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friend is spending all the time with her bf
well my friends and i have been talking about this....we feel as if were 2nd in her life. she just got a bf and she already spends 24/7 with him. she never wants to hang out with us anymore. she thinks her bf will get mad if hang out with her.shes doing everything he says and not what she wants to do.it really pisses us off that we are no longer important to her anymore.. like we've always been there for her and now she is like stabbing us in the back and we're gettin tired of it. What can we do to change this? Thanks for your help
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Whoa y'all are in 2nd?! Well to start off with it's usually the golden rule for girls to make friendships come first and guys should never wreck anything between best friends!!! Talk to her, remind her of the good times y'all had before this guy came along. At the same time allow her to feel as if she can still obtain this boyfriend but don't let him speak for her! Point out that she only does what he says and she can never do for herself..don't let the guy get between yall even if she isn't showing any signs of letting him go. Express to her that yall feel as if yall are 2nd in her life than 1st or at least closer to her than yall had been before. If yall even want to take the step of talking to her boyfriend it may add to a resolution as well. Tell him that this is yall friend and even though he may show alot of compassion towards her yall want to show the same love for her as well but yall cant since he's always with her and yall can never spend quality friend time together. I really hope yall can get back to the top!!! Sooner or later she'll miss yall too!!!!
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