Q: The other day he got very upset with me over a message he saw in my inbox from an ex bf. We got in the biggest fight about it and I had never even seen the message. He looked at it before I could and blew up about it.

I do get messages from the ex every now and then but I don't even read them, I automatically delete them. He claims that he only got on to do something I asked him to do. But, thing is, I asked him to do said thing MONTHS ago so I know that is not the reason he signed on my account.

So right now, I am in idk land wondering what to do about this whole situation. If it helps anything, im 18, him 19.

Q: i need to know if he likes me or is using me or what!?
i met this guy three weeks ago. hes perfect for me in every way and im a VERY picky girl. we were obsessed with eachother for the first few days. we went out, we kissed, we tried seeing eachother whenever we could, he was the sweetest. i thought we were about to go out. everyone in school was talking about it. we were perfect. i was waiting for him to ask me out...
he never did. the week after we made it clear we liked eachother and went out, he treated me like his girlfriend in front of people. we spent time together everyday because we were doing the same activity afterschool. hes a very flirty/friendly guy and always has girls flirting with him, which didnt bother me because we werent official and im not the jealous type. but other people thought we were going out so whenever he was with other girls, people looked at me like wtf? i think he thought i was jealous though cuz of all the people. anyway it didnt seem to matter to him, but then its three weeks later he still hasnt ask me out and hes different. like i was really starting to fall for him we are so perfect together...i dont get why he hasnt asked me out. im so confused, and now hes not as sweet, and doesnt txt me as often, doesnt call like he used to, and i think all the people got to his head or something. and we had a small argument when we were both in a bad mood and since then its not the same...hes cold and distant at times, especially around others, but then he still acts interested other times. during these few weeks we kissed and got close, and I'm starting to think he just maybe used me, but then y is he still showing interest? he calls and pays attention to me when he feels like it. and another thing, he said all the right things and i really started falling for him so now it really hurts that hes so different...i really don't understand what happened? why didn't he ask me out, it looked like he really wanted to! if he just wanted to use me he wouldn't have treated me like his girlfriend in school! what changed? i really need advice on this!!! should i try and forget about him?

Q: So i really like this girl and she likes me. and i dont want to rush things but i feel like just talking on the phone isnt enough its been since summer we have talked i think its time to start takin more steps but i dont want to rush anything whats an awesome way to ask her out?

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Q: so my best friend is a boy, which tends to make people think we're dating.. all of the time. haha. but the other night he finally told me that he has started to avoid being alone with me because he doesnt want either of us to miss out on relationships because people think we're dating.
that really bothers me because hes my best friend. we're supposed to be able to do things alone instead of having to wait and see if someone else can hang out as well. how do i convince him that he shouldnt care what others think and to stop avoiding times when we're alone?

Q: 15/ f
today, all of a sudden im getting pains right below my chest, and like in the center where your rips are next to eachother. should i be worried about this? It's like random pain coming back and forth every once in awhile.

Q: Ok so there is this guy that I dated last year but had to break up with him because of parents. They told me not to talk to him just hi bye stuff only. But i talk to him anyway but got caught txtn him so he cant text me but we talk at school. Anyway he told me that he loved me and other stuff, but my friend(i guess you could call her that) asked me if she should date him and that he told her that he liked her A LOT. So last month i told her to ask him if her still liked her because he told me that he didn't like her. She asked and he said yes that he still liked her. So I yelled at him and asked him why he lied to me. He said i'm sorry what can i do to make you still like me. Then he said I won't even talk to her. So i said ok. Well he asked me to kiss him like 2 days ago I said maybe. I never did but my friend asked me again if she should date him because he asked her again. So I told her he said he liked me. Then she asked him who he liked more and he said her. And I BET money that if i asked him that he'd say me. So I am really confused now because this guy lied to me and told me that he loved me and that i was the only girl he liked, but told her that he liked her more. I don't want to ask him but I AM SO MAD. Help me!!

Q: okay so at a party a guy tried to hook up with me....(just makeout not like actual sex or itd be rape) he basically forced me up against a wall and i couldnt get out of it...my boyfriend of 3 months walked in and he had to saddest look on his face that ive ever seen and he just walked out the door when i tried begging him to come back. my boyfriends friends with a few of my friends and they said that he was so heartbroken and i feel like shit because i feel like i wasnt cheating on him, even though it looked that way. i like him sooo much and i would never wanna lose him but i think i did =( my friends say he said he doesnt wanna talk cause hes too upset...what should i do? =(((

16/f

Q: When I try to perform a song...there's a disconnect between what I'm singing & how I'm feeling. I need some advice on how to captivate myself in the emotions the artist wants me to feel.
Particularly, "I Hope You Dance" by Lee Ann Womack.
what is it about?
thanks!

Q: So does anybody have any suggestions for teeth whitners, like the pros and cons of the prodeuct. thanks it would be really helpful!

Q: ok so this boy asked me for my number...well im kinda nervous to talk to him and i was wondering what are some things we could talk about with out there being any silent moments and i dont want to be boring but i dont want to talk too much either..plz help me...thanx alot!!!

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Q: Well, if you read my other questions, you know me and my "bestfriend" both 'like' the same guy, although i don't think she ilkes him. .. but whatever.
So now she's being a complete witch(if you know what i mean) to me. And she doesn't think so. But i know so, everyone says she treats me bad, but she thinks opposite, that I treat her bad.
We've been bestfriends since second grade, and I don't want that to end. But i don't know if i can handle how rude and witchy* she's been to me. I tell her about it, but all she does is 'backfire' it, and say it back to me. HELP! What should i do ? :/

Q: okay, so i met this kid through my friend and he had originally liked my one friend..but after we hung out more he liked me instead. well we would text and he was really talkative and would text me first. then we hung out like 2 times and the texting like slowly stopped..i would have to text him first and if he would respond it would be like one word answers that would make me feel annoying to text him. So, we hung out again after that and he was all cool in person and like talkative, flirty, blah blah blah. well then texting him the days after it was back to one word answers. he goes to another school so i never see him in the week and we hang out like once a month because he always seems to be busy and im not sure if hes worth liking. i mean i really seem to like him and dont really know why but i just don't know what to do
i dont want to just give up but my friends keep telling me hes a jerk...and really hes like not..like in person haha

i need some help =]

Q: 16/f

i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for about 2 months and i really love him. he's the best. but see, there's this guy in my gym class and he always flirts with me during class. after gym he sometimes even comes to my locker and walks me to my next period class. but here's the thing, i always meet up with my boyfriend in between classes and whenever the guy is at my locker, i have to take a detour so i dont see my boyfriend otherwise my boyfriend will think i'm cheating on him with this other kid. and then i have to lie and say that my gym class got let out late and thats why i didn't meet him.

you're probably thinking that i should just straight up tell this guy that i have a boyfriend. but i HATE making people feel bad. ABSOLUTELY HATE IT!! i actually kind of like this guy... but i know that i would be much much MUCH better off with my current boyfriend and i should stick with him. i'm not the type of girl who changes boyfriends every now and then... and i really DO NOT want to be those kinds of girls.

so what i think i'm saying is... i want to keep my current boyfriend, but i also like it when this other guy flirts with me, but i would not want him as my boyfriend.

WHAT SHOULD I DO??? help i'm so lost.

Q: So I just got braces. And I have a boyfriend and we kiss a lot? haha. But anyway, I havn't kissed him with the braces because i'm worried that something will go wrong and my braces will screw it all up. So is it really true that its really hard to kiss people with braces?!

Q: Alright, this guy i like so incredibly much just broke up with his gf...and we've been hanging out and talking, were both 18.
but i dunno how i should get him to want to ask me out, or on a date or something without straight up asking...???

Q: I like my ex - boyfriend and i know he likes me too cause he tells me all the time. but im scared of taking the chance and being with him again because it hasnt worked out in the past. and also my bestfriend would probably just tell me its a horrible idea. she tells me all the time that it would just be a waste of my time and i wouldnt be happy. i know its stupid but i dont want to disappoint her by trying things again with him. should i just forget what she says and try again, or listen to her cause she probably can see things i cant because i still care about him?

Q: so theres this guy. and we're always texting/iming and stuff.
he is ALWAYS asking me who i like. and the one who i like, is him.
so i really can't tell him yet. i don't know. it seems like he might like me since he's always asking me that. he has greeted me with smiley faces, loser (haha as a joke), and sexy. once. but still.
and today he asked me if i was prude. and was hypothetically speaking, what if i liked you and you liked me but we never knew because you wouldn't say who you liked. so tell me!
what do you think?
the only reason i'm doubting it, is because him and this girl were like in love and they broke up a while ago, but they stayed really good friends. and they like stopped recently. and sometimes i'm like whats up, and hes like talking to _____ :/.
i'm like is that bad?
hes like i don't know yet.
soo....help?

Q: A friend and I had sex tonight. this was definitely not the first time and the other times have been great. and he has acted pretty cool after and things weren't awkward by any means. so tonight, i was on my period. we still had sex but he didn't know i was on it. i probably should have told him i know. anyways, i'm not sure how much blood or whatever was on the condom. and i have a feeling when he went to throw it away he saw the blood on it. he hasn't said anything about it and when he came back into the room he was just kinda.. weird, not how he would normally act. but yeah needless to say it's very embarrassing. I don't think he will want to talk to me again after this.. would you confront a girl about this or not say anything? and if he does end up talking to me, should i say anything about it? i'm afraid he will tell his friends that's a reason it's embarrassing.

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