (the longest relationship i had before was a week and a half!!) but im sorry if this isnt much help.. but i hop everything works out for you!! [ Xo_Ashie_oX's advice column | Ask Xo_Ashie_oX A Question ]
vintagerose answered Thursday August 4 2005, 2:43 pm: Hey, this is perfectly normal! i know exactly how you feel. once the case for the guy is over, you loose interest in him. It happens to girls all the time.
Maybe you shouldn't acctaully consider you two girlfriend and boyfriend, maybe friends with benifits.
but if you want an acctual relationship, try not spending so much time with him. You might get bored more quickly with him.
also m,ake sure that this guy you are with, you are really attracted to. not just in looks, but his persolality and everything about him. and make sure he makes you feel special; that your the only one.
hope i helped! [ vintagerose's advice column | Ask vintagerose A Question ]
ESMEDINzBABE answered Thursday August 4 2005, 2:34 pm: I use too have the same problem!! Well you just have too find the right guy that you like being around and hanging with!! If you find a guy you really like you wont get bored with him!! I use to have the same problem then i met this one guy and it all changed i hope you can too!! Just find that one guy you really like!!I hope i helped you out!! *~*MUAH*~* [ ESMEDINzBABE's advice column | Ask ESMEDINzBABE A Question ]
Curemysadness answered Thursday August 4 2005, 2:25 pm: I'm like that too! I think I like a guy a lot, and then we start going out and I get bored with him. I mean I don't do anything sexual or anything along those lines, I just mean in general.. Maybe you are the kind of girl who doesn't need a b/f. Flirting is so much fun! But if you want a guy you aren't going to get bored with, look for someone who likes to do the same things as you. Otherwise, if you would like to stay with the person you are with right now..if anyone, suggest new things to try! I mean you can always try something once, and if you don't like it, don't do it again! Good Luck! [ Curemysadness's advice column | Ask Curemysadness A Question ]
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