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Friends, or More ?
Hey! Well this is the deal, and it will be long but I really need help at the moment and I ALWAYS rate :)
So anyways this summer I met this cute guy at work and even now we talk online, myspace etc. So he had a gf for a while and they broke up. On sat. we were going to go as a group with friends to 6 flags but ppl ended up not going so it was me and him. He was such a sweetheart. He held my hand most of the time, and when we went to see a show he put his arm around me and cuddled with me, on the way back to his car he gave me a piggy back ride home. Sounds great huh ? Well no, he had a "blind date" to go on the next day. Today he told me that it was a weird date cause the girl moved too fast and he didnt want a relationship now. Then he told me he had a much funner time with me ! Im thrilled that he did, but then again im like your going out with other girls and then you say you dont want a relationship. Im sorry but I feel the way he treats me is MORE then friends and it sorta sucks because I dont want to ruin what we have by telling him how I feel.. Please tell me what you guys think!
I know it was long, and im sorry lol.
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I think you should flat out tell him everything. Seriously. Because by not telling him, he doesn't know. So tell him and then see what happens from there.
♥ Melissa
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tellin him not how you feel can ruin it too.. id tell him everything.. i can see that you got jealous bout the blind date or you wouldnt have said anything about it.. just tell him that you know he says that he doesnt want a relationship now but if thats true why does he treat you like hes your boyfriend and yeah... tlk* to him bout* it see whats up and ask him how he feels bout* you.. if he hesitates.. means he was just thinkin like wow i really kinda do treat her like shes my girl.. or hes just a dick and cant find the words to tell you how he feels.. doubt it** he sounds really sweet.. good luck just remember if you dont like it then say somethin* dont just sit back and watch him drift away from you... think of the good things that may come out of tellin him.. maybe he'll be like you know your right maybe we should have a relationship together.. well hope i helped..
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Hey,
Hmmm. I'm sure we al have this problem at one point, I know I did. It's almost as if the guy is sending you mixed signals. It sounds to me though that he does like you, there is no harm in teling him how you feel because what's the worst that could happen? He'll either admit to his feelings to or get all weird on you if that's not how he feels. If that's the case then it's not your fault, you didn't ruin anything, he wasn't worth it if he's going to let that ruin a friendship.
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