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do i love him
i have had a boyfriend for about two years now and during the time have cheated on him several times. I think I love him but am not completely sure since I keep doing this. btw I think he is catching on and I dont know what to do. Any suggestions on how to cover my a#@???
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If you are asking us if you love him, then most likely you don't. When you're in love, you know. I think you're infatuated, and are lusting for other people. If you continue to cheat on him, he may fall more in love with you while you are falling out with him. It may just hurt him more. I think you should tell him the truth before it gets any further, and if you don't wanna do that then I think you should stop cheating on him if you think you could develop a good, loving relationship with him. If you don't think you could ever fall in love with him and continue your relationship then just break up with him.
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No one can tell you if you love him or not - that's a question only you can answer. Generally, I've always found that if you need to ask yourself if you love them or not then you probably don't. When you love someone you just do - you don't need someone to tell you.
I really don't understand why people cheat. If you can't hold a relationship then simply don't get into a relatonship because that way at least you're not hurting anyone else. Sorry, but I'm not going to offer any tips on how you can cover up your mistakes (I've been cheated on before andit's not a nice feeling). Truth of the matter is that you did something that was wrong and as much as you may hate facing the fact - he may find out eventually anyway. The best you can do now is to try and be more faithful and prevent it happening again.
I've found the reason it happens a lot (at least to girls over here) is because they get drunk or go out with friends who they assume will watch out for them. If alcohol is the problem thenjust don't drink or at theveryleast make sure you limit yourself. If it's something else then try to not put yourself in a position where you may end up cheating.
That's really the best I can advise.
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to stop from getting caught.
dont do it?
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if you loved him you wouldnt be asking about it.
you would know
you may like him but you dont LOVE him =]
--ashley
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