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hello! im ashley! im in jr.high and im a understanding gal, willing to help anyone with advice
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k so ive never had a boyfriend.
but if i were to get one, and he were to come over my house..
what would we do?
like, wouldnt it be a little awkward?
like he would walk in and you guys sit down on the couch...hahah i have no idea.
so yeah what would you do?

talking
movies
cooking
prank phone calling =]
makeing out
haha try dresing him into your clothes thats always fun
go to the pool or park
climb onto your roof of your house haha randomm
have a kissing contest and see who can kiss sexyest haha flirtyyyy
listen to music
dance
--ashley

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I am having a problem with a friend of 1 1/2 years that lives down the street from me. I am a man, 42 and he is 30. We are both married. We both like cars and mechanical stuff, so we have lots in common. He has all the qualities that I want in a friendship, like honesty, integrity, non-smoker, light drinker, no drugs, etc. I really enjoyed talking to him, but I was always the one to initiate contact. I used to go down to his house and talk to him when I saw his garage door up and he was working on his car, but it's been three months since I've talked to him and he hasn't made any effort to contact me. Whenever we would see each other, he acted as if he liked me, he was in a good mood and talkative. He obviously knows where I live and he has my phone numbers, but he never calls or comes by. He knows that I race a dirt track car every Saturday night, and I've told him that he is welcome to go with me any time, but he never does. He never asks me to do anything with him, either. I feel that I am the only one that wants to be friends, so I am not planning on contacting him any more because I don't want to be a pest or be in a one-sided friendship, which is not a true friendship im my book. I figure that if he really likes me and wants to be friends with me, then he will make an effort. It's really disappointing to have found a guy that I really would like for a friend and be rejected. This is really bothering me, because I have no close friends and I was hoping to develope a close friendship. :( What do you think?

just call him up one-day and be like
"hey, long time no see, me and my wife wanted to invite you and your wife to dinner tonight, chat and have happy hour, say arround *wheneva time*"

act casual about it you know =] if he refuses or after this doesnt caontact you, then i would let it go =[
--ashley

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i cant find a song that goes
''jkjkjk lololol''
''did thoes peircings hurt''
''fuck you''
its more rock kinda music
help me whats the name of it and the site that lets you type in lyrics and it finds the song

i love that song its caled fer sure by Medic Driod
--ashley

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hey how can i quicken my reflexes? does anyone know? also, how can i better my hearing and other senses, not my sight though. i want to become less in tune with my sight to observe more. anyone know how?

VIDEOGAMES =] yay

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i need a new aim s/n what could it be im randomgrl777 but i dont want to do that. im punk goth~im 13~fav #s are 7 and 666~i love evanescence and the used and eyeliner and eyes and penguins and gore and death and dark stuff~im lost on a screan name help me.

666RuNaWyRoMaNCe

=]
--ashley
gotta luv itt

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oka where should i start well first of all there this group that me and my friends had made up right and we was all doing fine and stuff so anywayz like few days later they said they didnt want to be in it cause it starts to much drama because there these girls at school who also have a group and they start saying stuff like we copy of them and stuff. Anways so now we dont have the group nomore, so now two of my friends told me that they were in another group which is the group that broke us apart in the first place. so now they are in it and they didnt even ask me if its was okay and stuff so they just bascally left me out. what should i do.

groups are overrateddd =]

you dont need a group to fit in, and have freinds
screw them!

get some true freinds hun cause your so much better than them


no offents but not being in the "group" is a good thingggg
=]
make a fashon statement, stand out, me your own group make those grls say "omg who does she think she is!?" haha
--ashley goodluck

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I kno how to put pics on my myspace page from photobucket but whenever I put them on there,they come out WAY to big!! how do i make them smaller??:]-THANX!

dowload irfanview
its relly awesome and quick
you can re-size piks
edit them
sepcial effects
and its really easy to use!
=]
--ashley

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What traits do girls look for in guys? What would your ideal guy be like?

heyy=]
what i look for in a guy....personalty and look wise is

-honesty
-sence of humor
-careing
-trusting
-flirty
-writes poems

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I bought this dress and everyone (my mom and auntie) says i look good in it...but i don't know if i should wear it to prom or not because i find it makes me look square...I'm kinda thick and it makes my boobs and stomach look the same side when really my boobs are bigger than my waist!
Help! I would post a picture but my photobucket isn't workin so if u want to see a pic you can send me a comment to send it to u. Please help! What should i do?

well i cant really relate with out a pik

but confindince is the key hun =]
--ashley

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i have an nano ipod. and i use itoons to put my songs on it and i have to pay for it. which sucks. does anyone know anything i can use to get songs for free???

limewireeeee
=]
--ashley

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long story short, me and friend want to put together a disney cabaret
what are some of your favorite disney songs?
by the way, high school musical DOESN'T count
I mean like classic annimated movies.
thanks!

acudeamatata (sp?)-lion king

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Is there something wrong with Vitamin Water? My friend and I just had a bottle, and now we have killer cramps, and I cannot stand up straight or I feel like my insides are exploding. What is wrong with it, and what is wrong with me?

-Woahtherebabe

umm i dont think it was the vitiam water cause i drink a blottle every day haha

mabie somehting else you guys ate?
i dont know it might just be that one bottle?
=]
?
--ashley

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Well I have been dating this guy for 4 months. He is SO sweet, like always saying, i love you, your pretty ect. Anyways, his bestfriend told me that my boyfriend told him that he wanted me to hug him sooo badly. I mean really badly. Everyday after school he looks like he wants a hug but instead we go seperate ways (which we have to) and say bye and i love you. and thats it! should i hug him or not? I want to but im realllyyyyyyyyyy shy. i really need help
thanks

oh my 4 months and you guys havent even hugged!!!???

wow go for it! it must be diffrent than how my life style and school is everyone hugs everyone girl and girl and guys and girls =]

just give him a hug and kiss him on the cheek,or lips just a lil peck

no big deal hun
nothing to worry bout, whats to big about a hug!? HUG HIM SWEETIE =]
--ashley

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k so here i am right now. like sitting on the computer looking through advicenators since im bored. and like i hear breath next to my ear. and im like alrightt. and i blow i off an but then i keep hearing it. and so i looked in the direction where it was coming from and the breathing noise stops. and it kept doing that. and like so i just opened my bedroom door because its kinda creapy you know. so yeah it just keep doing that. so here i am right now like.. listening to something breathing in my ear and yeah. idk what the hell it is. or even if its breathing but something is making this weird noise in my ear. :o
ideas?

its a ghost!
haha go hump it
=]
--ashley

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during science today, this girl accidentally hit me and i yelled, "ow shit!" and my teacher was like, " : O watch the language!" and i was like kk yeah yeah sorry sorry and like usually it doesn't slip. but then, i was doing a fortune teller to this girl and i accidentally opened it when i was supposed to count the numbers again, so i said "oh shitt" and my teacher was like making facial expressions for me to stop! and i don't know what happened! it usually doesn't slip, but now i guess it is. how do i stop cursing for GOOD?! my friend suggested replacing words like "shit" with "shoot" and fuck with "frick" but it's not working! i really need to stop and use better language. xOo

get all your freinds that your with alot and tell them all
"every time i curse slap me HARD"
trust me ull start to think before you speak haha
--ashley

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I need your help deciding what the ideal menu for a public dinner would be.

Not knowing what would be the best dishes to serve is making this an impossible task.

If you will tell me your favorite foods, or point me to your favorite recipes, it would really help a lot.

You can list as many things as you like. They don't have to be fancy things at all. I am all about the comfort food baby! :)

This will be a mixed group of people so I would like to have something for everyone.

Cooking for a banquet is not as hard as trying to figure out WHAT to cook!

Everyone will receive feedback.

Thank you!

P.S. If all that was a lot to digest, pun intended, here is a summary: Please list all your favorite foods.

cholace coverd strawberrys,bannanas
salad
boca burgers
tofu
pasta
cake!
corn
corn muffins
cookies
sushi
salmon
ribs?
salsa and chips
carmel apples
icecram sundays
ummmmmmmmmmmmm...=]
corn dogs
soups
calzone
pizza



--ashley
goodluck!!

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my grandpa just died two days ago and lastnight i was awoken by my phone stnding up right and it was on but it was on hte hook when I went to bed and I think it was my grandpa, theres no question about it that ghosts are real because I have heard so many stories even by trusting adults. So please share your ghost stories or ghost encounters with me.

i was at a newyears party in georgia.
thers this haunted place called the newadems museam.
it was down the street from the lake where we had the party with fireworks.
the story was that theres this girl who died there from falling down the stairs at 9:04pm
(the musiem closes at 8:45 (go figure))
and every night at 9:04 you would hear screams of the girl falling down the stairs,
so me, my cousin,and friend opend a window, (its a poorish area no sucerity rele)
and went in about 9:00
i was hipervenalating haha
so we walked arround trying to find the stair case, and its almost 9:04finally we hear screaming and thumping and wood snaping
we held out breath and ran.
5 minutes later we went back
we found the stair case
and the railing had a big chunk missing and the piese of wood was on the floor.

no one was there at ALL
haha FREAKY i wish we would have ran to the stairs to see, but i almost had a heartattack haha

--ashley

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What do you do when your best friend is a lesbian?!?!?!?!



thanks in advance!

suport them?
theres nothing rong with that
i mean shes not hitting on you or anything
i mean if your homophobic then....i dont know what to say

--ashley
luv her for who she is!
im bi i know how it feels

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i have had a boyfriend for about two years now and during the time have cheated on him several times. I think I love him but am not completely sure since I keep doing this. btw I think he is catching on and I dont know what to do. Any suggestions on how to cover my a#@???

if you loved him you wouldnt be asking about it.

you would know
you may like him but you dont LOVE him =]
--ashley

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How do I go about throwing up.
I'm not bulimic but I feel sick, and it's like the stomach flu, I know that if I can just throw up I will feel better.

So is there a sure fire way to do this. I have a deep throat so using just my fingers doesn't work.
Any ideas on exactly how to do this?

hii =]

throwing up is pretty bad for you but i know how you feel just dont do it all the time when your sick okk??

sorta squeeze the hangy thing in the back of your throat i think its called a ubvelia? (sp)

hope you feel better!!
i think it will make you throw up, i know it will make you gag which if your sick ull end up throwing up.

--ashley

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