Question Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 7:03 pm
well i really like this guy .. but his ex girlfriend is kinda getting in the way . shes like no i dont like him anymore or i dont care if u like him. but i know that i would really hurt her feelings if i continued to talk to him. By the way me and his ex girlfriend are kinda friends. we dont talk really that much, at all. i just really like him but i dont know what to do!PLease help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BrillntBrunettes answered Wednesday December 15 2004, 7:31 pm: Aw this seems like a love triangle to me! lol Im sure you're not alone in this type of situation so the advice I can think of is to seriously talk to the girl. Talk to her on a one on one basis and let her know that you really do like him and you want to continue on with him and see where it goes, but you just can't if it means that she'd get upset even if she claims she doesn't like him anymore. Tell her that even though y'all don't really talk too much you do consider her your friend and you don't want to loose that over a guy, but that you are attracted to him overall. Just hear her out and listen to her words to see if behind the "no it's really okay" see if you can detect some type of negativity still lingering on. If you do notice and know that she's isn't over him just give it time. No girl can get over a guy they liked too quickly but over time it will happen! You may not get to talk to the guy on a romantic "i like you" level but talking even as friends is usually what guys want first! I hope everything turns out for the best! :) [ BrillntBrunettes's advice column | Ask BrillntBrunettes A Question ]
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