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Hey, my names christine, and if you need any help or need a question awnserd feel free to ask me! you can e-mail me to! ... well theres not much to know about me exept im in the 8th grade, im mature for my age, somewhat tall... i love animals, im usually really funny, i suck school, and im wierd, so i pritty much fill all catigories, AND YES I SUCK AT SPELLING! so feel free to ask me anything!

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My g/f is upset because her ex cheated on her a while back and now her brother is going to (plz excuse the lang. it is a quote) "kick his ass". I don't like to see her upset, and her ex is my friend, and now I am worried about her. (and Marshal for that matter,too) I dunno how to make her feel better...help plzzzz

Talk it out with her, tell her how much you love her, and how you would never do that to her, it will help a bit! ;)

cjAdvice

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Well I have 2 best friends and we all use to goto middle school together until we got to high school cause all 3 of us goto different high schools. Well they made these plans leaving me out and I barly see them am I in the wrong to be mad cause I don't see them and on top of that they leave me out.should i be mad or am i wrong? I think one of them is mad because I told her that her ex and I have been talking alot lately and i think I like him. But i would never let a boy in between my frienships so am i wrong to be mad.
thanks for anyone who answers!

Hecksters yes you should! dude you are free to think whatever you want too! ESPECALLY if they are leaving you out! Why not find a new group of friends, that dont leave you out?

hope this helps!

cjAdvice

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Ok well when iwas 5 i had a habit of biting my nails off. And now at 13, i have a habit or picking my ifingers like picking the skin off and making it bleed arround the cuticle and stuff. I know its gross. Whaever i do, hold suimthin on hit my hand, i cant stop ive tried everything please help

Well... umm try super hott souse! lol this REALLY does work!

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hey im 13 and a female and in grade 2 i had the biggest crush on this guy but then i transfurred schools. just about a month ago i got ahold of his msn and we have been talking and i still really like him! he knows i do and he likes me too!:D. we are best friends now and we dont know what to do cuz if we go out and it doesnt work out we dont want to ruin our friendship! if it helps hes liked me since grade 2 too! please help!!
**sleepiesheep**

Why not go out with him? after all it is better to go out with a friend thenn someone you dont know :) plus IF things dont work out then you two can just promice to be friends if things take a wrong turn! hope this helps you out! :)

cjAdvice

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Im like addicted to the computer, and i really can't stop. Is there a way to get me off of it? Please help.

Find somthing else to do, like fun stuff you like. Whenever you feel like going onto the computer, just try not to. give yourself a time limit... hee hee, my perants made me one of two hours...{sniff} go for 2 1/2 hours to 3 hours, it will help! good luck!

cjAdvice

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I haven't got my period yet. Im kinda scared about getting it. What if im in school? what if im in the middle of class and i have to get up and someone sees? what are some signs when i get it differnt from just an itch. Gimmie info

Well you may feel like you have cramps, or get a headach, or lose apitite, or gain apitite, or have cravings, ect. Dont worry about it thoug, youll know when it happens, lol i was in a musium when "it" happend... it just sort of feels kinda wet down there if it happens during the day. just if you think its gona happen go to the bathroom :) hope this helps you! good luck!

cjAdvice

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Hi,

This is Jasmine. I am 24 and 5'4". My weight is 145lbs. I got married in Dec'04 and we had to stay apart for 5months and now we are together. I was 130lbs last summer, I am not sure if I gained this weight over a year or just in the last 6months. I am a Master's in Computer Science student and I am working on the computer for about 10hrs a day on an average. Rice is our staple food with different vegetables (fried or cooked). I am trying to walk 21/2 miles everyday, but haven't been very regular. My HDL cholestrol is very low and the doctor advised me to lose about 20pounds and I am feeling horrible myself. I would really appeciate anybody's suggestions to help me do this. Thank you so much for your help.

hee hee, i asked the same question, what every one told me to do was run crunches pushups running up and down stairs eat frute and veggies. allso Dont eat after6:00!!!

hope this helps you out!
cjAdvice

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F/15 I think I am suffering from depression, Im not talking about "I not myself today" kind of sad, but I have felt like this for a long time. I feel abbandoned and angry at myself for being a failure. I feel like everyone who I was ever close to has left me and I have no one to talk to. All of my close friends are gone and I only have a few friends that i really dont know that well. I having a hard time dealing with the deaths of several classmates and I have been thinking about death alot lately, I want to see a therapist or a doctor, but I am terriffied to talk to my parents...they see me as perfect because I am the oldest and they have such high expectations for me. How can I talk to my parents about recieving treatment?

-Scared and Alone

Just tell them... they will think of you as an even better person because you can talk to them and tell them your problems. i hope this helps! cjAdvice

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i was absent one day at school for a lab, and i'm going to bring in a doctor's note for documentation. i was just wondering if school officials actually call up the doctor to verify that i came in? my doctor actually just left town two days ago. i heard there is a confidentiality rule with a job, but i don't know if it goes through with higher education...i just don't want my professor to think that i'm bs-ing it.

Dont worry about it! :D the peoples at the doctors office will just tell whoever calls that they are out for a few day's and to try back then. so you have nothing to worry about! hope this helps you!

cjAdvice

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okay this friday i'm going to hangout with this boy, lets call him charlie. I want to become FWBs(friends with beninfits) but i dont know how to make the 1st move or get him to make one. any suggestions? ill be in a hot tub and walking around with some other people (i rate high)

get some of your friends to go over to him and tell him that you like him..... thats how it always works for me! hope this helps!

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we are having this dance and i wanna go but i dont no how to dance can some1 please help me and give me tips ! the dance is tommrow so help!!

well if you wana dandce with a guy just let him do the leading, and just fallow him!er.. unless your a guy.... then just look and wach the other guys!

if your talkin about just play dancin then just hang with your friends and they will show you. i hope this helps... and sorry i couldent help more!

cjAdvice

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I just started a new job. The store is new, it's only been open about a week and a half. I've had about 7 shifts so far.

Well I had today(saturday) off. I knew I didnt have to work again until Sunday. The problem was that my boss left a message at 10 in the morning today saying that she needed me to cover someones shift at 5 today. I didnt actually get the message until after 5 pm because my answering maching wasnt working. So by the time I phoned the store the manager said my supervisor was gone for the day. I know that I wasnt scheduled to work today but could I get fired for not atleast phoning her? I talked to my friends and they told me I am worried for nothing and that I am allowed to have a life, but I just wanted to check here first.

you wont get fired, tell him the truth your boss will understend! :D hope this helps you out!

-cjAdvice

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let me get straight to the point! i like the guy i work with--alot!! supposidly he likes me too (or so my coworkers have said) in the past two days he has called me twice (to see if i wanted to hang out, but the first time i was hanging out with other friends, and the sencond time i was sleeping) what are some ways that i could let him know i like him, or get him to ask me out? any advice will help! thanks!!

Why not ask him out yourself?

he would definetally find that sweet of you to make an attemp for him... hope this helps! :D

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my boyfriend is the type that flirts with girls and when I first started going out with him I was hoping he would stop doing that because he has a girlfriend. But since then..my friend saw him feeding food TO HIS EX GIRLFRIEND!! wow that made me really mad..and I let him know!! but we worked it out and he said that he would never do anything like that agian. But, just a few days ago one of my friends saw anouther girl sitting on his lap!! So I talked to him about it and he said that she was only sitting on his knee and that they wern't even talking. Things keep happening like that and I don't know what I should do about it..or tell him. If you were in this situation what would you do/ tell him? Thanks soo much!!

Well i would definetally tell him. i would say that if he didint stop messin with other g's then you guys are gonna be over.... that should get him to stop! hope this helps, &hearts

-cjAdvice

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I have no clue what to get my girlfriend for christmas. I don't want to get her makeup or cosmetics because i know nothing about that stuff, and I don't want to get her clothes because I don't know if she'd like it or what her size is. So with that said, what are some gift ideas that girls like?

Well one thing girls (like me) LOVE is a cuddly cute teddy/or any stuffed animal... espesally if its there favorit animal! and give them a rose with the *animal too!

hope this helps!

-cjAdvice

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I have a huuuuge biology test on monday, and im so nervous. It's just so confusing. Im studying so hard but i just know im gunna fail. I have a C- average, so i HAVE to do well. Plus my gramma just died, so thats just another distraction. Im so nervous i feel like im gunna be sick. How can I calm down? What are some good study tips? Pleaseeeee help!

Study with friends! its the only way i can study lol!

hope this helps!

-Cjadvice

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I'm going out with this guy that my friends just absolutely hate! One of my friends even threatened to stab him in the neck with her pocket knife during church! I don't want to break up with the guy because he's absolutely perfect to me. What should I do?

prettykitty77723

Tell your friends to get over themselves! sheesh, are they really your friends if they treat someone you realy realy like that way? tell them that hes perfect to you and if they cant ecept that then its there problem!!

sorry if this sounded mean, i dident mean it to! hope this helps! -cjAdvice

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okay i need help. ASAP.
what cute way could i ask this chick to formal. she plays softball too. i wanna ask her at school. any i deas?

and formal is a dance where you get all dressed up go to dinner, all that stuff.

first ask her if shes doin anything on that night, then (if shes not) ask her if shel go with you... sorry if this isint so good but its all i got! hope this helps!!!!

-Christine

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well i started writing poems and songs about sucide and dieing and cutting and popping pills! im sucidal?? PLZ HELP!!
(( and plz dont tell me to go see a counslar or therpist because my family doesnt know and i dont want them to find out))

nah, your not suicidle, unless you really do feel this way.. you dont have to see a counciler. you can talk to friends, or you can talk to me! :) hope this helps you!

cjAdvice aka:Christine J, you can find my e-mail on my web page, just look up (on advicenators) cjAdvice

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Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering...should age matter in a relationship? What's your point of view on this one, like does it matter if both are close in age or far apart...by far I mean less than 5 years or so. Thanks in advance, will rate.

Well truthfully, 5 years apart isint a bad age difference. if it was like 10-25 year dif. then it would matter... and i dont really think age matters in a relationship anywayz, its all about how you feel inside! hope this helps!

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