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how not to be clingy?
male
16 years old
ok well i have the history of being dumped for being "clingly" . and well im with a girl i really like right now and i dont want my "clingyness" to get in the way of this so could someone please clarifi (spelling) what exactly being clingy is and what i can do to not be clingy. like me and my gf go to the same skewl but not at the same time like i go to a after skewl credit make up thingy so we dont see eachother to much which dosent let me be to clingy but yea also what can i do to not be clingy if ya know what i mean ?
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Clingy is calling all the time, interupting her time with her friends, asking what she's doing all the time. It can get annoying. Let her call you or let her hang out with her friends, with or without you is up to her. Women like men who care, but will give them space at the same time. Though don't like totally stop calling her. Pay attention to whats going on in her life. Just be there for her. Good luck.
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Being clingy is not giving the other person any space or any of their own time. You're wanting to spend Every moment together. Don't get me wrong, there's absolutely Nothing wrong to want to be with them all the time, but there are times when space is needed. I'm not sure if you're the jealous type or whatever, but make sure you're not clingy because of that. Because if you are, the girl will get annoyed with you and eventually will break up with you. Since you like this girl a lot, just make sure you give her her own space and you do your own thing. Just don't alienate her though. Maybe write her little letters just telling her how beautiful she is or other little things. Just don't overdo it. I have more ideas for you if you'd like. Just message me and I will be happy to help you out more!
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well clingy to me means that you ask her were she is all the time, you dont like her to go out with the girls without you, you dont like her hanging out with other guys, your jealous, things like that. and things that you can do not to be clingy, is to learn how to trust your girlfriend, if you like her a lot like you say you do, then let her know that by trusting her. dont call her like everyfive minutes, and dont be on her case. im not saying not te call her i mean 2-3 times a day tops. and when yo guys are hanging out ask if she wants to hang out with other people too. Oh and before i go, dont take up too much of her time because the main reason that girls break up with their boyfriends is because their friends say that they never get to see her anymore ebcause shes always with her boyfriend. well, i hope i helped.
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Well, being clingy means you are just always there and never let someone out of your sight when you're together.
How many girls have called you clingy? If it was just one then don't be overly concerned. But if you think you are clingy just give her room to breathe.
Don't follow her around everywhere she goes.
The best thing you can probably do is just tell her.
"Look I've been called clingy in the past. I don't want to be. If I do something you consider to clingy, please let me know." :)
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