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I am 16 years old.
I have one brother, a mum, and a dad.
I also have a hamster, Pearl, and I consider my brother's hamster as my own as well, whose name is Waffles haha.
I love in southern Maine and have a site on facebook.com.
it's under holly mason.
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is breast cancer genetic? (link)
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If your family has a record of having breast cancer, that means it's probably genetic, but if you take the right precautions, you can prevent it from happening to you.
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i have been fasting for a week now....i tried eating again but with just a few spoonfulls i felt full, but i at it anyways and that's what made me get sick. so every little thing i try to eat makes me sick and it won't stay in me.....why is this? (link)
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You may feel full, but thats just the reaction from not eating. You need to eat until you feel like you're going to throw up. It will help a lot. Trust me.
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me and this guy are good friends...i tell him things that i only tell my best friend,and he tells me stuff that his best friend dosent know...but now he wants to go out with me...i think i like him...but i'm not sure...and i would feel bad turning him down cause he broke up with his girlfriend to ask me out...so,what should i do? (link)
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You can't let how bad you would feel get in the way. If you don't really have the same feelings for him, let him know. Tell him, "I don't really have the same feelings. I'd rather it if we stayed friends."
You don't want it to destroy your relationship. But if you do like him, tell him. "I like you, but I'd like to take it slow." Hope I helped.
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male
16 years old
ok well i have the history of being dumped for being "clingly" . and well im with a girl i really like right now and i dont want my "clingyness" to get in the way of this so could someone please clarifi (spelling) what exactly being clingy is and what i can do to not be clingy. like me and my gf go to the same skewl but not at the same time like i go to a after skewl credit make up thingy so we dont see eachother to much which dosent let me be to clingy but yea also what can i do to not be clingy if ya know what i mean ? (link)
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Clingy is calling all the time, interupting her time with her friends, asking what she's doing all the time. It can get annoying. Let her call you or let her hang out with her friends, with or without you is up to her. Women like men who care, but will give them space at the same time. Though don't like totally stop calling her. Pay attention to whats going on in her life. Just be there for her. Good luck.
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I've been pretty ill for about a week or so and haven't been able to eat, I've lived on tap water for the whole week and havn't eaten anything else. I've drunken about 1 1/2 to 2 litres per day, maybe a bit more. What will happen to me? Anything bad? What can it do? I'm scared but I can't bring myself to eat anything else... (link)
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If I were you, I would only drink filtered water. Also eat like chicken noodle soup and you will be fine. Don't worry. The best thing you can do for when you're sick, is to drink water.
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the convo between me and my friend in IM
friend: does it matter if i look at his myspace?
friend: NO.
me:iono its your choice
friend: yeah i know
friend: but yer like so surprised
me: wtf im not
friend: yer like REALLY?
friend: WTF?
me: (laughing out loud)
friend: and stop saying WTF
me: noooooooo
friend: say WtH or something
me: wht
me: why*
friend: cuz its not a good habit
me: i like wtf better
friend: just dont use it when yer talking to me
friend: you give me the wrong idea
friend: lke your mad
friend: haha
friend: iono
me: why do you think im mad
friend: cause you say
friend: WTF
me: so?
friend: nvm
what is she trying to say? whats wrong with saying wtf? i mean why does she cares if i say wtf? but is she trying to be a good friend for saying this?
WTF=what the f*ck (link)
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Well, there could be something going on at their house or with a friend and it bugs them hearing that word, knowing what the impression is giving. whenever someone is saying wtf, it implies that their mad. so you can say it with anyone else, just don't use it with that one person. Hope I helped!
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Well, now that it is so cold out, where can I go walking? (link)
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you can still walk or run on the beach, just bundle up. Or you could go to a workout center and walk on a tredmill. Hope it works out!
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I have been taking asthma medicine, but last night i had an asthma attack at 3 am.
They are the scariest thing ever, is there any way to deal with them or make them less scary or even prevent them?
Sometimes i cant go back to sleep after one, or i sweat or get scared of having another one.
Thank you
14/f (link)
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Put the tv on or some music and relax by listening to that and let it put you to sleep. Also stroking the back or head, can relax a person. Good Luck!
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Okay we know that it is alright for a black man and a white girl to date. But is it okay for a white man to date a black girl. If you are a white male, would you ever date a black girl. And if you are a black girl would you date a white man. If not,why? If yes, why?I am thinking about it, but I don't know. (link)
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I don't see why it would be a problem. It's the same either way only the genders are switched. I would date a white man if I liked him and if I was black. It wouldn't matter to me and it shouldn't.
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Firstly sorry about the subject i didnt know where to put it.
My hair gets greasy so so so fast! I wash it in the morning and by the evening its greasy
I have to wash it everyday and its really annoying me.
What can i do so that i only have to wash it every 2 days or something?
any products i can use? (link)
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Try useing pantene or head and shoulders. If it gets greasy, just put it up. It won't be as noticable. Plus, if you brush your hair a lot or just plain run your fingers through it, it will get greasy fast. Though it's a good thing to wash your hair everyday. It will make you feel better and cleaner. Good Luck!
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my family keeps asking me if i am depressed what should i do to show them that truthfully i am not? its really bugging me for once i am not depressed! (link)
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You could try being happier around them. Dress perkier or smile or laugh a lot. Have your friends over a lot and just be over all nicer. Hope I helped!
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im rilly confused my mom hits me but its kind of my falt so it just dosnt seem like cild abuse to me but my best friend was over one day and saw what was going on he ses i need to tell but i rilly rilly dont want to . what should i do????
plz tell me what i should do
thanx
13/f (link)
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Alright. Even if you feel it's your fault, chances are that it's not yours. You Mom might have a lot of stress and little things that all kids do might be causing her to get more angry with you. You might want to tell someone at school like the Guidance or something and I bet that if you go there they end up not telling the cops if they end up helping you and your Mom. If your freinds thinks that It's not your fault she might be mad at her for hitting her friend, but it might not be you. Try and figure out if she is having a lot of stress and you can probably figure it out. For now on just try and be extra nice to her and do nice things for her as often as you can. Hope I helped. :]
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im male
16 years old
ok well me and my girlfriend have been together for like a few weeks now and we started out going really fast like making out in my bed and stuff and like all of a sudden she wont let me kiss her goodbye or ne thing ans she sais she wants to slow down is this like a sign she wants to break up with me or sumthin yea i know im a guy and this is prob a stupid question but yea (link)
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SHe just probably has a lot going on right now and when you advance in dating, you get nervous and start stressing out more and it could be affecting the rest in her social life right now or she doesn't know how to cope with her feelings for you and needs some time to figure them out. Good luck!
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Okay I totally like this boy and I want him to find out that I like him and also I don't because of my last crush but he is going to find out soon because my friend is going to tell him and I want him to notice me more just don't say something like be yourself and stuff like that all I want to know is something I can do do get him to notice me. (link)
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You could always get close. Like talk to him a lot and try something like if he wants to hang out and go to the movies. That way, if you two connect, he'll probably get the hint. If not, maybe it just wasn't meant to be. Good luck!
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15/f Okay. So my little sister is turning 13 on early January--and we're not sure of how to celebrate her birthday yet. And she really wants it to be special. A party would be good, but she dosen't want it in McDonald's or something, that would be too kiddy. Malling could be an option too, but sometimes her friends aren't allowed to go out. And a masquerade would be WAY too expensive. So she dosen't want something childish, but something fun and cool for her birthday. Do you guys have any suggestions for her 13th birthday celebration? If you do, please share. Thanks.
Lila (link)
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You could hold a swimming party or a bowling part with like a pizza things afterwards. You could also do a sleepover with her cloesest friends and rent moives, or go to the movies. Tell her I say happy birthday!
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ok, well, i had a sergerie in oct./05 because i had a sist in my right brest...that is a couple of lumps. a few months after the sergerie,(it was mostly healed by then except for the scar) i started getting random pains, like all of a sudden being stabbed there, it would and still does make me lurch forward because it hurts really bad. but it is gone withing 2minuts. anyideas what this is?
thanks,
alyssa (link)
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You're probably going to want to get that checked out by a doctor or at least tell your parents, because if it is something then you want to stop it before it gets worse or life threatening. Good Luck!
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so you know the three words that can change a relationship forever right. I love you is so big it can change a relationship forever. Well my ex-boyfriend told me he loved me for the first time and i told him i loved him too. But then the next day he broke up with me, He said he had to many things going on in his life. what should i do should i believe that he loves me or not. please help. thanx. (link)
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don't ake this wrong, but he could be stressed, but you're going to have to confront him straight forward and aks him what this means. Do you still love me? Are we going to get back together when you life has calmed down? ask things like those and get the answer you want! hope i helped! good luck!
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i've been getting acne lately ( the little red bump kind) and its sooo annyoing!! what are some really good medications- and i'd like to know....does proactiv really work ? is it worth buying? i have oily skin and this just started happening. thanks in advance! (link)
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try a solution called zapzyt and you can get it at like rite aid or hannaford. It's cheap, but it really works. I use it and i haven't had a problem with for a long time. good luck and hope i helped!
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me and my boyfriend have been together a year the 15th of this month and i have no idea what to get him. i wanna get him something cute or do something cute for him without spending over $100. do you have any cute ideas for me? itd be greatly appreciated. (link)
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WHat is he interested in? Like skateboarding, basketball ect. Then base it around that. Tell me what he likes and I'll see what I can do.
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My hair is really dryed out. Is there any home remeidies anyone has to help my hair? I have tried all the brands at the store but can't afford salon quality. My grandma told me they always used home remeidies but so far I haven't gotten the time to ask her what they are. Can anyone help me?
- Brittle Hair (link)
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Have you ever tried suave rejuvelent? if you can, try it! Good luck.
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