Member Since: November 28, 2005
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Me and my sister have never gotten along, but lately weve started to be more civil to each other. I am 27 and she is 23. She still lives with our mother.She recently told me that she quit her job, which sort of surprised me.
Well I'm really worried about something that I did. My dad (who is divorced from our mom)phoned me about two weeks ago and asked me how my new job was going. I told him that I was getting lots of hours and that I liked it.
Well then I mentioned to my dad that my sister should apply at the store I'm working at because she just quit her job. Then my dad said"WHAT"? I then said, "what, didnt' you know"? He was really mad and said "why the hell would she quit her job before finding another one"?
I told him to please not say anything to her.
I recently talked to my sister and she asked me if I told our dad she quit her job. I lied and said no, then she said she didnt want him to find out.
I did a really shitty thing but it wasnt really my fault, I didnt know I wasnt supposed to say anything. I'm really worried she will find out it was me that spilled the beans, how can I ever make it up to her? I already bought her a nice Xmas gift but don't think thats enough. (link)
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Well, you can't bribe someone into not being mad at you. Trust me, I've tried it.
It seems that your sister is the one that made the mistake here, but I will give you that advice.
Just tell your sister you didn't know that she did not tell your father about the entire job situation, and apologize. Maybe you could help her get a job?
Neon_Green_x3
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I never thought I'd have to ask this sort of question. My best friend has always been my hero and my sorce of joy. And now all of a sudden she's hanging out with another one of my friends who treats her like crap. She cracks and disses on her right in front of my best friend and it hurts her feelings.
Every time I try to say something when we're w/ the other girl, she's like, that's stupid, or why would you say that and almost kinda ignores me. She rolls her eyes at me know, and she's never done that unless she would follow it with a laugh. It hurts cuz I truely love my best friend. Why do you think she's pulling away from me? We know everything about each other and every worry. It hurts that now she's my main worry and she might have a new best friend.
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Well, I was in the same position not too long ago, I'm not goning to mention any names, but one of my close friends was in the same situation as your friend, but anyways...
What I think you shoudl do; Is sit your friend down and talk to her about your feelings, even if she may not want to hear it, make sure she knows you care about her, and don't want her to get hurt.
It seems like your friend is just trying to impress the other girl. Is there something about the other girl that your friend has always envied?
You should also try talking to the other girl, maybe she isn't so bad... She might just seem mean. But, if she treats your friend like crap, maybe not...
If I were you, I would just keep trying to get your friend to understand that you are only trying to help her and, keep her feelings from being hurt.
Neon_Green_x3
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