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Ok so i am a 17 female and ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 1/2 months...i had heard some stuff that made me upset...so i asked him about it..he told me that he would never hurt me and the reason for that is that he loved me--the problem is he wrote it through a text message...he says he wants to say it 2 my face but its hard because of what had happend in the past...all he is waiting for is for us to be alone and the right moment...so when do u think that will be? i want to say it back but i dont know when the right moment is either help
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There isn't necessarily a right time other than saying it when you mean it. If you're being sincere when you say it it'll always be the right time.
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Hi There,
I can't tell you for sure why you might be nervous. Therefore, I'm assuming that you may be a bit nervous about the commitment to a relationship.
My advice to you is to relax, and just have fun. If you like each other, then it might be a good idea for you to go out with him, provided that you feel comfortable doing it. Keep in mind that you're not tying yourself down to anything by going out with him.
If you really feel uncomfortable with the idea of going out with him, then perhaps it's simply because you don't feel ready yet. There's no 'set age' by which one is supposed to start dating. If you don't feel comfortable or ready, then don't rush yourself.
If you do feel like you're ready, but are nervous, remember that it's normal to be nervous about these things. It might be helpful for you to talk things out with a close friend, or a counselor. They might be able to give you some suggestions, or help to calm your worries.
Listen to your heart, and do what you think is best. Good
luck!
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You should wait until you really mean it. He may feel that saying someting like that takes the right place and the right time. he feels that waiting for the right moment will make it more romantic. I think that when you are both ready t say it then you will but being patient is the key. Try keeping your mind off of it for awile. Talk about something other than that and that will help you be more patient about the situation.
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Seriously don't worry about it! You know he feels strongly so it's not as if you're worried about how he feels or anything. The best moment for both of you to say it is when it suddenly seems right and just pops out! It is really difficult when you say it for the first time but don't waste your time worrying when he's going to say it or when you should say it. Just enjoy the fact that you know he loves you and look forward to when he says it to your face!
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You have to make sure that you're understanding his interpretation of the moment and your interpretation and definition for " the" moment. By this, I mean that his interpretation of the right moment may be for him to have sex with you and your interpretation of it being the right moment may be talking about the issue love and being for sure that he loves you or not. Take the time to define your perfect moment, and take the time to be prepared and ready for his definition, which may lead to his actions, to the perfect moment. Keep in mind his past. I know that people can change, but it wouldn't be sensible to ignore it all. Keep it in your mind but do believe in him. Just be ready, and be prepared for whatever he says. Even if he says that he loves you, you have to be prepared. Ready yourself and evaluate your perspectives on your perfect moment.
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well the right moment is when you guys are alone no one is around try goin to dinner or somthin and talk !!
hope i helped
♥ Samra
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