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I was wondering I it possible to get pregnant from swallowing? Me and my boyfriend have been messing around and this question came up. Thanks.

Well from what I've learned in Health you have to get the male to enter all that stuff in your REPRODUCTIVE system so i don't think anything will happen if it is in your mouth.Hope I've helped.:)

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I need your help. I am really close to this girl and we knew each other for a long time. We are best friends and she's like a sister to me. The problem is that she is starting to get on my nerves. She is always talking about guys all the time and she's all obssesed with them. It really annoys me because she doesn't know the guy and she is inlove with him! It's so annoying! And if the guy flirts with someone she gets really mad to that girl and I think the guy she likes can't get a girl anymore because all the girls know that if they flirt with him, she will get mad at her! She will also be really sad because of that. Don't tell me to just talk to my friend because I'm sure that if I talked to her about this, she will be so mad at me and our friendship will be over! Please help me! Should I just stop being friends with her because she just gets on my nerves. And she gets mad really fast!

Either way confront her this girl may take it pretty hard. Guys were made for girls, but i understand where you're coming from when you want help with your friend. I know it's hard to see her get so attached to one guy that she prob. hardley even knows,but that's life. You may get her to back off a little by wanting to spend more time with her. Yeah guys are gonna be around but they'll come and go. Try talking about a certain guy to her and see how it makes her feel. Then give an example of another girl you might both know and say she's all into guys and it's getting annoying. See what advice she has to give to you and then switch it around and put that advice with her case. I would advise you to talk to her but I'd hate for you to lose a friendship too. You may end up putting y'alls friendship on a break for awhile, but y'all will come back around and she'll see she missed you and hopefully get over all the guys she was once into... maybe not for good but well enough that it won't get to be so nerve racking. If neither of these approaches work and you still want to be as close as yall are then it might just be that you'll have to deal with it until maybe one day she can hear herself and see how she gets so hooked on guys and cure her habits on her own. :)

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i really like chicken but i cant decide if i even should EAT IT!!, or even if not that should i EVEN FRIE IT OR WHAT!? ahh so many decisions...I NEED HELP!

Um okay...haha I'm gonna try to take this seriously. Let's see um...I really don't think chicken is too bad to eat unless you're a vegetarian or something. Fried, Boiled, any way chicken isn't harmful so it's perfectly fine to eat it, and if you don't want to you don't have to. LoL!

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well i kinda liked this guy-but ofcourse something has to go WRONG! well anyways he only talks to me if he wants something(like a cd or like some other stuff) gosh its frusteratinggg and i want to be nice-but its getting to the point when i cant take it anymore. it kinda hurts my feelings that he is just using me and he never liked me... like next time he trys to talk to me what should i say? should i just quit talking to him

Oh gosh guys are so hateful sometimes. It's like they have no feelings at all. Let him know that he's basically using you and you do not like it. Don't let him do that to you and especially don't let him think he can keep on acting like this and still get what he wants in return. Since it's gotten to the point that you can't take it anymore just tell him no next time and see how he reacts. If he still trys asking for something more on another occasion go on explaing to him that it's not worth it anymore. Tell him what's bothering you and if he takes it well then hopefully that'll be the end of that and he'll show that he cares about you. If it turns out that he doesn't understand where you're coming from then he's not worth your time and it may be time to cut off all connections you had with him and just let him go and let another girl live with his antics. I'm sorry he acts like that towards you and I hope I could be some help and everything turns out for the best! :)

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Should I ask this girl out? It seems like were going out, but were really not. And people think were going out but were not. What should I do? And I do like this girl a lot

This is all up to you. It may seem like y'all are going out, but to her y'all may just be really good friends. Make sure you haven't gone out with any of her close friends or her sister because if so it's NOT happenin! haha ;) She likes you alot too and that's why y'all are such best best best friends! Take a best friend or leave it! xoxo :)

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well i really like this guy .. but his ex girlfriend is kinda getting in the way . shes like no i dont like him anymore or i dont care if u like him. but i know that i would really hurt her feelings if i continued to talk to him. By the way me and his ex girlfriend are kinda friends. we dont talk really that much, at all. i just really like him but i dont know what to do!PLease help!

Aw this seems like a love triangle to me! lol Im sure you're not alone in this type of situation so the advice I can think of is to seriously talk to the girl. Talk to her on a one on one basis and let her know that you really do like him and you want to continue on with him and see where it goes, but you just can't if it means that she'd get upset even if she claims she doesn't like him anymore. Tell her that even though y'all don't really talk too much you do consider her your friend and you don't want to loose that over a guy, but that you are attracted to him overall. Just hear her out and listen to her words to see if behind the "no it's really okay" see if you can detect some type of negativity still lingering on. If you do notice and know that she's isn't over him just give it time. No girl can get over a guy they liked too quickly but over time it will happen! You may not get to talk to the guy on a romantic "i like you" level but talking even as friends is usually what guys want first! I hope everything turns out for the best! :)

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OKAY. I have this problem. I use to go out with this girl, but we broke up and decided to take some time apart..... Now I know I wont her for sure and im not really sure if she feels the same about me. Sometimes I think she likes me and sometimes I think she hates me. how can I found out if she likes me.....And top know if she wonts to get back together? I hope you can help. Sorry I dont know you. Buh Bye

Girls can send out different signals alot of the time. Just try to read her the best you can, but don't be afraid to ask if she does like you. There's only two things she could say which would be yes or no. She may want more time apart but there might always be that hope for y'all so don't give up just let her breathe for awhile and things will just go how their destined to on their own.

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well my friends and i have been talking about this....we feel as if were 2nd in her life. she just got a bf and she already spends 24/7 with him. she never wants to hang out with us anymore. she thinks her bf will get mad if hang out with her.shes doing everything he says and not what she wants to do.it really pisses us off that we are no longer important to her anymore.. like we've always been there for her and now she is like stabbing us in the back and we're gettin tired of it. What can we do to change this? Thanks for your help

Whoa y'all are in 2nd?! Well to start off with it's usually the golden rule for girls to make friendships come first and guys should never wreck anything between best friends!!! Talk to her, remind her of the good times y'all had before this guy came along. At the same time allow her to feel as if she can still obtain this boyfriend but don't let him speak for her! Point out that she only does what he says and she can never do for herself..don't let the guy get between yall even if she isn't showing any signs of letting him go. Express to her that yall feel as if yall are 2nd in her life than 1st or at least closer to her than yall had been before. If yall even want to take the step of talking to her boyfriend it may add to a resolution as well. Tell him that this is yall friend and even though he may show alot of compassion towards her yall want to show the same love for her as well but yall cant since he's always with her and yall can never spend quality friend time together. I really hope yall can get back to the top!!! Sooner or later she'll miss yall too!!!!

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i like a zillion boys. none of them seem to like me! what am i doing wrong? i get all depressed when the like dont wanna hang out w/ me! what am i doing wrong? am i annoying? do i look bad? I need advice!i just really dont know what to do... i think i should move! PLEASE HELP!

I know this may sound really cheesy but beauty comes from the inside out. If you have a great personality it will def. shine through and show on the outside as well and I'm sure everyone will see that because no one looks bad so neither do you. There's so many guys in this world so even if you think a zillion guys have passed you up don't dwell on it because you sound like an awesome girl! The guys will see what they let go later on and guys always come back to what they later realize they can't have so go on to some other guys, and show the other ones you're totally over it, but if that doesn't work your friends will always be there for you and I'm sure they wouldnt want to see you move. There is so many years you have left to live so just be as patient as you can and mr. perfect will come. As for right now just roll with the punches but don't let anything get you down especially guys...they never understand much about us girls! lol I hope I've helped! :)

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This chick wonts to go to the movies and kiss me for her Chirstmas present. And God knows I dont like her. I like somone else. What should I do?

Hey! Aww all she wants for Christmas is you! Well if you don't like her then let her know that. Tell her you're willing to go to the movies (if you are) but you don't want to lead her on and think she's gonna get a kiss out of it! You just need to lay down the law with her and tell her whats up okay? Tell her you're after another girl and you value y'alls friendship but you don't want it to be anything more than just that. Whatever you do...do NOT do anything you'll regret and don't let her push you into anything you don't feel comfortable doing! Hope I've helped! :)

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ok I have a problem. my FRIEND, who isnt my girl friend cuz I dont have one, wants me to have sex with her. the other day I was chilling at her house and her parents left to go to the mall..And she went in her bath room and when she came out she was naked. And she was trying to force me to do things with her. What should I do, cause I dont wanna do anything with her?!?!?

Whoa this FRIEND is pretty crazy! You just really got to let her know that you are not ready to step in that direction and that you rather just be friends with her. As a friend to her you need to make her realize that her pushing you into doing something so serious such as sex is not cool at all and that she needs to chillout! Let her know that you are not the kind of guy that is ready to have sex and especially with her bc she is just a friend! I really hoped I helped bc this is a major deal! All I have left to say is PLEASE do not give in to her temptations okay? Be strong!! :)

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i think im ugly.what can i do to be pretty? please help!

Aw don't even worry about anything like that. As the saying goes it only matters what is on the inside and that's exactly what counts. I'm sure you're a great person so just run with that and people will like you for you, and if they don't then they don't matter. Don't base your life on pleasing people just live it like you want to. Don't put yourself down okay? Everyone is awesome in their own way and you are too of course!!! Stay positive alright? I hope I helped. :)

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yeah well there is this boy that i like and he says he likes me but he has this girl who is his BEST friend and it pisses me off. i dont want to seem like a bitch and complain about it all the time but it makes me upset that they always talk and crap. and he has made it clear to me that he is NOT going to quit being friends w/ her. and i know its bad to be this jealous but i mean if u knew how they were then you would understand. HELP!!

-random weirdo-

Hey! Well hm..how are they that makes you so jealous? That's all I dont get, but I totally understand where you're coming from! Just let the guy know how you feel about him but don't take it to where you hate his best friend. They're just friends so I really don't think you have anything to worry about. If you want to fill the position of being the gilr he always talks to start to hang out with him more or surprise him with calls. Just be yourself and I'm sure he'll see you for you and though he may still remain best friends with this girl you may become the girlfriend which is what you want right? Even though they may be best friends I think you may want to talk to the girl as well and she may be the type to back off of him a bit and clear the way for you. Well I sure hoped I helped but if you have anything more to add just let me know!! Keep me updated on how it goes! :)

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Is April my Superstar?

hahahahaha Good one Jeremy!! funny stuff funny stuff!! superstar super model...which ever seems the same to me! ;) 2 fingers like a playa!!

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Should my two best friends...which they happen to be twins help me in Spanish?

I think one of these days the time will come where you'll realize that the only way to get help is to help yourself! lol Denzel we'll help you okay?! xoxo

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