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I ma starting a business in selling pretty and urban jewellery but i cant think of any names. Just wondered if anybody has any ideas. (link)
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Hi There,
Well you could name it Accesorise, Claire's, Bling Bling, Best Friend, Girlie girl,
Hope this helps
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ok..so theirs this guy nd ive liked him forever!! and im friends w/ his cousin nd she said he liked me!! but hes been ignoring me lately..nd he hasnt called in like 3 days..nd he's been flirting w/ this other girl a lot..nd so i get that he prolly doesnt like me anymore..but i like him waaay to much..what do i do about it?! (link)
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Hi There,
I think you should try to get to know him a little better first. Try hanging out with him some more and ask for his number. Test the water first and try to see whether he is interested or not.
If you feel that he is interested, then by all means ask him out. If you are too shy to ask him yourself, then perhaps you could get a friend to do it for you. If he says no, then don't feel awkward about it...perhaps a good friendship can come out of it :)
Well, firt you gotta see if this guy likes you too, and you've got to make sure of it. Why not ask him to come somewhere with you and your mates and then ask for his number. And once you get chatting you can ask him out again, but with just the two of you. If he says no than i
guess you're probally better of without him and he doesn't like you any more than a mate but if he says yes, it's his way of saying he likes you alot too. And so that's your signal, you can ask him out or send signals for him too :oP go for it girl!! But don't take it badly if he doesn't like
you more than a friend, plenty more guys for you!!
Flirting is harmless fun. Maybe it's his way of being nice. It's when they take it further then that, that you have to worry about.What I would do is this. Just ask him if he would like
to hang-out with you sometime. Maybe get his phone number or give him yours if it's ok with your parents. Just take things nice and slow.
Or if your to shy, get your friend to ask him for
you. :)
Hope this helps..good luck to you.
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Okay i asked your guy's help once before about my girlfriend. But I have a serious situation, one of my ex-boyfriends called and asked me out. I haven't came out with this yet so nobody knows except my best friend and my gurlfriend and her aunt. I couldn't turn him down cause he's driving three hours just to see me. I wanna go but I don't think he would like the fact that i'm a 15 year old Bisexual and I have a girlfriend. And I don't think me girlfriend would like me going out with some guy!!!!!!!! Should I tell them???????? (link)
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Hi There,
There is absolutely no reason for you to feel humiliated. And don't ever let anyone's cruel, mean talking get to you. At this age, a lot of people struggle with their identities and their sexuality. Your ex, while she was dating you, was probably struggling very hard with things.
He was confused and most probably scared. Put yourself in his shoes: the whole thing surely hasn't been at all easy for him
My advice is for you to ignore any cruel comments from anyone and to simply be there for your ex. There is nothing wrong with who you is now and there is nothing wrong about your previous relationship with him. When you guys dated: you didn't know that he is gay and he probably
wasn't 100 % sure about it yet. Now that you are biis no reason why you can't just be friends. Don't feel humiliated. I am sure that he never meant to trick you or fool you....I am sure he did care about you; i guess he was just confused about a lot of things and struggling with alot.
Keep your chin up and don't worry your head about
other people's cruelty and prejudices. Turn down any stupid remarks with dignity and stand up for your ex. Tell others to get a life and to stop poking around in other people's affairs, and they eventually will.
Take care of yourself and of your friend, and don't let any of this bring you down.
Takecare
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Ok here u goes. I'm 17/male. And there's our neighbor sta**/Female who's 30. The problems that I think she sexually desires me. It all starts when she began to smile to me 2 month ago just after we moved to this new neighborhood. Anyway I was surprised last morning when she called me while passing her house. (She was outside and I respond her). So she handled my hand and moved it inside the shirt &I touch her breast. I can't deny that I felt erotic in that moment." I WANT U": Were her words. She told me that she wants 4rom me to have sex with her. Then I removed my hand quickly saying that I am late for school and I run away.
I am confused….should I refused or agreed?? Because she really success to seduce me and SHE'S REALLY HOT and SEXY and I am physically attracted to her. I know that she's older… What should I do????
Ps: I flirt many times and had sex 3 times.
Thanks 4 advices. Justin
Email:justin_frogy@yahoo.com
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Hi Justin,
Well this is your decision, do what your heart tells you. I mean yes she is much older then you and I think she should know better. I think you need to talk to her and find out more about her as you hardly know her and then see what you should do have a think about it.
Goodluck
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hey umm i was wondering since u answered my other question, you mentioned something about threading. i was just wondering what is threading? umm thanks (link)
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Hi There,
Well its an asian (indian) hair removing method where you take a long thread then tie it up in a knot at both ends and then with both hands on either side twist the thread and then it becomes like a scissor like and hold the thread on one end and where the hair is start threading. Its hard to explain really I hope you got but it is quite painful so I would suggest to you try the other options.
Goodluck
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ok. well today me and my friend hung out. i have just written about how she ditched me (if anyone has read that question i posted the subject was "neglected. (link)
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Hi There,
Sometimes it's easier to seethe in silence when someone does something to wind you up, but that doesn't make the issue go away. If anything, bottling up your feelings like this just makes the problem seem worse. It means you risk a situation where your mate steps just slightly out of line and you explode right in front of them - which doesn't solve anything.
Whether your friend's just being annoying without realising, or s/he's done something terrible that's totally wound you up, it's always wise to pick a good time to talk - preferably when you're feeling calm and there's nobody else around to chip in or stir things up for you.
Your aim here is to encourage this person to see things from your point of view. If your mate can see the upset they've caused for themselves, they'll be more likely to change their behaviour towards you.
Nobody likes to feel as if they're being attacked, or that somehow they have to defend their actions, so don't lay into them - it'll only risk a fistfight (or that slappy-scrap thing girls do sometimes).
You can't expect them to change their behaviour straight away, especially if you're both feeling a bit self-conscious after getting things out in the open. Instead, give them some time and space to process the problem and act upon it. If they value your friendship, you should see a new improved mate in no time.
Goodluck
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if you dont need contacts/glasses can you still get color contacts?! if so where and how much are they?! thanks! (link)
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Hi There,
Yes off course you can get coloured contacts without prescription i've got green contact lenses but I need glasses and I didn't want to wear them no longer so I went for these. The monthly ones are more cheaper than the yearly ones so all places have different prices so you will need to do some research on that
Goodluck
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I was just wondering if anybody knew some wonderful beauty tricks!? like how to get your hair shiny...non frizzy...how to get clear skin thats perfect please Ill take any advice!! wootwoot! (link)
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Hi There,
To get shiny hair you need to put hair wax or gel. For clear skin use face packs go to your chemist and i'm sure they will provide you treatmeny cream
Goodluck
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this might be long but i realy have a problem
me and my friend had been best friends since 4th grade and have been there for each other through thick and thin. last year around febuary she moved to a different state.. but we still talked every day. everything was going good up until the middle of october... when i would call her but she wouldnt call back, and shed say she was watching a tv show or was too tired.. well that got old pretty fast, so i sent her something that was like you act like you dont care about me anymore and i get a 'you know i care' we got into a big discussion because whenever we'd talk for a little bit it would be about her... so for a couple weeks we hadnt talked, and then we finally did when i called her and it turned into a hour of crying and saying she still cared. we got off the phone and she said shed call me tomorrow, suprise suprise i didnt get a call. ive tried making casual conversation with her but she is always busy and has to go. then a week later i get a text asking why i havent called her and 'you say im not being a good friend' then it just got into a war and how im making a huge deal out of this... and she turned all of this around to be my fault when i dont think it is.. finally i just told her id have my cell whenever she wanted to talk.
i havent talked to her since and whenever i try to say something shes always like sorry im doing something brb its just stupid and im not sure what to do its like she doesnt want to even be friends with me anymore randomly. she doesnt even im me when were both on... i just dont know what i should do so if anyone has any suggestions let me know... thank you
14/f (link)
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Hi There,
As horrible as it may seem she may just want to end the friendship I mean from what you have told us it seems she doesn't care otherwise she wouldn't be putting you through all this. I'm sure you'll find plenty of more friends to hang out with don't worry you are nice sweet person
Anyway Bye for now
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hey everyone! does anyone noe a good way to stop split ends? i have a ceramic and it`s killer to my hair! i rate high! please help
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Hi There,
You may want to trim your hair slightly that sometimes helps. Do you use conditioner at all. Finally all I can suggest is to ask a hairdresser
Goodluck
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Ok so i am a 17 female and ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 1/2 months...i had heard some stuff that made me upset...so i asked him about it..he told me that he would never hurt me and the reason for that is that he loved me--the problem is he wrote it through a text message...he says he wants to say it 2 my face but its hard because of what had happend in the past...all he is waiting for is for us to be alone and the right moment...so when do u think that will be? i want to say it back but i dont know when the right moment is either help (link)
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Hi There,
I can't tell you for sure why you might be nervous. Therefore, I'm assuming that you may be a bit nervous about the commitment to a relationship.
My advice to you is to relax, and just have fun. If you like each other, then it might be a good idea for you to go out with him, provided that you feel comfortable doing it. Keep in mind that you're not tying yourself down to anything by going out with him.
If you really feel uncomfortable with the idea of going out with him, then perhaps it's simply because you don't feel ready yet. There's no 'set age' by which one is supposed to start dating. If you don't feel comfortable or ready, then don't rush yourself.
If you do feel like you're ready, but are nervous, remember that it's normal to be nervous about these things. It might be helpful for you to talk things out with a close friend, or a counselor. They might be able to give you some suggestions, or help to calm your worries.
Listen to your heart, and do what you think is best. Good
luck!
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Well, not really. Okay. I'm 16, I go to uni, but I have no idea how to put on make-up. I have a very pale skin ('cause I don't eat meaty stuff and no fruit), I have big green eyes, long eyelashes, dark drown hair with purple highlights here and there (hair = long). Any tips?...All I do is I take this dark red eyeliner and orange eyeshadow. And I use those to create this weird look. I go to an Arts uni, but when it comes to make-up colors, I'm totally lost. SOS!
Thanks in advance. (link)
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Hi There,
Well what I can sujjest to you is go to any beauty clinic or shope and ask the beauty therapist for advice and i'm sure he/she will be happy to give it to I mean thats their job and then you can try on yourself at home.
Goodluck
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kinda of very weird question ever asked---- seriously is there any way to judge whether a female had sex earlier in her part of life or not? jus by looking at her....? No offense...jus info (link)
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Hi There,
Well to put your mind at rest the only easier way to find out is to ask her I mean in a jokey way and see what her response is but no I don't know if you judge that unless your psychic lol
Goodluck
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I have a girlfriend the problem is i'm a girl can some1 help i don't know what 2 do!!!!!! (link)
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Hi There,
I'm sure if you talk to her and explain to her the situation then i'm sure she will understand. If your feeling like this then you shouldn't keep it inside as it will keep bugging you all the time
Try speaking to her
Goodluck
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You give great advice. Do you mind that I added you?
--Caden-- (link)
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Hi There,
Off course I don't mind infact i'm happy that you got something positive out of my advice.
Anyway bye for now
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I'm getting a 6week old basset hound on thrusday and I'm not sure what i want to name it. I was thinking of Mya. any one got any unique names for it. Its a girl (link)
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Hi There,
you could name it Tia, Ria, Tessa, shorty or cutie
Hope this helped
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ok, im 13/f and i kno everyone has upper lip hair, but mine is starting to get a little more noticable and i was wondering whats the best way to get rid of it? i dont want to wax, if u even can, so dont say that. I have this little grooming razor thingy so would that work? thanks danielle (link)
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Hi There,
Please whatever you do please do not use that razor as it will have bad side effects in the long run. There are a few cremes in the chemist you could try, threading or tweezing it.
Goodluck
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okay im 16/f.
i was in 2 bad car accidents and my leg is paralyzed along with all the other bad injuries. my leg is just "dead" it impairs me. my doctor says i should have it amputated, but i don't know if i can make that descision. can you please help me? (link)
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Hi There,
With regards to your medical problem that decision is entirely up to you we can only offer you advice so whatever you feel and the doctor feels is in your best interest you should take that direction. I mean if it's gonna have a positive effect then do it I understand and empathise how you are feeling its probably one of the biggest decision you will have to make in your life but you might want to speak to a counsellor as well to help you get through this. I wish you a speedy recovery and all the best
God bless
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there's this guy. my parents know his parents through baseball and our brothers are friends through baseball too. weve never really talked to each other i guess becuase weve never seen each other in school and were in two different groups of people. i mean i think we're both on the same popularity level, but dont have the same friends. so hes in my english class this year and i try not to...but i cant help but stare at him the whole period. hes kinda shy around people he doesnt know but he seems sweet. how do i get to know him better without making it all awkward? (link)
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Hi There,
Flirting is harmless fun. Maybe it's his way of being nice. It's when they take it further then that, that you have to worry about.
What I would do is this. Just ask him if he would like to hang-out with you sometime. Maybe get his phone number or give him yours if it's ok with your parents. Just take things nice and slow.
Or if your to shy, get your friend to ask him for you. :)
Hope this helps..good luck to you.
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okay. so, well thought out and honest answers would really really help me. how can you tell if a guy likes you.
if it matters, im a 14/f
thanks a whole bunch
(giving examples is perfectly fine) (link)
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Hi There,
I think you should try to get to know him a little better first. Try hanging out with him some more and ask for his number. Test the water first and try to see whether he is interested or not.
If you feel that he is interested, then by all means ask him out. If you are too shy to ask him yourself, then perhaps you could get a friend to do it for you. If he says no, then don't feel awkward about it...perhaps a good friendship can come out of it :)
Take care and good luck!
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