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worst situation ever...
okay so at a party a guy tried to hook up with me....(just makeout not like actual sex or itd be rape) he basically forced me up against a wall and i couldnt get out of it...my boyfriend of 3 months walked in and he had to saddest look on his face that ive ever seen and he just walked out the door when i tried begging him to come back. my boyfriends friends with a few of my friends and they said that he was so heartbroken and i feel like shit because i feel like i wasnt cheating on him, even though it looked that way. i like him sooo much and i would never wanna lose him but i think i did =( my friends say he said he doesnt wanna talk cause hes too upset...what should i do? =(((
16/f
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Well this guy seems like he truly cares about you. Buy him his favorite candy and write him song saying how sorry you are and try to explain what happened. It may seem corny but I think I guy like that will think it's cute
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Keep calling him, go over to his house and tell him, write him a note or something because he really needs to know it's not your fault.
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I am sorry you are in this situation, but the first thing to do is to give him a little time to cool off, then talk to him face to face, tell him the truth, that you really did get forced up against a wall, and everything. Then after you explain everything to him, tell him how you really feel about him. Tell him how much he means to you and just be honest. I'm sure everything will get better, but it will take time. Oh one more thing, when you are talking to him, tell him face to face in person, b/c texting and on the phone doesn't cut it.
Good luck with everything, and just give it alittle time, I can't give you a set time, just when the opportunity presents itself take it.
Good luck :)
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Try talking to him face to face tell him that the boy forced you against the wall and you were trying to get him off of you. if you cant get him to talk to you face to face you can try a note or the phone but face to face would mean much more.
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give him a little bit of time. i dont know when exactly this happened but i think like 2 days after it happened should be enough. try talkin to him face to face because that always means more and a phone convo or txts or anything like that. just be honest with him and tell him how you feel about him and how miserable you have been since this happened and everything. and maybe try to ahve some of your friends talk to him. dont overwhelm him with ppl talkin to him and dont make it obvious that you asked them to talk to him but maybe have one or 2 friends tell him hhow upset you have been and that your tellin the truth. good luck and i hope it all works out.
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IT's too bad that the you don't know who the guy was at the party that kissed you like that. As far as your boyfriend goes, you really need to confront him about the situation. Do not do this via text messaging, e-mail, or phone. Simply confront him (face to face) and explain every stitch of detail to him of what happened that night. Normally he would resist in the beginning to not believe what you are saying, but if he trusts you and loves you enough to listen, than he will believe you and hopefully forgive you enough to understand. You should be the one upset seeing as how you made out with a guy at a party with no consent, not him.
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