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me and him are good friends,but he wants to be more
me and this guy are good friends...i tell him things that i only tell my best friend,and he tells me stuff that his best friend dosent know...but now he wants to go out with me...i think i like him...but i'm not sure...and i would feel bad turning him down cause he broke up with his girlfriend to ask me out...so,what should i do?
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You obviously trust the guy, and feel comfortable around him. Those are two great things to base a relationship on. And, also love doesn't always have to be at first sight..which I feel is what your basing your feelings for him on. correct me if I'm wrong, but I get the feeling that because you don't feel that "butterfly in the stomach-fireworks in the air-melting heart" feeling you think a relationship wouldn't work. that feeling goes away...and what your left with is either a really great person whose company you enjoy or some idiot you can't stand. haha
I'm not saying yes have a relationship with him...altho that is what it sounds like; I'm just saying give the guy a chance. He obviously likes you a lot, and you like and trust him too (if you didn't you wouldn't be telling him your secrets).
lemmi kno how it goes.. :)
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You can't let how bad you would feel get in the way. If you don't really have the same feelings for him, let him know. Tell him, "I don't really have the same feelings. I'd rather it if we stayed friends."
You don't want it to destroy your relationship. But if you do like him, tell him. "I like you, but I'd like to take it slow." Hope I helped.
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Take it easy. If you think you like him, there must be some kind of attraction between you and him. Just tell him you are not 100% ready and ask him not to rush you into decisions. Try to make a gradual transition from being friends to being in a relationship. Go out with him, but under these terms. One date doesn't make you his girlfriend. Hopefully you will understand your feelings better after spending more time with him. Don't do anything you would feel uncomfortable doing.
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