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ok, i like this kid named nikk....and he said i mean alot to him but my 2 best friends like him too and one of them denies it but i kno she does because she was cryen when i gave him a hug. i just dont kno what to do because i want to be with him but my 2 best friends do too....HELP!!!! (link)
word of advice.. dont ruin friendship(s) over a dumbass guy..

thats all i gotta* say.. friends will ALWAYS be there to the end.. thats why friend and end rhyme.. guys just come and go..

guys die


okay, i know this is a stupid question, but whatever.
when you make out.. do you only put your/his tongue in his/your mouth, or do like.. you both put you're tongues in eachohters mouths at the same time?

i rate, thanks (link)
both.. depends on how you kiss.. really.. uh yeah i do it with his and mine in


last night I was at the movies with my boyfriend and we were making out. Then after that I noticed that he had his arm diagnal across *down there*...does that mean he had a boner and was trying to hide it?? lol thanks for the advice!! (link)
could mean it haha i bet he did.. all guys try to hide it .. dont wanna* get embaressed lol thats awesome.. same thing happened to me.. ((probably dont care but hell im gonna* tell you anyways)) but it was sadd* because* i didnt even touch him.. no kissin* nothin* i had a boyfriend and me and him were just friends we was hangin* out with... uh other people outside.. and he just got one cause* i sat down beside him haha hes a really good friend of mine.. well hope i helped..


I'm going out with this guy that my friends just absolutely hate! One of my friends even threatened to stab him in the neck with her pocket knife during church! I don't want to break up with the guy because he's absolutely perfect to me. What should I do?

prettykitty77723 (link)
uh say hell with your friend.. ((but still be her friend)) but just tell her how it is.. be like look i know you dont aprove of me and my boyfriend goin* out but who the hell asked for you opinion you need to grow up.. hes my troubles not yours so no need to worry you can handle him and she doesnt ... so what not.. just tell her that you still wanna* be her friend ((duh)) and be like its just that you need to stop threatening my boyfriend if ya* dont like him dont say shit to him ...

hope i helped


Ok. I am a 13 year old girl and i dont know why but when i go to sleep i think about sex a lot i mean a LOTT. I feel like i am the only one that does it. I feel like a porno-freak and i dont know why i do this it kind of comes naturally. Is it normal? I dont have my period yet and can anyone tell me what masturbating means??? i know a lot about sex but i dont know what to do about this. I think that if people find out they will hate me. I dont want to finger myself or anything. I just want to be a normal kid. I dont have a boyfriend and i dont think about anyone in paticular. I just think about sex. HELP ME!Since this was very long i will reat high if you try to help!!! (link)
it means your gettin* horny.. meaning* YOUR PERIODS COMIN* YOUR PERIODS COMin* YAY!!


ok i think im pregnet but i havent had sex. but i learned that sperm can live up to an our after leaving the penis and i was all over my friend w/ benefets with only underwear on. i have one of the symptoms witch is being able to smell things really well. do u think i could be pregnet, if so what should i do?


blondie
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im not even answering this question.. becuz* it is so stupid


hint hint your NOT PREGNANT


how do you know for sure you are ready to have sex? (link)
there is no sure way to know.. just do it when you kno* all the risks.. meaning know* what could happen.. getting any stds.. shit like that.. most people when they see all the shit that can happen to them if they have sex.. they dont have it.. i didnt say all people.. i said some =) have fun


i'm 16. i'm on birth control. my boyfriend of two years and i had sex the other night and he came inside me. i was just wondering if it is 100% positive that you do get pregnant if you get came inside of, and the whole birth control thing. thanks in advance for thoes who help. i'll rate good. (link)
im on bc.. and my ex boyfriend cummed in me.. i didnt get pregnant.. well once but yeah.. that doesnt count.. well yeah..nothin is 100 percent positive, effective.. just remember that..


Ok..so tomorrow is "wear your school colors day" because of the pep rally. I don't want to just wear the same old red,white,and blue outfit again. I want to design my own tshirt with some blue and red sharpies and have it say something catchy...what should i put? help! :)
-9th grade
-BPCHS
-Patriots
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hah who is this.. you must go to redland or crossroads


ok my guy friend was over a few weeks ago and we like open mouth kissed for about a minute and he did stick his tounge in my mouth and i stuck mine in his and he rubbed me "down there"(but i was wearing pants). people asked me if i made out with him and i just dont answer but hes telling people that he didnt make out with me it was just a kiss..... what was it? (link)
MEANS HE WAS USING YOU... it IS considered makin* out.. he just doesnt wanna* be called a loser for kissin* ya*.. >>heres the real advice... FIND BETTER


Ok im 13 and I have had sex twice....I know that I want to tell my mom....but i know that if I tell my mom she will tell my dad and I KNOW that he will flip out....But I had ses with a guy that i have been goin out with for 2 years already and we are still going out...so I dont think it is that big of deal...but how do I tell my parents without them like killing me??? Also do you think I am considered a slut or something because a couple people at my school do...
thanks (link)
if your a slut for havin* sex 2 times.. then i dont kno* what the hell i am.. ive had it maybe over.. um.. lets see 10 times haha a lot more but with the same guy.. and dont listen to that other bitch that she said like yeah i consider you as a slut.. its like look up the word bitch.. slut means sleeping around with OTHER guys.. first off you had sex with um hmm ONE guy.. and had it TWO times.. after TWO years of goin* out.. so she need to shut the fuck up..


how is it possible to have your period while pregnant? is it even possible at all? (link)
no its not possible a period is somethin* that destroys eggs.. WHICH you need for to be pregnant with a kid that is supposedly living on one of those eggs.. so now its not possible to have your period if your pregnant.. so somethin* or someone is lyin*


how do u know when your in love or what does love feel like? (link)
when you start feelin* pain, when you cry every night for that special* someone.. when you just wanna* cut your wrist just becuz* hes with someone else..


do guys like it better when girls shave "down there?" i've tried before w/ a razor but it stung sooo bad and i got razor burn horribly! does anybody know any ways you can shave w/ out it leaving bumps everywhere or stinging? thanks in advance! i rate 5s for good answers! (link)
if you really wanna* be romantic like that let the guy do the shaving... with his teeth...


Hey! Well this is the deal, and it will be long but I really need help at the moment and I ALWAYS rate :)

So anyways this summer I met this cute guy at work and even now we talk online, myspace etc. So he had a gf for a while and they broke up. On sat. we were going to go as a group with friends to 6 flags but ppl ended up not going so it was me and him. He was such a sweetheart. He held my hand most of the time, and when we went to see a show he put his arm around me and cuddled with me, on the way back to his car he gave me a piggy back ride home. Sounds great huh ? Well no, he had a "blind date" to go on the next day. Today he told me that it was a weird date cause the girl moved too fast and he didnt want a relationship now. Then he told me he had a much funner time with me ! Im thrilled that he did, but then again im like your going out with other girls and then you say you dont want a relationship. Im sorry but I feel the way he treats me is MORE then friends and it sorta sucks because I dont want to ruin what we have by telling him how I feel.. Please tell me what you guys think!

I know it was long, and im sorry lol. (link)
tellin him not how you feel can ruin it too.. id tell him everything.. i can see that you got jealous bout the blind date or you wouldnt have said anything about it.. just tell him that you know he says that he doesnt want a relationship now but if thats true why does he treat you like hes your boyfriend and yeah... tlk* to him bout* it see whats up and ask him how he feels bout* you.. if he hesitates.. means he was just thinkin like wow i really kinda do treat her like shes my girl.. or hes just a dick and cant find the words to tell you how he feels.. doubt it** he sounds really sweet.. good luck just remember if you dont like it then say somethin* dont just sit back and watch him drift away from you... think of the good things that may come out of tellin him.. maybe he'll be like you know your right maybe we should have a relationship together.. well hope i helped..


ok this is my 4 or 5 period (don't really remember) and it started on wednesday and on friday night i had like very very very little blood and over night there was none at all so it was 12 hours with no blood and now all of sudden i had kinda alot what the heck!? Please don' tell me "thats the way the body works or your periiod is iiregualr" i wanna why that happened?! (link)
uh because when your awake and bein active, like walkin and shit it bleeds alot BECAUSE thats how the body works... and when your sleepin* you dont mOVE asmuch so it doesnt bleed as much becuase thats the way the BODY works


What realitives name do you shout when you give up? (link)
immature skank


i started my period about 2 months ago. my vagina is changing..is that normal? if so what changes are normal???? (link)
uh.. mine didnt change.. and i guess my uh vagina is normal so somethings wrong.


Ok...there's this guy and i like him so much and i know him pretty well. My friend has only met him once but likes him too. I told her that i would try and fix them up but i don't know why i said that because i really wanna go out with him. What should i do? Should i ask him if he wants to hang out but ask my friend if it's ok first or should i just fix them up like i said. There is a 3 yr.age difference between both of us and this guy. I would never ruin a friendship over a guy. (link)
Then dont ruin your friendship over a guy even if you tell her that you like him and you really wanna go out with him and if you ask if its ohk and even if she says its ohk she doesnt mean it. Just ask yourself this did you mean it when you said youd hook them both up(and be ok with it)? No exactly, i would tell her but dont ruin it over a guy.. Just remember this boys come and go friends will always be there in times like of trouble. Hope I helped.


Homecoming is coming up soon. I can't go because my uncle's wedding is on the same day. But my boyfriend is considering going with my friend who can't find a date, actually she can she just doesn't feel like going with the guy she likes for some reason. Anyways, I said I was okay with them going, but I'm really not but saying I'm okay with it so I don't look too possessive. But I feel uncomfortable with any girl going to one of the most romantic dances with my boyfriend. Should I tell them I'm not okay with it? How do I tell them without sounding like I don't trust them? Is this a bad sign on the boyfriend's part or can he really be doing it just to be nice? And is it bad on the friend's part? (link)
I wouldnt be ohk with it either. Tell them exactly what you just said that your not ohk with it and that you think its wrong that your friend even considered goin with your boyfriend in the first place or vice versa. You wont sound to possessive you have a right to be jealous if any of my friends did that I'd fuckin kill them. Whos ever suggestion it was to go with each other I would tell them that your not comfortable that your goin with my boyfriend or my friend. Sorry you cant go it must suck but have fun at the wedding... Hope I helped pretty sure I didnt. Look at it this way your the only person yet so far that I have been nice to and gave a straight answer instead of a dumbass insult.

Cyaz,
ShanN*




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