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confused love. HELP!
okay theres this guy back home, i love him so much and we are planning on getting married and starting a family. im dating another guy here at home, but the guy who isnt here is in my old state, and we are wanting to get together in the summer, and right now he wants to build up a long distance relationship. the guy im with now, things arnt working out. the guy, from the other state is an ex, but we broke up on good terms, over drama in like high school. im so confused, because i dont want to hurt the guy im with. he cries whenever something doesnt go his way, and the guy SWEARS he is in love with me and wants me to be his wife. i just dont know, im in love with someone else. i dont know what to do. PLEASE HELP! =(
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If you really love guy #1 and you both are planning on getting married, you'd never be dating someone else. And that would solve more than half of the problem.
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It's not a good enough reason to be with someone just because they say they love you and want to be their wife. A good reason to be with someone is because YOU love them (and it's returned) and YOU can picture yourself with them long-term.
You very clearly state that you are in love with one of these guys. If you feel that strongly about him and he returns the feeling, then why are you dating anyone else?
Just be honest and tactful when you break up with the guy you don't love, and then you're free to be with the person who you feel happiest with.
Best of luck.
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Alright first of all if your just a teenager dont rush anything with getting married. Try and be a kid as long as you can life is to short to be held down by someone just yet. And this guy you are recently with you need to leave him he is acting like a little child and needs to grow up before he gets commited. If you really love the other guy go with him but my advice is give it time dont jump into marriage or kids or anything yet grow up a little first. Not being mean if that sounded it.
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If thngs aren't working with the guy you're with, end it, and fast! You don't want to toy with the poor guy's emotions. It's not good to get roped into a relationship because of pity, ESPECIALLY if you're planning another relationship now.
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I know its easy to feel sorry for someone when they are crying and saying they love you. If you don't love him though, it would be cruel to allow him to get in even deeper.
If you love someone else and are even planning to marry him, its time to let the guy you are with now go. It will hurt him, but not near as bad as it would if you just suddenly dumped him when the ex comes to town.
So breakup with your current guy now. concentrate on the guy you love. :)
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