Just your average nice girl next door. Married the love of my life at 24, widowed at 29.
I love cats and sailing and get to the beach as often as I can.
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Age: 39
Member Since: January 7, 2005
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My teacher hates me. I can't say a word in her classroom, even when everyone else is talking. I don't like here either. She's my lest fave teacher. Is there any way i could make her like me as a student. (link)
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That sucks! but they are human too and sometimes they just don't like all the students. I think you should just lie low, get through the class and hope you don't have her again!
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what time do clubs open? like the drinking and dancing type.. and how can i get guys to notice me there, without appearing to be slutty? (link)
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The clubs usually start getting fun/interesting 10-11pm... closing around 2am.
Wear something that can be cute and sexy, but not slutty. if you wear a mini skirt, wear a little more conservative top... if you wear a halter top, wear jeans and heels with it.
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Ok, So I am 13 years old and since May 2005, I have found myself madly in love with no other than a 20 year old McDonalds worker. He has started to open up a little more in the past couple of months, and he gives me lots of hugs, flirts, and shows all the "signs" of love back. Yet he has never told me. This week we are supposed to go to the movies. My question is, Should I open up and tell him I love him or should I just wait until he does? (link)
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I dont' think a 20 yr old is too good for you at 13 to be hanging out with, but on the question you asked.... I read once that the way you should be saying I Love you - is when you're saying "i love you too" (see what I mean... let them say it first)
Just because you don't like the advice you asked for doesn't mean it's wrong.
Please give us all an update this week!!!!
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My best friends dog died, and I know the dog meant a lot to her mom. I love her mom to death and I want to do something special for her to make her feel a little better. Any suggestions? (link)
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Here's one of my favorite poem's they might enjoy....
On Dogs and Boys
Boys need dogs to go to,
When folks don’t understand.
There’s comfort in a wagging tail,
Rough tongue upon a hand.
Boys can walk, and think things out
When there’s a dog along.
I think sometimes the Lord made dogs
To make a boy grow strong.
A dog is better for a boy
Than a lot of fancy toys.
A dog is what a boy needs,
And dogs, of course, need boys.
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OK, so I have this friend Jassy. And she is making a huge mistake. She met a guy over the internet and started dating him. He, of course, lives on the other side of the country. And, being the idiot she has always been, is meeting with him over the summer. Now, if you are willing to travel 3,000 miles across country like he is, you are not 14 like he says he is.
Therefore, my friend, Jessica, and I are trying to convince her not to meet him. Jassy thinks she's safe and can trust him but she can't. Jessica felt the same about her neighbor and he molested her. Her neighbor is someone she's always known. Imagine what someone my friend doesn;t even know could do to her. Jassy keeps saying it can't happen to her. She's just being so ignorant!! What should I do? She can get extremely hurt. Sorry this is long, but my friend is putting herself in danger! (link)
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First of all... how can you be "dating" anyone over a computer screen? It's so easy to think someone is wonderful because they typed something meaningful to you. Most of the time the fabulous person on the other end is just some pervert/pedophile looking for sex with a child.
You need to show her the facts and statistics and horror stories about that kind of thing. Why else would a guy be interested in a kid 3000 miles away? Come On - Wake her UP!
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I met this guy yesterday. he hangs with my friend all the time now cause she likes him and he has started been actin different to me like he'll put his arm round me when were outside in the rain and he'll make tiny sexual remarks. but at the same time he wants to be with my friend so wat should i do. (link)
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Tell him to pick ONE. That's baloney.
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i know its illegal to have sexual intercourse with someone over 18 if youre a minor... but is it illegal to date them/ have oral sex? just curious...
ill rate if its good (link)
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Dating is simply spending time in another's company sharing some activity you both enjoy.
Intercourse and oral sex ARE sex... and it all counts the same.
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ok last month after a 4 month relationship i accused my gf of cheating ... idk sum random girl popped up on aim and told me this and i was the dumbass who believed her. n e ways we kinda stopped talking for a while and i really want her back, i've liked her sooo long i cant even imagine NOT liking her, shes the only gf i've had and im the only bf she's had. and i really want her trust back.
and i dont want the "just start randomly talking to her" thing i want honest answers that require thought, also i would prefer girls answer this question (link)
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The random aim girl probably doesn't like your gf and did that just to be mean, and/or she's after you.
A good, healthy relationship is about honesty and trust. You have a lot of apologizing to do just for not trusting your girl. If she will give you a second chance then you need to spend a lot of time just rebuilding the trust.
Good luck
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My Junior Prom is coming up in June. And I really want to look nice. So I want to know if any of you know any stores or websites that sales nice dresses. Even pictures of specific dresses would be nice. But I want to make sure it is a dress instead of a gawn. My price range is anywhere from $40-$60.
thanks in advance
I WILL RATE! (link)
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You might even consider looking on ebay to find something truly unique.
Just because you don't like the advice does not mean it's bad advice or wrong!
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we've been daten on and off lately. im 15 and he is 19 i know its illegal but we feel strong feelings for each other. and i owe him the chance of being with him since he is putting everything on the line for me. so my question is should i be with him or avoid a relationship? (link)
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It may seem like you're very close and have strong feelings but there is a huge difference between a man of 19 and a child of 15. Yes, 15 is still a child.
If you both pursue a physical relationship, he can be charged with statutory rape and if found guilty will serve time and be a registered sex offender for the rest of his life. Do you really want to do that to him? And does he want to risk all that for you???
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Lately I've had a lot of stuff going on in my life with family, school, and other stresses. I've never felt so low in all my life. And still I have a wonderful boyfriend who's been supporting me through all of it. I used to have some pretty bad depression and I would get suicidal thoughts, sometimes come close to attempting it. Then, for years, it's gone away. But now, I don't know. I've never felt so strongly like I don't want to live. I don't want to commit suicide and I'm not going to, but I just don't want to go through life anymore. I don't know if I should tell my boyfriend this on top of everything else that he's supporting me with. I don't want to worry him, and I don't want him to freak out or get anyone else involved without my knowledge. (Like school counselors -- maybe regular counselors, but I can't stand the school ones.) Does anyone have any advice on whether I should tell him or not? Thanks in advance. (link)
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Yes you should tell him! But you shouldn't make it so he can't seek other help for you. You're feeling so badly and you know you need help, but don't put that burden on him alone. Let him help you get more help.
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Ok guys...well you see...I think I might be pregnant....I haven't had my period since like Feb. so I'm pretty sure I am..but my problem is..that I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 19, and I really actually want this baby, because ya know if I was able to lay down and have unprotected sex..then I am able to take care of my baby...but, I'm just afraid that my mom is going to freak out and call the cops on my boyfriend and he is going to get thrown in jail because of the age difference. I'm so confused and I don't want an abortion and my boyfriend (whom I love) to be in jail...so, if any one has any advice..it is GREATLY appreciated!!!! (link)
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Anyone can have sex.... it's takes far more than that to be able to take care of a baby.
If you're on-line you need to seek some information about the laws of your state. It might not be your parents but anyone can inform the law and he will be charged with statutory rape, whether you consented or not. If he is found guilty and more than likely will be if you are pregnant, he will serve jail or prison time and be a registered sex offender for the rest of his life. And this is true even if he marries you and you're together for the next 100 years.
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okay theres this guy back home, i love him so much and we are planning on getting married and starting a family. im dating another guy here at home, but the guy who isnt here is in my old state, and we are wanting to get together in the summer, and right now he wants to build up a long distance relationship. the guy im with now, things arnt working out. the guy, from the other state is an ex, but we broke up on good terms, over drama in like high school. im so confused, because i dont want to hurt the guy im with. he cries whenever something doesnt go his way, and the guy SWEARS he is in love with me and wants me to be his wife. i just dont know, im in love with someone else. i dont know what to do. PLEASE HELP! =(
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If you really love guy #1 and you both are planning on getting married, you'd never be dating someone else. And that would solve more than half of the problem.
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I'm an 18 year old female, and a nymphomaniac. It might be a little extreme to call it that, but I do think about sex too much and want it way too often. I think it makes it hard for my boyfriend to take me seriously if I'm mad at him for something while still wanting sex.
The real issue here though is that I'm going off to college in August and won't be able to get laid for a while, since my boyfriend and I are breaking up when we go to our separate schools. I know there are plenty of ready and willing guys in college, but I'd rather not take the promiscuous route, if you know what I mean. So... what do I do in the mean time to keep from that temptation? How do you (the older, more experienced people I am aiming this at) get through bouts of sexual hiatus without going nuts and going into slut mode? (link)
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It's called self-control.
Just because you don't like the advice that YOU asked for doesn't mean it's wrong or bad.
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hey since my school has a half day on friday of this week, and the movies is right down a couple of blocks, my mom is letting me go with my friends. im 15. she wanted to know who was going and i told her all of my friends (they are girls) and i didnt tell her i invited my bf and hes coming too. she said she doesnt want me going on a date alone w/ him because she thinks im too young to date and she doesnt trust him. how do i tell her that my boyfriend is coming too with out her saying something like "oh well he cant go"?
Thanks.
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You're mainly going with a group of girlfriends, so I wouldn't say anything. If you feel you have to, or she finds out, say that he was there with a group of guy friends. I don't think you're really doing anything sneaky, as long as you really keep it a group fun thing.
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Everyone keeps saying for really dry hair you should use olive oil to make it soft and smooth again. Well I did... now it wont come out. lol My hair is an oily mess! I've washed it 7 times already and it's still as oilly as before. HELP!!!! (link)
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It's silly, but you might try a teensy bit of Dawn dishwashing liquid. Supposed to really cut grease/oil.
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hey i need help...me and my boyfreind have been going out for almost 6 months i want to get him something but i just dont know what...can anyone give me some sugestions.
i would really apreciate it
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a good book, favorite cd, tshirt with his favorite group, a dvd of a guy movie, a small framed picture of you, a key chain with your initial.... hope that spurs some ideas.
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there's this guy that i really like and he likes me to. But, he has a girlfriend and he pretends that he doesn't have one when he's with me. I don't want to put the moves on him because he has a girlfriend. But he told me that he likes me and that he is going to dump her. But so far he hasn't, so should i still persue this guy, becasue i really like him, but will it be wrong?
I am 16 and a girl. (link)
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All's fair in love and war. So pursue all you want, but do not give him anything of yourself (time, kisses, whatever) until he's officially single and dating you.
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Okay, I have a boyfriend and I love him more then anything. Only theres this little problem. I haven't gotten over my ex boyfriend. Me and him have been goin on and off for the past year or 2. He's moving at the end of the year and he now has a new girlfriend. He told me that once he could drive he would come back for me. (We're both 13) Only he told me that a few months ago before we went out again. I sort of flirt with him alot and don't realize it. My question is, am I cheating on my current boyfriend in anyway by flirting with my ex? He doesn't flirt back or anything because im pretty sure he doesnt like me like that anymore. I dont want to cheat on my boyfriend, and if I did i didnt mean to. Please help
I'll rate high im desparate for help =[ (link)
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If you are saying or doing anything that you would not do in front of your current bf, then you are cheating. Cheating doesn't always mean the physical aspect, but the spiritual one.... See, your current bf trusts you and you are not being true to him or the relationship.
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lately i feel so dull and empty and like i dont matter any more. ive tried to be happy but im just not. ive even gone to a therapist. one of my friends was like i was, and then she got into the porn industry. she said it makes her happy and she makes a lot of money now. i didnt approve but then i started to think about it and im starting to concider trying it out. im scared though so i need some advice if i should or not. and i really want to i just dont know how to start. so if anyone knows how i could get started.. or if youve done it before and what you think. thanks (link)
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anyone in the porn industry is not a well-adjusted, happy person. that is degrading as hell, and once you've done it there's no taking it back. find yourself a therapist that you like and get to work on YOU.
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