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Sup, my name's Aaron, i'm a band freak, health freak, grammar freak, perfectionist, and I just love to watch people do stupid things even if it includes me, because heck there's no point in being uptight about life when in the end it all ends... hahah gotta love my type right? There's not much about me that you probably haven't heard that you can't compare to other people, I mean i'm a friendly person who once you get to know me, tends to grow on you like mold on bread. I'm smart, courageous, a leader, fun, loving, honest, brutally honest, sadistic, idiotic at times, ignorant to certain topics, indifferent in some controversial issues, unconcerned about what you think about me, happy, sad, depressed, angry, and basically any other attribute you can give to a 16 year old teenager. I'm an ex-swimmer, meaning that I quit... just because of band, and no i'm not that big a band freak, I'd just rather be playing my instrument and feeling the soothing sensation that music has to bring as opposed to getting stressed about being beat by other people! But no, haha I love swimming and if my school allowed me to take both at the same time without sacrificing my grades I probably would. I'm not the kind of person that sits and watches something, for instance, I hate watching football but I love playing it just because of the adrenaline rush. Blah, haha not sure what else to say, I mean I suppose I can tell you that i'm chinese, and uhh that's about it I think... I like to philosophize haha if that makes any sense, I feel that although philosophy is basically the "DUH" of life, sometimes you just need to be told, DUH. There's nothing better than discovering the obvious... Anyways, life's so much easier for probably you and me if we chatted on AOL, my screen name is An3mu5c0r9u5 yup yup =D hehe

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omg.. i just tried to respond to a question.. and it said.. "Chatspeak detected. Type in english please." and it wont let me answer it! and i did type in english? why?

eh... maybe you used abbreviations that aren't considering "english" so... yeah...

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For Christmas I may get my belly button peirced, I need to know a few things. Does it hurt? How long until you can change the belly ring. How much do belly button rings cost? Thats it... thanks in advance.

It hurts, probably until a week + and they probably cost around 10-20 dollars depending on what kind they are

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alrighty..well i have a big group of friends over alot...but its starting to get boring because we just do the same thing over and over and over again...we either come to one of our houses and watch movies, or go to the movies...i want to do something new! and fun! what should we do?...btw..something guys and girls would have fun doing...but we are all just friends, so nothing gross..if ya know what i mean lol

go swimming! play laser tag! go and do something go out to eat that's always fun... go play pool at some place near by!

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I have been with my boyfriend for three years n still havent got pregant n it is really scaring me because I want a baby now.What shounld I do.

oh wow... how old are you may I say? and I think you should get married before you get pregnant just because of economically that's better plus you won't have to worry about names..

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what do you do when you know (or think) a guy doesnt like you but your just like totally infatuated by him and he just like makes your heart hurt whenever you think about him or see him?

you try to get over him and look for someone else

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I think I need to get over this guy. I've liked this boy for a really long time and we have went out before and we have done stuff. But the thing is he always likes me obsessively and then stops talking to me for a while, then over and over and over again. I'm pretty much sick of it but I think everytime he comes around I like him more and become more attached. I like sooooo much but I don't think I need this. How do I just get over him? Everytime I really try and start to really do, that's when he comes back to me and catches me again. There is no way I can really just stop him or stop myself from liking him. Anyone have any ideas? Thanks

well... you need to talk to him.. and tell him that you're the kind of person that takes a relationship slowly and that his "impulsivness" is driving your brain off the scale and that it's making you confused because he is on and off...

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okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers!

lol... well unfortunately i think you have to tell them, i mean depending on how old you are... will determine how much they'll freak out... you should tell them that you boyfriend gave it to you so that you will be protected from being impregnated and tell them that you haven't had sex yet.. and that you just wanted to be safe if it happens.. and after that you'll probably be given a very long speech on sex... so just take it and then go to your room

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hey im 14 and im male, i really like two girls at my school equally and i heard they both like me but i dont wanna choose one cuz then the other would get angry and im friends with them so i dont wanna lose a friend/friends what should i do?

well this is a hard thing to do... so i'd say keep them as friends and go look for someone else... that way you won't have to worry about breaking a friendship bond..

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this kid (corey) likes me ALOT. i only like him as a bestfriend, but i love him to death. he asked me to formal. at the same time, this other kid who I like is supposed to ask me. well when Corey asked me online to the formal, i said without thinking "well no because im waiting for someone else to ask me, but if he doesnt i'll go with you" and then i realized thats the WORST thing anyone could possibly say. and hes CRUSHED! i freaked out and apologized. he replied "its okay, i should have known not to ask you, you wouldnt go with me anyway" and now i feel like SHIT! i told my parents and they said im an asshole for saying that. they said if i end up not getting a date, that i SHOULDNT go with him because thats insulting and he deserves better. i feel SO BAD. what can i do/say to make it up to him?

well, there really isn't anything else to do to make it up to him.. I mean maybe YOU should ask HIM out to the formal and you need to tell him that, you know, I'm really sorry for saying that to you online, and all though i did mean it I just don't want us not to be close friends.. if he says f off then just take it and leave because you know, he likes you and he asked you to the formal and you shut him down.. so there isn't much of any redemption from that

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ok well there is this guy and his name is Josh..we have liked each other a lot for a while..and he asked me out and of course i said yes..well we went out for a day then he broke up with me and claimed that he didnt want a girlfriend right now. Well after that he stopped talking to me. And i do not know why he did this because we only went out for a day and it shouldn't be awkward at all really!! and i want to know..how do i get him to talk to me? because im not the type to go up and talk to him if he doesnt want to talk to me! people say he still likes me and he didnt break up with me cuz he didnt like me or ne thing..he just didnt want his relationship with me to end like his other g/f's did (they went out for 9 months and then never talked after) so how do i get him to talk to me?

well then you need to get it through his head that you aren't like his other girlfriend... and one way to get him to talk is to corner him in the hall or something and tell him face to face, I need to talk to, and then specify and time and place... now I know you might not be the one that is outgoing so, gather a couple of your friends so that they can back you up for support.

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ok so i asked you guys adivce earlier on what i should get my bf of 2 years for x-mas, and most of you said i should make a scrapbook. i think that's a really good idea, but i really have no idea how to make one! i was also thinking about taking 12 pics of us to kinkos and making a calendar out of it. guys opinions here would be good, but girls are welcome too. which do you think would be better? how should i go about making the scrapbook? thanks

well a calendar would be cool, but is he that kind of person that is organized, cause if not he'll just put it away and never see it again... also a scrap book is kinda "feminine" for us guys.. so the best I can say is get a movie, eat some dinner in front of the fire, and then give him a gift that is a beanie cause beanies are things we guys like best =D

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Hi. Ok, I have this little problem! See, I really like this guy & all but he's throwin me mixed signals! Like.. I've only known him for like 4 months & we became good friends fast. I was the first one to go and talk to him & he's new at our school this year. All my friends were to chicken to go & talk to him because they were like, "He's soo hot what if I say something stupid?" Ok.. well, I'm an outgoing person so that was easy for me! Anyways.. he'll say stuff like, Stephanie's gay!, so the whole class hears it but I dont care because I'm not gay & he's just kidding & he's always asking me about my boyfriends and how far I've gone with a guy. When I dont talk to him at all, he gets all sad like, "You broke my heart", but then he starts laughin. I dunno if he likes me likes me or if we're just good friends. What do you think?

I think he's a big flirt... you should talk to him one on one and express your feelings to him, maybe then he'll stop acting like a jerk at times and take you seriously... I mean guys tend to do that just because they are bored and they like to see girls mad, so just talk to him and make sure that he understands that you like him

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ok there's this boy i like but i don't know what to tell him i'm only a 13 tear old girl wh's really cofussed i don't know if he likes me. How do i find out if he likes me back? My best friend asked him out for me but he said no but now me and him are becoming really really good friends an i don't want to ruein our friendship. what sould i do?

well.. first of all you should decide whether you want to risk asking him out and being turned down... everyone has to do that no matter what... and you should also maybe give it some time.. if I know guys, and I do, they tend to finally realize that the "girl" likes him so just give him some signs and he'll come through

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okay so .. i broke up with this guy a little while ago. But when i see him i still think about him. My friends say i should go back out with him .. but i dont want to .. i dont think im the type of girl to have a boyfriend but i also like having one too. I dont know what i should do. I dont even know if he still likes me. I think i just still have left over feelings for him but i dont think i could go back out with him. I kinda want to .. but then again im talking to another boy .. so i dont know what to do ..

well, I think that you just need closure, it seems that the relationship you had with him was strong so when it went away you "yearn" for that same feeling.. you'll get over it but for now concentrate on school and maybe you'll find someone else that you like that won't be a dud

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Thank you for you help. I'd like the idea of throwing a party, but I live in CA and they all live in OK. I already know the sex (and it's a boy) and we already picked out a name. But I've never even spoken with most of them on the phone. Should I mention the baby? And if so, should I say "as you may have heard, we are expecting a baby in March and are pleased to announce it is a boy" or something like that?

yeah, I think you should just so that they know that you at least care about what they think... I mean maybe if it's not too much trouble you should try going to them if that all live in Oklahoma.. another thing that will also make know that you care about them even though you've never met them... and if you do that you should go with your sister in law just so that you don't get lost... it'll be a fun christmas for all of you

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well i like this guy...and i guess he sorta likes me... like a little bit... i want him to like me enough to go out with me...how do i do that? how do i tell him i like him? how do i get him to like me moore!! i need hellpp!!

well just talk to him and express your feelings to him... simple as that

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i just went to the doctor because i was having this problem at night where i cant do anything but breathe (kinda long story)and the doctors said i have someting called absence seizures or something and they said i have to get a "brain scan" or "mri" done..whats an MRI?? i heard that its a big black thing, and im really scared..i feel really uncomfortable with the problem to and i hate it... i dont wanna go to the hospital and stick my head into something...this is really bad, and im 14 and STILL somewhat frightened of the dark!! does anyone know anything to help me?? someone just please say something anything will help! thanks

MRI is when they xray your brain but it's an xray that doesn't cause any damage to your brain unlike other xrays... lol it's not dark just go and find out from your doctor

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Alright, my girlfriend just ended her period and we were thinking of sex. I tried to get a condom but with no luck. Now I checked up on it and people say after a period, there is no egg. So I thought, even without a condom, if we had sex and I,"Pulled out early." If there is a chance of pregnancy.

well if you pull out early in any case than that's good but you should tell her to wash herself after just to make sure that there wasn't anything transferred

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okay, i just started my peroid a few days ago, i`m 13. i found pads are annoying. i tried tampons but they hurt so bad and i can`t even get them in, is there something im doing wrong? i looked at the directions and everything, and i have almost the smallest size, can anyone help?

oo talk to your doctor and explain to her your problems

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i was @ my friends house and i stole 40$ should i give it back, because she has no idea it was in her closet.

LOL... wow... well hmmm I'd hate to say that finders keepers but you should tell her about it... just so that she knows that you're not a thief... plus she might be really angry if you tell her... so i dunno

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