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loose virginity or keep
ok so theres this boy i like...and well i really do like him .but he likes my best friend.. todaii i askd him if he still likes her and he said that he didnt like her the whole lot he did. that he likes her a lil. well we made out todaii and well i think i wanna loose it to him...we r both virgins so thats one good thing about it but i dont want to do it knowing he likes her ..even if he saiis he dont what do you think or what would you do?
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Maybe you love him and he thinks he loves you cause you love him. but I had a fake bf because he tried to make my friend jelous so maybe just maybe thats what your guy is doing try to figure it out. Be sneaky just dont get caught. GOOD LUCK.
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okay, well if he made out with you, then obviously he like you, but just ask him if he has any sort of feelings for her,a dn if he doesnt then you are good. but, if you guys are not going out, i wouldn't have sex just yet. It is a lot better to have sex with someone that you are going out with and you ove rather than just loosing it because you think that you love someone and they love you. well, all i have to say is to wait until you KNOW you are ready because if you have sex before you are then you wont be happy with yourself.beleive me, i lost my virginity to someone who i thought that i loved but i didnt and i wasnt going out with him and then after that i didnt really talk to him because all he wanted was sex. So, please just dont make the same mistake i did. and if you do decide to have sex, then at least make it somewhere comfortable, like one of your beds.
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I wouldn't do it. You will definitely regret it later in life if you do. It might be nice at the time, but think about what it will be like afterwards. Things will get complicated very quickly. Stay away from this guy for now. He's more trouble than he's worth. If he isn't going to date you, he shouldn't be making out with you. Losing your virginity shouldn't be a goal. It should be very carefully planned and thought through. The time will come. Don't rush it. Don't you want to lose it to someone that really cares about you? Check out this website. It will help you make your decision. :)
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PLEASE listen to me when i say this: you need to be completely confident in your heart that this is the guy you want to lose your virginity to!! You will remember him forever and will be emotionally attached to him bc in a way, he has a part of your body. You should only lose ur virginity to someone you're crazy about and in love with and as far as I can tell, you're not. You have doubts in your mind and thats the first sign that you should not have sex with this guy..trust me, you will regret it afterwards!!
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