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He got on my facebook account!
The other day he got very upset with me over a message he saw in my inbox from an ex bf. We got in the biggest fight about it and I had never even seen the message. He looked at it before I could and blew up about it.
I do get messages from the ex every now and then but I don't even read them, I automatically delete them. He claims that he only got on to do something I asked him to do. But, thing is, I asked him to do said thing MONTHS ago so I know that is not the reason he signed on my account.
So right now, I am in idk land wondering what to do about this whole situation. If it helps anything, im 18, him 19.
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his very insecure dont let it get to you couples always fight well he makes it clear that he doesnt trust you none and that could really affects you guys .let him calm down and explain things to him but other than that theres really nothing you can do his gonna have to get over it.
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I would tell him that you don't keep in touch with your ex so he has nothing to be worried about. He really shouldn't be reading your messages anyways. If you don't want him reading your personal things, i would change your password and tell him you don't appriciate that.
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Tell him ONCE more that you do not read the messages from your ex, but if it makes him happy you will block/ignore him. (If you haven't been reading them anyways, this should be something you'd be willing to do.)
Then change your password to Facebook and anything else your boyfriend has access too. Tell him you think what he did in reading your private messages was very wrong, but are willing to let it go this time. Remind him that if anything like this happens again, you wont be so calm about it.
If you know that you did nothing wrong, put HIS jealous ass on the defensive. Because HE did do something wrong. Tell him that you wont let him blow up at you or punish you for this. Demand he trust what you've told him and tell him you have changed your passwords to avoid this kind of mess again.
If has a problem with the solutions I offered above of ignoring/blocking the guy and then changing your passwords, then he is an insecure child and possibly a controlling jerk and you should dump him.
If he can accept that solution. Good. There is some maturity for you.
If you have any of his passwords, get rid of them.
I know it seems cute to share this kind of information, but it's not. It's just asking for drama and trust issues. Just nip this problem in the bud now and be cautious if you ever find him snooping again.
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