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Gender: Female
Location: from texas, live in maryland
Occupation: student
Member Since: August 9, 2004
Answers: 136
Last Update: September 10, 2005
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i really love my hair being long but i sort of wanna cut it up to my shoulders so it looks thicker and just i think it'd look cute! but im scared that i'll hate it. should i play it safe and keep my hair long? my hair takes forever to grow. (link)
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you should just go for it. but if youre really afraid, you can cut it off little by little. go in and have a few inches cut off. so it is noticeable but not such a difference that youd be uncomfortable. see how you like that. then cut more and more until you find the hair length you want.
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Me and this girl are good friends when she first cam to my school she told us but she was pregnant and i was like ok but then all the other kids stoped beliving her because lets face it she didnt look or act pregnant and I stuck up for her and all but it did seem kinda suspicious when she had the baby while we were all taking our regents then she was back to take the next regents the next day ? how quickly can a 15 year old bounce back from something like that? . its not that i dont want to belive her because shes a sweet girl and aLL i think she just wants attention but thats a little extreme. now i feel bad because no one bleived her and shes kinda isolated im still nice to her but no one will listen to me and just forgive her. what should i do?? (link)
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you can't make other people like her. for now, i'd definetly contunie being friendly. and make sure she has someone there for her. one of the worst things is being isolated from everyone. with no friends. drives alot of people to suicide. so, be her friend.
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ok my best friends boyfriend was supposed to call her today and they were supposed to hang out nd' he hasnt even call yet nd' shes like all crushed n crying n everything...i cant stand seeing her like this...what can i say to her to help her feel better(theyve been together over a year)help me quik!! plz if ne1 can
ill even rate you 5'z
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tell her that just because he hasnt called doesnt mean he forgot about her. maybe you all could call him. see what happenned.
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Ok my b/f j/ dumped me cuz hes older and he said he'd feel like a fuck up if he took my Virginity...but he still talks 2 me and calls me baby and tells me he luvs me and misses me but do u think hes being honest or j/ sayin that so he doesnt hurt my feelings please help!!! im so confused thanx..and the new question was do u think i should keep tryin 2 work wit things cuz last nite he asked me if i wanted 2 do ne thing 2 day...And i really like him do u think he likes me like that?
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he does like you like that. from what you descrbed he does. unless hes really mean and playing a trick, but i dont thin kso. and i think you should see if things work out. maybe he got over the virginity thing, or maybe you all dont have to fool around. good luck
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OK here it goes!...Me n my boyfriend have just started havin sex...n well once he has had it once he has to have it all the time...well sometime i really dont want to...but he will force me into it or beg me to have it until i give in...n i love my boyfriend so much we have been dating now for 4 months...i keep saying no over and over but he keep it going when i finally give in he says baby im sorry for doin that to you...but he still does it anyways he promised me that would be the last time but that wasnt the first time he did it either! What should i do and say to him w/ having to break up with him? Please help me! (link)
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maybe you should put yourself in more situations where you can't have sex, but cant still hang out together. like you two going and hanging out at a friends, or in a public place. IF HES FORCING YOU, YOU NEED TO CONTACT THE POLICE. THATS RAPE. and if he gets too out of control, you might need to break up with him. for now, tell him you don't always want to have sex. and if that doesnt work, give him an ultimatum (spelling} like if we have sex today, then we won't for the rest of the week. almost a threat. so you can get your way.
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Ok my b/f j/ dumped me cuz hes older and he said he'd feel like a fuck up if he took my Virginity...but he still talks 2 me and calls me baby and tells me he luvs me and misses me but do u think hes being honest or j/ sayin that so he doesnt hurt my feelings please help!!! im so confused thanx (link)
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i think he still likes you, because his excuse was i dont want to takeyour virginity. so from what you said, i think he still likes you. and flirts because he of that, not because he feels guilty.
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ok well sunday my friend came home from vaca. and the guy i liked and he liked me kinda liked her.(if that makes sense)so anyways he told me that he would be better off with her than me. so i said ok and decided to move on cuz i new that we could never be. so i did. and on weds. i told him that i liked someone else. and he just started like flipping out. cuz i thiink he was jealous and he is over my friend and likes me again. but its to late and i told him that. i told him that i already like someone else. but then he told me that he wasnt gonna let me throw me and him away. and hes really mad that i like his friend and everything. i duno what to do. cuz i really dont wanna hurt my friend. but then the guy i like i already told him everything that went on between me and the other guy. and i already told him know ahwile back when he asked me out. please help me.
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sounds like he wanted you and your friend. you shouldnt let him stand in your way. if you really look at it... i can see that its like your doing to him what he did to you... and i can understand feeling guilty about that. but while this guys feeling maybe fragile... as all guys feelings are. but his feelings are going to be hurt for the simple fact that you dont like him, whether or not you like someone else. so i say don't let him dictate whoyou can or can't see, after all you didnt do that to him, now did you?
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okay - i know HOW to lose weight but i have no willpower and a major sweet tooth lol ne advice on how to stop snacking?? (link)
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well, you could snack but eat foods that are less fatty. like carrots.and celery; or sugar free things. as your mom not to stick foods that are bad for in the house. so you have less of a chance of eating them. drink things like crystal light, it sugar free and has 5 calories.
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oK wElL..my room is soo small i have a huge bed and a dresser and chest and a very tiny bit of room to walk in my room looks just so small and i wanted to paint it and get a theme but i dont know what to do to make it bigger and what kind of theme cuz my mom wont let me paint it or gett anything for it cuz we dont have the money plez help! (link)
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to make it look bigger, put a mirror on one whole wall. like the wall that you see when you first walk in. if you think you nee to paint it, martha stewart has cans of paint for $20. and alot of colors. and at alot of home improvement stores, there will be shelves of paint that they are saleing for cheaper than they should be because they made the wrong shade by accident or something. also having your room be the same color as our bed spread helps a whole lot.
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my room is soo boring! i have a dresser, a big desk for homework and all this other stuff, plus 2 twin beds and a small closet! the walls are white and the landlord wont let me paint them, how can i make my room look better? dont say whatever you want, say real stuff!!! thanks a bunch! (link)
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if i was you, i'd hang posters. posters to cover all the walls, so you cant see the wall anymore. of music artists and movies you like or if you want something classy, do like reproduction of painting posters. you can get them at museums.id get a black trunk for extra storage, because your closet is soo tiny. maybe put mirror on one whole wall. makes room seem much bigger. and curtains. curtains can make or break a room. if you wanted to do the classy art poster idea, you could get pretty, long, all the way to the floor curtains. if tyou went with the music artist/movie poster idea. you coud get something simple that would match like plain linen roman shades from IKEA. if you arent sharing a room. ive seen things that can conjoin to twin beds to make them a king bed.ive see it in Skymall magazine. but i bet they'd have it at bed bath and beyond or a store like that.i hope i helped. much luck.
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does anyone have any good makeup tips? (link)
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how about when you use make up sponges...dampen them. it makes the product you are using on your face look more natural, and decreases the blachyness of the makeup. especially at the places where you stop using the makeup, like at youre chin or ear. blends nicely.
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Me and my boyfriend seem happy with each other. Like he always talks about us being together forever and is always making future plans. I like that bc that is that the kind of realationship that i want, but he lives about 40 min. away from me and the seeing him thing isnt really a problem (i dont want to see someone everyday, i get kind of annoyed by that) so that isnt the issue. I am just worried about him doing stuff behind my back... like he checks out other girls INFRONT of me and talks about them near me too. He says wow their hot and stares them down.. stuff like that. So that kinda scares me. I talk to him about this, but he says that he isnt gonna ever do this to me and that he likes me too much to go for any other girl. Should i belive him? (link)
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you should believe him until there is a reason not to. and if him checking out girls sincerly bothers you, you need to say that to him straight up. and he shoud stop. but some guys tend to do this because they honestly do not know how to act around their girlfriends. good luck.
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Brad: u goin to the BBQ
me: oo yeah u??
Brad: i might have to make an appearance
Me: how r u getting 2 the bbq
Brad: miself - most likely
Brad: i can ask madre if i can drive you .. if you would like- im not suppose to drive but she knows i cheat
Brad: just let me know if you need a ride
Me: yea so wuts been goin on in the life of brad lately...??
Brad: busy busy little booy
Brad: :-P
Me: eww put that tongue inside ur mouth
Brad: :-P
Brad: :-P
Brad: :-P
Me: nasty
Me: nasty
Brad: SHUt it
Flirtin or Talkin?? Does he like me as a friend or more than a friend??
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its a possibility that hes flirting.
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hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do? (link)
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you are a really lucky girl. alright. i definetly dont think you should have sex if you arent ready or dont want to. stick to your morals. he has to understand. i don't think hell crack like you said. he might be a little stir crazy tho.
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what type of questions i should ask my mum and dad about my family history? (link)
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anyone famous in the family?
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i just found out that one of my best friends has been telling people that i was pregnant and had a miscarriage before, it really hurt when i found out, especially when i found out that this was why my boyfriend broke up with me, i want to tell her how i feel but i have no clue what to say, any ides on what i should do? (link)
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woah...okay... first thing is first...she isnt your friend if she did this.. a real friend would keep that a secret. you need to tell her off.. well.. okay.. maybe not that but dont be friends with her. or even listen to her side of the story.
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Well I have a friend named skip that lives in the apartment next door to my friend kathys. I used to go to kathys place about every other day. So I would always see skip and hang out with him. He was really nice and fun, and so I had a crush on him. But, I really didn’t wanna go out with him, so I just wanted to be his friend. (When he found out I liked him, he developed a crush on me, lol)
Well I flunked the 8th grade so I had to go to summer school this summer. So did skip. Skip sat next to me in both classes. After a while he would ALWAYS be touching me, poking me, grabbing me, bitting me, sloppering on me, trying to hold my hand, constantly talking to me while the teacher was talking, spitting all over my pencils, and putting his effing hand in front of my book while I was reading. All of those things were a real turn off, so I stopped liking him. I’d always tell him to quit messing with me and stuff, and he just wouldn’t do it. So I would get REALLY pissed off at him, then he’d be all mad at me cause I was mad at him. He felt like he wasn’t doing anything wrong. Bullshit. So he’d be all upset which made me feel bad and all depressed and stuff. I didn’t even like him as a friend anymore at one point… he made me sooooo angry all the time, I just hated him.
Now that summer school is over and stuff, we don’t really get a chance to see eachother anymore. And I still want to be his friend.. but im kind of debating between that. I mean I wanna be his friend, but just all the stuff that he did and how angry he made me are stuck in the back of my mind, and get me really pissed.
So, my question is should I still be his friend considering how angry he makes and has made me?
Thanks..
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maybe tell him that you dont have feelings for him nymore... maybe he'll stop and everything willbe back to normal. and you wouldnt hate him anymore.
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okay i have 2 best friends and i have a extra ticket to go too carowinds and i dont know who too take!! one is a girl ive had for 3 years and one is a boy ive had for a year and i love them too death (link)
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take your mommy instead. lol..mommy. take your mom instead. do you have a sibling? or maybe one of them doesnt want to go anyways. i think in most situations, the guy wouldnt take it very personally if you took the girl... but i dont know your friends.
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im going to a new school and i have a friend there that hangs out with a lot of guys. for some reason im really shy around guys so, what do i do???
how do i break the barrier of being shy towards them?
HELP!! (link)
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dont just break the barrier... make it crumble into peices.
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I really want to be popular. Not popular as in "hello, im stuck up and im better than everybody." I wanna be popular as in BE FRIENDS WITH EVERYONE! i dont know how to start a conversation with strangers. any suggestions on how i can achieve this? (link)
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well... if it really is a stranger, you start a conversation by sticking out your hand and saying.. "hello i'm.." , nice to meet you... then the basics.. so what grade are you... blahity. someone who is truly friends with everyone has to be a friend to everyone. so... if youre up to the challenge... what you reallly need to do is be as nice as you can be, to everyone all the time. and outgoing. but dont be friends with people you dont like, or that treat you badly. good luck
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