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I want to know why people always talk such trash about mormans. Yea I am morman but that has nothing to do with it. Just because people arnt in a certain religion doesnt mean they have the right to talk trash about it. So my question is why do people do it? and why is it mostly mormans they talk about? Thanks. (link)
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because its beliefs don't go along with christianity, and most people are christians and so they don't like other religions that contradict their beliefs. it's normal for people to be that way about other religions that they don't belong to. just ignore them. if they say things like that, then maybe they're not such good christians.
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ok, sorry, you're right, mormons are christian, but still, their beliefs vary more from the general christian thing than most denominations.
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I used a tampon for the first time tonight. I began to feel a little discomfort afterabout 30minutes to I took it out. However it hurt to take it out; I had to pull pretty hard. Is this normal? (link)
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it shouldn't hurt, but it is normal that you'd have to pull hard because it absorbs liquid and expands while it's in your vagina. if you felt discomfort, it may be because you didn't insert it all the way in - then it really would hurt a bit. make sure to use good tampons with plastic applicators and regular absorbensy, at least for your first box of tampons.
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aah! so here is the deal!! i once read in a magazine about a girl who got sexually harassed by her teacher. and im like oh i feel so bad for that girl, but i never thought about it happening to me. well i hate to admit it.. but it did. this is what happened: i needed extra help in math so i told my teacher about it (lets call him mr. a) and hes like oh why dont you stay after class today i have no meetings and i was king of hesistating cause thursdays are busy for me. but he was like insisting and it was kind of awkward and i felt uncomfortable rejecting it so i did stay after school. when he told me to sit down next to him at a table, i did. and by the way the chairs were a little to close. the whole time he was helping me he always tryed to get good excuses to get close to me. not actually saying stuff, but like syaing "ok lets go over the steps .. *nudge close, nudge closer* then after we started talking and he asked me what my favorite classes werwe and i told him, and hes like "what do you think about the sex unit in health" and in my head im like "WHAT??"so i said awkwardly.. "um yes its good." so out of the blue.. hes like "ever wanted to have sex" and i said "i dontknow.." hes like "want to try it with me" i got creeped out at that i felt like crying.WHAT SHOULD I DO?? PLEASE HELP. i'm so confused, im afraid of going to school or even walking in the halls cause i might bump into hiM!!!! (link)
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wow, i know how you feel, something similar happened to me, though my teacher didn't directly say anything like that. i regret not having told anybody... i'd recommend talking to your school counselor, or your parents - whichever would make you feel more comfortable. you do need to do something about it because it may affect your grades (either because of him or because you'll be too nervous to pay attention in class and you won't be able to come for tutoring), and also because you should warn the school when there's a teacher like that among their faculty.
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do guys prefer for a girl to fake an orgasm if they don't get one during sex? (link)
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well, let me put your question into different situations.
would you prefer someone to laugh at your joke instead of saying they don't get it, making you think that you're good and go on embarrassing yourself? would you like your friend to say she loves your outfit even though it's hideous, causeing you to go out in public and have others laugh at you? would you like it if you cooked a dinner for your family and put way too much salt in it, and they pretended it tased great so that your feeling don't get hurt?
seriously consider how these things would make you feel, and you'll know how the guy will feel.
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K so about a month ago Mr. X (who doesn't know I exist) walked across my PE class to get the the basketball court outside. Usually we have people walking in and out all the time so it wasn't so odd. Other than that, I barely see him around school. I took a PE class to meet him maybe but he is in a more advanced class.
So today, I went inside his PE Class and was playing hoops when he walked in and looked at me with a suprised expression on his face and asked his friend "Is this the ------- right class?". I didn't understand why he would say that because usually people walk into the gym and play all the time.
So my friend and I moved to the outside courts and started playing hoops in the rain. There was only a guy at the edge of the court, trying to tie his shoelaces. Other than that it was just me and my friend. Then Mr. X walks outside with his friend and stands at the edge of the court with his friend, dribbling a soccer ball with his feet. Anyways, he just stands there for like 10 minutes, dribbling and talking to his friend. It was odd because everyone inside was playing ball and he led his friend outside to where me and my friend were playing.
Sorry if this is long but is he interested maybe or...? I rate 5's. (link)
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he mights be, but to tell you the truth, it's hard to judge based on a thing like this. i mean, if you wanted to play hoops in the rain, why couldn't they just want to be outside as well, for no apparent reason? or maybe they wanted to talk so that they wouldn't be overheard. but yea, there is a chance that he might have finally noticed you and is interested. if he is, then just wait - i'm sure he'll do something about it sooner or later, so that you could be certain.
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I have a very big fear of the dark. The thing is Its not beacuse of just a little thing like scary movies or stuff like that. I had a really bad expierence in the dark at a hospital after one of my heart surgerys. I can't go anywhere without a light on or someone close by. Its kinda silly i no but i need help. How do I slowly get over this stupid fear. Im a 15 yr old female. Im too old for this!
help pleae! I ALWAYS rate well!
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sounds like a common phobia. you don't have to be embarrassed, a lot of people have phobias, and many of them are scared of much more unreasonable things. if you really want to get rid of it, the best thing you could do is see a specialist. phobias are not that hard to cure, it just takes a few visits to a therapist. getting rid of a phobia on your own is not quite possible.
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A friend of mine offered to teach me how to play the guitar. He knows I don't have much money and because me and my friends are always helping him out with his business, he told me that he would teach me for free. At first he was really nice and was patient. But when I had my third lesson he YELLED at me and said "YOURE NOT LISTENING TO ME". This was because I told him I wanted to look at my quitar book to see how to play a cord instead of having him move my fingers with his. (this has made me uncomfortable). He is married and I think sometimes he tries to come on to me. He also can get really inpatient with me when I can't play cords right.
I really want to learn to play the quitar but he just makes me so nervous and I'm almost a little afraid of him. I'm only staying with him because of the money issue, and also it would hurt a lot of my friends if I quit because they say what a nice guy he is to teach me for free.
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that just means he's not the type of person who makes a good teacher, few people are. just explain to him that him moving your fingers makes you feel uncomfortable and that you would rather use the book, he should understand. ask him not to yell if he does and explain that it only makes you more nervous and it doesn't help. basically, just try to help him teach you, maybe he can become a better teacher if he sees what the student needs.
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I get really shy when it comes to eating around people other than my famliy and my closest friends. If I'm at lunch and everyone else is eating I feel ok about eating in front of them, but If no one is eating I get nervous about eating when they aren't. So I just was invited to a friend's 16th birthday party and it is going to be at a hotel. Its a fancy dinner party really...and I'm nervous about eating with 50 other people around me. Its not that I'm worried about my weight or how I look, I just don't feel right eating when other people are around. What should I do at the party? Should I just not go? Or should I go and not eat if no one else is eating?
Please Help..I'll rate =] (link)
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actually, yours is a somewhat common fear. maybe it's some type of phobia, but if it is, i don't know what it's called. just have a little bit of food before you go, and when you're there, try to be around your closest friends when you're eating. and maybe there won't be a problem at all because everyone else will be eating so you won't feel uncomfortable. and don't worry, i know a lot of people who don't like eating around strangers, it's not that weird.
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Please try to help. Heres the problem.. Last May I went out of town to live with my father and got a job there and stuff, the only time I went outside was when I had to go to work. My father and I had a lot of problems, we fought all the time because he always has been a HORRIBLE dad, I was only there so that I could get a job. Well, I moved back home in October because I couldn't stand living with my father. The thing is, ever since I moved back home I havent stepped foot outside even once. When someone knocks at the door or I know someone in the house is expecting company, I run and lock myself in another room. When I wake up and all the blinds are open, I close them (this really makes my family mad). But for some reason I am terrified of going outside and being seen. I don't know why. Can someone please give me some answers? I rate 5's (link)
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i may be wrong, but it seems that there is something that happened when you were at your dad's that you are not mentioning, or it may be even something that you're not aware of. such phobias develop when you are subconsciously trying to deal with something. whatever it is, i think the best way (and probably the only way) to deal with it is to see a psychotherapist. they'll help you figure out what it is that's making you act this way, and then they'll help you deal with the real problem and get rid of your phobia. i know it's expensive, but it will be sure to help you, and it's possible that your health insurance will cover a few visits.
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I am currently 8 months pregnant and the last 2 months i have been addicted to sniffing Tipp Ex and marker Pens, could this have caused any harm to my unborn baby? (link)
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oh yes, it could, and most likely did, to some degree. depends on how long you've been sniffing, but yea. i'm sure i don't have to tell you what kind of an effect it will have on your own brain. if you stop now, you might still help your baby.
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ok heres my question....
I HAVE BEEN DATING THIS GUY FOR THREE MONTHS NOW! HES A GOOD GUY AND ALOT OF FUN! HES VERY POPULAR AND HAS ALOT OF "EXPERIENCE." WHEN I MET HIM ALL HE TALKED ABOUT WAS HOW BAD HE WANTED TO SLEEP WITH ME AND HOW BAD HE WANTED TO HAVE A LIFE WITH ME! I FELT THAT SAME WAY BUT THE ONLY DIFFRENCE IS THAT IM STILL A VRIGIN AND HE DOESNT KNOW IT YET! AND TO MAKE THE STORY MORE INTERESTING IVE BEEN HAVING FAMILY PROBLEMS AND GOT KICKED OUT OF MY HOUSE AND NOW STAYING WITH HIM! WE SLEEP IN THE SAME BED AND WHEN HES IN THE MOOD I FEEL SO BAD BECAUSE I TELL HIM THAT IM NOT IN THE MOOD OR I FEEL SICK BUT THATS NOT IT AT ALL, SO HE JUST ROLLS OVER AND GOES TO SLEEP!I FEEL LIKE SUCH A HORRIBLE PERSON! IVE LIED TO HIM SO MUCH ALREADY AND THE PERSON THAT I MET HIM WITH AND HE WANTS A LIFE WITH IS THE ONE THATS NOT A VIRGIN! IM SO SCARED TO TELL HIM BUT IF I DONT HES GONNA THINK THAT I DONT LIKE HIM AND I DO I REALLY DO! WAT SHOULD I DO? IF HE FINDS OUT I LIED TO HIM AGAIN HE MIGHT THROW ME OUT INTO THE STREET! pls help! and my tonight cause hes gonna try again and i dont wanna lie to him anymore! (link)
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i really can't understand why you were shy about telling him this in the first place... i mean, think about it this way: would he rather know that he's your first, or think that you've had other guys inside you? of course he'd enjoy knowing that he's your first! just explain it to him, and he'll understand and probably even be relieved that it's not becaue you're not attracted to him and that you haven't slept with anybody else. he might be upset that you lied, but if he doesn't understand, than he's not worth it; but there's just no way that he could get mad that you're a virgin.
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Im religious. I believe in God and everything, but lately Ive been thinking about the devil and excorcisms. I dont know why but its taking over my life. Im constantly thinking about it! I havent even seen the Excorcism of Emily rose or anything, but I HAVE seen the Excorcist. Im just really scared it would happen to me. In that movie and the excorcist, why DID it happen to THOSE people?! Please help give me more info about what it is
No websites please! I kind of just want an answer! I give 5s! (link)
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what you have to realize is that the exorsist is just a movie. it shook me too when i saw it, and i also had fears similar to yours but they only lasted a day or so. according to the movie, it happened to those people because they hadn't done anything wrong and because the devil believed that this was a good way of planting hopelessness into the people's hearts. but one thing that the movie forgot to display was God's care for people such as that family. if you truly do believe in God, you will trust Him and know that He wouldn't let that happen to you or anybody who loves Him.
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Ok, I've liked this guy for a long time, over 4 years, and we're good friends. I talk to him in school and everything, but I just can't tell him I like him because I'm scared he will reject me. But lately, he's been more friendly than normal, and a little while ago, when I was talking to him online, he said "Do you wanna go..." "Uh" "Nevermind." I think he was going to ask me out,but I don't know. Do you think he likes me and I should ask him if he wants to be my boyfriend? Thanks ahead of time. (link)
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well, there's only one way to really find out... it sounds like it's quite possible that he likes you, but you won't know for sure unless you ask him out, or unless he gets the courage to ask you out. just try showing him that you wouldn't mind going out with him, flirt a little, flash smiles at him more often, give him those looks. or just go staraight up to him and ask him if he'd like to go out with you.
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i really like this guy. and i know he likes me. The thing is he is black and some are my friends are acting weird about that. i mean i don't see anything wrong with it. Is there something wrong with a white female dating a black male?? (link)
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no, there's nothing wrong with that at all, it's just that some people are still a little prejudiced towards interracial relationships. don't worry about what your friends say but don't get mad at them for it - it's just the way they've been brought up because that's the way our society still is. if you really like that guy, go out with him and show others that you look past those shadowy rules that our society has set up.
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OK so im a 14 year old .. im pretty over weight. I'm like like a DD too, and im really self conscience about it. I also have a sweating problem, so w/e i wear i have huge stains under my arms. Im a tomboy .. but i still wanna wear jeans and a nice sweater sometimes! So, i dont think boys like me .. like at all. How can i look better and more cute, and feel more confident about myself? (link)
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well, don't worry about boys. you might not attract crouds of them now, but think of it as a strainer - the ones who are attracted to you see you the way you are and they like you for the funny, smart girl that i'm sure you are, and one day you'll find the right guy. and being overweight might not even have anything to do with it, i'm a skinny girl and i didn't get my first kiss or go on my first date until my freshman year in college (which is now, btw). just be open and let people see who you are on the inside.
also, just because you're overweight, doesn't mean you're unatractive. i think a person's face is the most important part. ask your mom if you could start wearing make-up and experiment with that. try to do some cute things to your hair, maybe go to a hair solon and get a new haircut, get some highlights, just whatever you like.
also, try exersising. i'm not saying you should exersise to lose weight, but it may make you feel better overall. it's good for your health and if you do lose a few pounds, that'd be great. don't feel pressured to lose weight, but if you think it would make you feel better about yourself, try some work-outs.
sweating problem... well, you could try guys deodorant, but you might not want to smell like a guy, lol. go to you doctor and ask what's the most powerful antiperspirant that you could use.
hope that helped
- cheburashka
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well i'm pretty sure that i have a yeast infection, my vagina feels irritated and swolen. i am not sexually active, so i know it isn't an std. if anyone has had a yeast infectoion before can you tell me what kind of medicine or treatments you had? i'm really worried i will have to use some gross cream or something. thank you so much if you can help me! (link)
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my roomate had a yeast infection and she just had to drink internal stuff, like antibiotics, no creams or anything. it's been two or three months since she got it and i think it's already cured... so don't worry, i don't think they'll make you use anything gross =))
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Do dogs have lips? Sorry but I've always wondered that...
♥Sammm (link)
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well, lips is the area of skin where upper and lower part of the mouth merge together, so of course all animals have lips, it's just that human lips are more distinct in color and size.
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ok i have diabtes (type 1, im not overweight or anything) and im a little shy about it well i mean i dont like telling ppl about it. only my close friends know about it and some other people who i didnt want to find out about having it. my friends think that its stupid that i dont tell people and they say if they had it they would have no problem telling ppl. but they dont have it so they dont know. its easier to say then do. are they right, should i not be so shy about it?
btw i have had it for about 2 years (link)
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well, it's not something to be embarassed-shy about it, but there's nothing wrong with not wanting others to find out. i don't really know, but it may cause people to treat you differently - to feel sorry for you or feel weird about you... i don't know any people with diabetes so i really don't know what their reactions could be. but the things is, it's not something like aids, which people are greatly prejudiced against, and it won't make them shun you. either way, it's your choice whether you want to tell others or not and don't worry if your friends think it's silly - they don't have it, they wouldn't know how you feel.
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hey i'm a guy. this girl i know is starting to scare me. we used to talk about everything and always have a blast, but a few months ago we started to talk less. i noticed she wasn't as active as she was before, and asked her about it. just as it seemed to be, she told me she was depressed and didn't like the kind of life she was living. she went on about all the bad things in her life with family, school, friends, herself, etc. i tried to point out good things to her, but she always came back at me with something to disprove it. after not talking for a week or so, she said she just wanted to end her life and to get away from everything. i didn't take this too serious at first, but lately she hasn't been eating, barely talks, and hasn't been looking too healthy. if she is thinking about suicide, what should i do? i asked her about it and she didn't want to talk. should i tell her parents? please help (link)
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sounds like a very serious teenage depression. if her parents care about her at all, they should know by now that she's depressed because parents feel these things, but you should talk to them anyway and tell them you fears. they might take her to a therapist or just talk to her to help her deal with her problems.
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is it healthy for a 5'8" teen to weigh around 115lbs. And if you know, what is a good weight for someone who's 5'8"? (link)
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i used to weigh that much and i'm the same height. it is considered a little under weight, but none of the physicians who examined me ever said anything about it, so i guess it's nothing to be alarmed about. it would be good for you to gain a few pounds, but eventually you will anyway. hey, gaining weight is definitely more fun than trying to lose it, you can have fun with it and eat lots of yummy food =)
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